Never been anyone’s first choice

[SideProfiler]

Im a pretty social person, been pretty happy with my life until recently when I fought with one of my friends, he was like my best friend so naturally we had lots of circles colliding,
Ever since I cut him off, not a single person reached out to me, like we do text, some asked if something’s off but I’m being ignored a lot, no one asks me if I wanna hang out with them anymore. We used to sit together (the whole friend group) now I’m coping sitting with some retard

The guy I fought with apologized to me yesterday but I’m not sure I should forgive him, and I’m almost like I got no friends rn all I do is either study or watch reels.

Is there some magical way I can become a friend group first option, or at least one friend?

 

[zygosmasher12]

Unless you’re a high status htn+ or get used by your friend group for money/status etc. You will never be the first option

 

[copingmaxnt]

Im a pretty social person, been pretty happy with my life until recently when I fought with one of my friends, he was like my best friend so naturally we had lots of circles colliding,
Ever since I cut him off, not a single person reached out to me, like we do text, some asked if something’s off but I’m being ignored a lot, no one asks me if I wanna hang out with them anymore. We used to sit together (the whole friend group) now I’m coping sitting with some retard

The guy I fought with apologized to me yesterday but I’m not sure I should forgive him, and I’m almost like I got no friends rn all I do is either study or watch reels.

Is there some magical way I can become a friend group first option, or at least one friend?

The answer is right there bro forgive him

 

[SideProfiler]

Unless you’re a high status htn+ or get used by your friend group for money/status etc. You will never be the first option

It’s true that the best looking guy in the friend group is the first option, and there’s like some jesters. But I can’t be sure it’s correlated lol

 

[trump]

me neither

 

[SideProfiler]

The answer is right there bro forgive him

I don’t want to be a push over, wouldn’t that just let him do wtv

 

[SideProfiler]

me neither

Ur trump that’s why

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

Those arent your friends, the guy you fought with is your friend and the others are his friends

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

Ur trump that’s why

Son

 

[trump]

Ur trump that’s why

wdym

 

[SideProfiler]

Those arent your friends, the guy you fought with is your friend and the others are his friend

So what should I do, cut them off and find new friends?
It’s hard to when it’s the middle of school

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

So what should I do, cut them off and find new friends?
It’s hard to when it’s the middle of school

"Find new friends" jfl, that would be ideal but unlikely to happen

 

[SideProfiler]

"Find new friends" jfl, that would be ideal but unlikely to happen

True shi