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I’ve recently decided to date based on love, and at first everything was going good. She likes me it seems, but if I’m honest, the longer this relationship lasts the more I realize she’s just like every other girl. She makes my heart ache, and my obsessive nature comes out a lot whenever she seems to show any attractive interest in another man. I’m 6’3 and a half, and I’d give myself around hmtn, but this still isn’t enough to be the only guy in her eyes. My heart aches because I want to be the only guy in a girl’s eyes. She’s literally below average in the nicest way possible, but I thought because of that she’d only have eyes for me. I think I was wrong. Even if she’s loyal, doesn’t cheat, and loves me, it still isn’t enough. I need to ascend way more. No matter what girl you’re with, you’ll probably end up feeling this way. It’s never enough, man. I feel like I can tell her anything and she still loves me, but why can’t I be the only person in her eyes? Why can’t anyone love me the way I love them? I’m so tired. Maybe if I get Chadlite this wouldn’t happen, but no matter what looks level you date, this still happens. Honestly, the higher their looks level, the more open they can be about it, but if their heart is doing the same thing anyway, isn’t it the same? This is why dating down is stupid, because no girl will only love you. There’s always going to be a Chad out there that they want.

TLDR: No matter what looks level you date in they will never only want you.
 
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I’ve recently decided to date based on love, and at first everything was going good. She likes me it seems, but if I’m honest, the longer this relationship lasts the more I realize she’s just like every other girl. She makes my heart ache, and my obsessive nature comes out a lot whenever she seems to show any attractive interest in another man. I’m 6’3 and a half, and I’d give myself around hmtn, but this still isn’t enough to be the only guy in her eyes. My heart aches because I want to be the only guy in a girl’s eyes. She’s literally below average in the nicest way possible, but I thought because of that she’d only have eyes for me. I think I was wrong. Even if she’s loyal, doesn’t cheat, and loves me, it still isn’t enough. I need to ascend way more. No matter what girl you’re with, you’ll probably end up feeling this way. It’s never enough, man. I feel like I can tell her anything and she still loves me, but why can’t I be the only person in her eyes? Why can’t anyone love me the way I love them? I’m so tired. Maybe if I get Chadlite this wouldn’t happen, but no matter what looks level you date, this still happens. Honestly, the higher their looks level, the more open they can be about it, but if their heart is doing the same thing anyway, isn’t it the same? This is why dating down is stupid, because no girl will only love you. There’s always going to be a Chad out there that they want.

TLDR: No matter what looks level you date in they will never only want you.
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I’ve recently decided to date based on love, and at first everything was going good. She likes me it seems, but if I’m honest, the longer this relationship lasts the more I realize she’s just like every other girl. She makes my heart ache, and my obsessive nature comes out a lot whenever she seems to show any attractive interest in another man. I’m 6’3 and a half, and I’d give myself around hmtn, but this still isn’t enough to be the only guy in her eyes. My heart aches because I want to be the only guy in a girl’s eyes. She’s literally below average in the nicest way possible, but I thought because of that she’d only have eyes for me. I think I was wrong. Even if she’s loyal, doesn’t cheat, and loves me, it still isn’t enough. I need to ascend way more. No matter what girl you’re with, you’ll probably end up feeling this way. It’s never enough, man. I feel like I can tell her anything and she still loves me, but why can’t I be the only person in her eyes? Why can’t anyone love me the way I love them? I’m so tired. Maybe if I get Chadlite this wouldn’t happen, but no matter what looks level you date, this still happens. Honestly, the higher their looks level, the more open they can be about it, but if their heart is doing the same thing anyway, isn’t it the same? This is why dating down is stupid, because no girl will only love you. There’s always going to be a Chad out there that they want.

TLDR: No matter what looks level you date in they will never only want you.
You seems nice she didn't deserve you idk I'd want you to suggest sth maybe try to improve yourself and it's really rare to find such a girl I'd also want a virgin but realistically the only option is probably smn from village and she doesn't socialise a lot
 
You seems nice she didn't deserve you idk I'd want you to suggest sth maybe try to improve yourself and it's really rare to find such a girl I'd also want a virgin but realistically the only option is probably smn from village and she doesn't socialise a lot
I mean even if she’s a virgin, she’ll still think about someone else. I feel like it’s impossible to find a girl that only loves you and has eyes for you alone.
 
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I mean even if she’s a virgin, she’ll still think about someone else. I feel like it’s impossible to find a girl that only loves you and has eyes for you alone.
Ye but nothing is impossible you can get lucky or if it's a girl that from young age with you you so emotionally attached you won't change for anything
 
Ye but nothing is impossible you can get lucky or if it's a girl that from young age with you you so emotionally attached you won't change for anything
I mean i’m young myself, i’m 18. Not many girls are virgins let alone loyal. It’s hard tbh I don’t think i’ll ever find love. I just wanna ascend and maybe the more compliments I receive and validation from others will fill this void.
 
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I mean i’m young myself, i’m 18. Not many girls are virgins let alone loyal. It’s hard tbh I don’t think i’ll ever find love. I just wanna ascend and maybe the more compliments I receive and validation from others will fill this void.
See, I'm virgin at 22 and it'd be good to meet such a girl
 
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