Lightskincel
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Though I don’t come to this forum at all anymore, I’d thought I’d share my experience of discussing blackpill with my gf and why you should never discuss blackpill with girls, or even normies for that matter.
So over the past few days, some of the topics we have been speaking about (just relationship type shit) has made me expose slowly more and more blackpill reasoning to my gf and her reaction has usually led us to arguments, even though every point I said was logical and rationally sound based on observable reality aka blackpill.
let me explain what happened today over the phone.
So for context, she sends a few tiktoks whilst we’re on the phone and one of them I reply to
I reply basically saying that guys shouldn’t ask for permission from their girl to do something. It was left at that.
After awhile she brings up my response to the tiktok. Asking if I would ask her permission to do something. I said- “I would tell you but ultimately if I wanted to do something, I would. Otherwise that’s just being pussywhipped”. and that’s where it went downhill. Her argument was basically if you respect what the other person wants you wouldn’t do it. My argument was (knowing blackpill) basically a guy who values himself enough wouldn’t even seek permission, since it’s his choice to give commitment in the first place. If he gives in to what the girl wants him to do, she doesn’t value him enough. Don’t get me wrong there are things that you wouldn’t do to risk the relationship, but regardless- this all ties into the value and dominance of the relationship. You can’t have a dominant guy with submissive tendencies, it’s either one of the other. (Basically in blackpill terms; cheat/be chad or get cheated on/be beta). (This is something I need to keep reminding myself, never let her get complacent no matter how much you love her, girls do the opposite to what they say 99% of the time)
Then the convo changed from asking for permission to if men give the commitment in a relationship. She said no it goes both ways, and started getting defensive/argumentative. I said well who was the one who asked you out? Me. Men give commitment, girls give affection’. Also a previous convo where we both ended up arguing, eventually I just aired her for an hr or two and she basically completely switched up her attitude asking if I lost feelings, can’t wait to see me (fuck), laughing (fake) at corny jokes I made, because ironically she knows (subconsciously or consciously, probably conscious as she’s scared to lose me) that keeping a guys commitment, who she values is her job as a female. (Competition, supply/demand, emotional attachment, etc)
Anyways she ended up getting pissed and I explained that because she’s a girl and I’m a guy, of course we are going to disagree because she has had a completely different reality to me growing up. This is why most girls are pretty much deluded about reality even though the things they preach are the same things they deny/are unaware of. She mentioned that she doesn’t want to know the specifics or details or explanation behind relationships/why things happen between ppl etc, as it just makes reality depressing. (Basically females unable to accept that their sole purpose is to fulfil their biological need to reproduce with the best suitor, despite leveraging sex for commitment from guys they want as that’s all they can offer and when faced with the facts they deny/called it misogynistic etc etc.)
I promised myself to never speak of blackpill stuff again with her, or to anyone who does not have blackpill knowledge. I think the truth just hurts too much, looks are literally the only thing that matters, no matter how much money, status, you have, women and even men will never love/respect you if you aren’t a “High value man” and we all what that means.
If you have any questions I don’t mind answering. I might post some other things I have observed because I can’t vent anywhere else about shit like this lmao.
tldr: Don’t argue about blackpill stuff with girls because they can’t relate to anything at all, and don’t really have the mental capacity to take the black pill, it’s too much truth for them. Females aren’t designed to cope with the brutal nature of reality for what it really is. Even as a male, it’s done it’s damage in some ways, but truth sets you free so it’s worth it.
So over the past few days, some of the topics we have been speaking about (just relationship type shit) has made me expose slowly more and more blackpill reasoning to my gf and her reaction has usually led us to arguments, even though every point I said was logical and rationally sound based on observable reality aka blackpill.
let me explain what happened today over the phone.
So for context, she sends a few tiktoks whilst we’re on the phone and one of them I reply to
I reply basically saying that guys shouldn’t ask for permission from their girl to do something. It was left at that.
After awhile she brings up my response to the tiktok. Asking if I would ask her permission to do something. I said- “I would tell you but ultimately if I wanted to do something, I would. Otherwise that’s just being pussywhipped”. and that’s where it went downhill. Her argument was basically if you respect what the other person wants you wouldn’t do it. My argument was (knowing blackpill) basically a guy who values himself enough wouldn’t even seek permission, since it’s his choice to give commitment in the first place. If he gives in to what the girl wants him to do, she doesn’t value him enough. Don’t get me wrong there are things that you wouldn’t do to risk the relationship, but regardless- this all ties into the value and dominance of the relationship. You can’t have a dominant guy with submissive tendencies, it’s either one of the other. (Basically in blackpill terms; cheat/be chad or get cheated on/be beta). (This is something I need to keep reminding myself, never let her get complacent no matter how much you love her, girls do the opposite to what they say 99% of the time)
Then the convo changed from asking for permission to if men give the commitment in a relationship. She said no it goes both ways, and started getting defensive/argumentative. I said well who was the one who asked you out? Me. Men give commitment, girls give affection’. Also a previous convo where we both ended up arguing, eventually I just aired her for an hr or two and she basically completely switched up her attitude asking if I lost feelings, can’t wait to see me (fuck), laughing (fake) at corny jokes I made, because ironically she knows (subconsciously or consciously, probably conscious as she’s scared to lose me) that keeping a guys commitment, who she values is her job as a female. (Competition, supply/demand, emotional attachment, etc)
Now keep in mind despite my name at creation of this account (I’m not a normie looking guy, I’m 6ft 4, lightskin, very piercing hunter eyes, forward grown face, my cheek bones pop out and I have a very prominent jaw. I basically look like my pfp who is Chris brown) Not trying to be vain at all, but looks wise, I’m quite high, I plan on getting arms/chest tattoos and gaining +10kg in muscle. I think my smv would be insane. I’m 22 right now and still look 18ish, my masculine features are slowly coming through. I jobhop a lot (my only true career choices is pilot/self employed day trader. I get a lot of looks when out (literally ppl make eye contact and make a surprised face, something I’m getting used to), ppl say I look like a celeb. Maybe I might get scouted for modelling or something. But I think blackpill has made me too aware of looks and especially my own.
Anyways she ended up getting pissed and I explained that because she’s a girl and I’m a guy, of course we are going to disagree because she has had a completely different reality to me growing up. This is why most girls are pretty much deluded about reality even though the things they preach are the same things they deny/are unaware of. She mentioned that she doesn’t want to know the specifics or details or explanation behind relationships/why things happen between ppl etc, as it just makes reality depressing. (Basically females unable to accept that their sole purpose is to fulfil their biological need to reproduce with the best suitor, despite leveraging sex for commitment from guys they want as that’s all they can offer and when faced with the facts they deny/called it misogynistic etc etc.)
I promised myself to never speak of blackpill stuff again with her, or to anyone who does not have blackpill knowledge. I think the truth just hurts too much, looks are literally the only thing that matters, no matter how much money, status, you have, women and even men will never love/respect you if you aren’t a “High value man” and we all what that means.
If you have any questions I don’t mind answering. I might post some other things I have observed because I can’t vent anywhere else about shit like this lmao.
tldr: Don’t argue about blackpill stuff with girls because they can’t relate to anything at all, and don’t really have the mental capacity to take the black pill, it’s too much truth for them. Females aren’t designed to cope with the brutal nature of reality for what it really is. Even as a male, it’s done it’s damage in some ways, but truth sets you free so it’s worth it.