Ngl after going out with a set of normie work colleages last evening I realise neurotypicality is learned

[MakinItHappen]

Here's what I'll say, as I know there are some people on here that struggle with this.

I've always been somewhat neurotypical when reflecting on my life up till now, but I realise it is 100% learned.

There are only four occasions where you will fail to learn neurotypicality:

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

It's all learned. ALL. And anyone can do it that is not aspie imo. Even those with trauma.

It is all just a social mask and all about APPEARANCES. Not just appearing good looking and tall, but appearing accomplished, well-informed, sharp in common sense, perceptive, self-aware, acting in-line with yours looks. Especially as man you have got to APPEAR that guy. A lot of normies don't care too much about what's inside (Not all and if they do they likely aren't normies) and they purely go by what YOU can SHOW them. Can you express what you're about then and there? That's what's admired. Even if they know you have strengths, unless you are ready to be expressive about it and with finesse, normies won't rate it.

Unfortunately much of this does involve being largely to a certain extent, fake. For periods. But you get used to it and juggle shit after a while.

 

[Xangsane]

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.

no and no

2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.

bullying

3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..

yes

4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

yes

 

[sorrowfulsad]

water type thread but you mean it well ig

 

[MakinItHappen]

water type thread but you mean it well ig

Discussing the details is not water. The nuances matter.

 

[plukee]

dnrd old man

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Sanju the incel god

 

[MakinItHappen]

no and no

bullying

yes

yes

I thought you're engaged at 27? Is there girl a fellow abused dog?

 

[Xtra]

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.

i'd say more like below 2/10 or below 5'3 (at least for where i am)

2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.

this one is especially true, I have never met a male with this sort of trauma who is not an incel

3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..

true but i would say they aren't in the same group, true autism is 100x worse

4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

true, this happened to me, still feel like an idiot for it

good thread, some users legit think you are born either a severe autist or an NTmaxxed god, no there is way more levels than they think and I would say only the very extreme ones are decided genetically

 

[Xangsane]

I thought you're engaged at 27? Is there girl a fellow abused dog?

*26

she's KV at almost 27

 

[MakinItHappen]

*26

she's KV at almost 27

So you're a loner that found an aspie girl that's Becky or HT Becky? Basically?

 

[Xangsane]

So you're a loner that found an aspie girl that's Becky or HT Becky? Basically?

HTB and yes through an acquaintance I talked to for a few weeks.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

There are only four occasions where you will fail to learn neurotypicality:

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

4 is very common nowadays obviously
also people who have a high aptitude in some academic or creative field since childhood like maths or art tend to not be NT, their talent becomes a crutch because of how much they get validated for it

 

[LooksOrDeath]

4 is very common nowadays obviously
also people who have a high aptitude in some academic or creative field since childhood like maths or art tend to not be NT, their talent becomes a crutch because of how much they get validated for it

@Xangsane yes?

 

[Xangsane]

@Xangsane yes?

yes

pat me

now

or no cake

 

[Kzoli_01]

Here's what I'll say, as I know there are some people on here that struggle with this.

I've always been somewhat neurotypical when reflecting on my life up till now, but I realise it is 100% learned.

There are only four occasions where you will fail to learn neurotypicality:

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

It's all learned. ALL. And anyone can do it that is not aspie imo. Even those with trauma.

It is all just a social mask and all about APPEARANCES. Not just appearing good looking and tall, but appearing accomplished, well-informed, sharp in common sense, perceptive, self-aware, acting in-line with yours looks. Especially as man you have got to APPEAR that guy. A lot of normies don't care too much about what's inside (Not all and if they do they likely aren't normies) and they purely go by what YOU can SHOW them. Can you express what you're about then and there? That's what's admired. Even if they know you have strengths, unless you are ready to be expressive about it and with finesse, normies won't rate it.

Unfortunately much of this does involve being largely to a certain extent, fake. For periods. But you get used to it and juggle shit after a while.

I'm an aspie but i only got like 5 school friends due to jestermaxxing and only one is a close friend it's so brutal

 

[MakinItHappen]

I'm an aspie but i only got like 5 school friends due to jestermaxxing and only one is a close friend it's so brutal

I have several 'close' friends and consider myself NT... so you aren't doing too bad and tbh this is probably a healthy amount.

How old are you?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.

such people usually compensate through socialising ime
have seen more non nt average-slightly above average guys than ugly ones

 

[Xangsane]

such people usually compensate through socialising ime
have seen more non nt average-slightly above average guys than ugly ones

what's the average NT for my looks level?
what's my NT?

 

[wsada]

For me it's probably because in 2020 the entire year I was lonely and only interacted with my parents (I have no siblings) and after that I changed to a school that was huge compared to my old school with 5 kids per class which all that caused me to be scared and shy and over the time it became worse so I guess just reason 4!!!

 

[MakinItHappen]

some users legit think you are born either a severe autist or an NTmaxxed god, no there is way more levels than they think and I would say only the very extreme ones are decided genetically

Yeah, that is too black and white and not real.

I believe in epigenetics. Which is genes and environment combined. Environment dictates how genes are expressed.

 

[MakinItHappen]

For me it's probably because in 2020 the entire year I was lonely and only interacted with my parents (I have no siblings) and after that I changed to a school that was huge compared to my old school with 5 kids per class which all that caused me to be scared and shy and over the time it became worse so I guess just reason 4!!!

Society penalises you for not being in-tune with the delusional 'appearing like you have everything figured out' matrix.

 

[NorwoodAscender]

4 got me a bit but i’m learninv

 

[NorwoodAscender]

4 got me a bit but i’m learninv

FUCK THIS TINY ASS KEYBOARD ON MY PHONE

 

[Johnnybegood]

Yeah i largely agree although i believe if you are below a 5.5/10 in looks unless you have the right environment + proper mental health genetics you are bound to be perceived as awkward or weak somehow.

I think the threshold for looks is a lot higher than just not being sub4 lol. Having fun as a man and treating the world as your playground starts at HTN levels unless you are a thug or have a very masculine face.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

So, it isn't?
You CAN'T put on a mask and fake neurotypicality. Everyone will detect something is off with you.

 

[MakinItHappen]

So, it isn't?
You CAN'T put on a mask and fake neurotypicality. Everyone will detect something is off with you.

Nigga you're just fucking dumb and ironically enough I DETECT SOMETHING IS OFF WITH YOU. You aspie fuck.

A social mask is a mask everyone wears. Read Carl Jung's areas of the psyche. It's called the persona.

 

[MakinItHappen]

Move to money and success section pls @NumbThePain

 

[dreamcake1mo]

Neurotypical=superficial

 

[MakinItHappen]

Neurotypical=superficial

Pretty much

 

[2d v2]

Here's what I'll say, as I know there are some people on here that struggle with this.

I've always been somewhat neurotypical when reflecting on my life up till now, but I realise it is 100% learned.

There are only four occasions where you will fail to learn neurotypicality:

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

It's all learned. ALL. And anyone can do it that is not aspie imo. Even those with trauma.

It is all just a social mask and all about APPEARANCES. Not just appearing good looking and tall, but appearing accomplished, well-informed, sharp in common sense, perceptive, self-aware, acting in-line with yours looks. Especially as man you have got to APPEAR that guy. A lot of normies don't care too much about what's inside (Not all and if they do they likely aren't normies) and they purely go by what YOU can SHOW them. Can you express what you're about then and there? That's what's admired. Even if they know you have strengths, unless you are ready to be expressive about it and with finesse, normies won't rate it.

Unfortunately much of this does involve being largely to a certain extent, fake. For periods. But you get used to it and juggle shit after a while.

it's not a "mask" its social behavior learned form being social

 

[MakinItHappen]

it's not a "mask" its social behavior learned form being social

Which is a persona, which is a mask.

A mask and persona is what one uses to express themselves. Whether that expression be authentic or inauthentic it's done so through a persona.

People like what they are familiar with and recognise. This is why people use slang. It's a persona to identify yourself as someone in the community with.

Go read Carl Jung.

 

[2d v2]

Which is a persona, which is a mask.

A mask and persona is what one uses to express themselves. Whether that expression be authentic or inauthentic it's done so through a persona.

People like what they are familiar with and recognise. This is why people use slang. It's a persona to identify yourself as someone in the community with.

So anyone who isnt a fucking monkey shitting in the streets throwing poop around with any kind of an extroverted personality is wearing a mask, got it.

 

[GuyFromSingapore]

Here's what I'll say, as I know there are some people on here that struggle with this.

I've always been somewhat neurotypical when reflecting on my life up till now, but I realise it is 100% learned.

There are only four occasions where you will fail to learn neurotypicality:

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

It's all learned. ALL. And anyone can do it that is not aspie imo. Even those with trauma.

It is all just a social mask and all about APPEARANCES. Not just appearing good looking and tall, but appearing accomplished, well-informed, sharp in common sense, perceptive, self-aware, acting in-line with yours looks. Especially as man you have got to APPEAR that guy. A lot of normies don't care too much about what's inside (Not all and if they do they likely aren't normies) and they purely go by what YOU can SHOW them. Can you express what you're about then and there? That's what's admired. Even if they know you have strengths, unless you are ready to be expressive about it and with finesse, normies won't rate it.

Unfortunately much of this does involve being largely to a certain extent, fake. For periods. But you get used to it and juggle shit after a while.

I can't be NT. I'm INTJ.

 

[moggathon]

Here's what I'll say, as I know there are some people on here that struggle with this.

I've always been somewhat neurotypical when reflecting on my life up till now, but I realise it is 100% learned.

There are only four occasions where you will fail to learn neurotypicality:

1. You are below a 4/10 in facial looks OR you are below 5ft6.
2. You have had a traumatised upbringing and discouraged by dad or mother. Or something else that was childhood trauma.
3. You are on the aspergers or autistic spectrum..
4. For whatever reason you did not socialise and just became addicted to online internet culture and spent time chronically online, not learning how to wear a social mask amongst others.

It's all learned. ALL. And anyone can do it that is not aspie imo. Even those with trauma.

It is all just a social mask and all about APPEARANCES. Not just appearing good looking and tall, but appearing accomplished, well-informed, sharp in common sense, perceptive, self-aware, acting in-line with yours looks. Especially as man you have got to APPEAR that guy. A lot of normies don't care too much about what's inside (Not all and if they do they likely aren't normies) and they purely go by what YOU can SHOW them. Can you express what you're about then and there? That's what's admired. Even if they know you have strengths, unless you are ready to be expressive about it and with finesse, normies won't rate it.

Unfortunately much of this does involve being largely to a certain extent, fake. For periods. But you get used to it and juggle shit after a while.

 

[MakinItHappen]

So anyone who isnt a fucking monkey shitting in the streets throwing poop around with any kind of an extroverted personality is wearing a mask, got it.

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

just talk whatever the others are talking and try to have knowledge in those topics.