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If you’re not a Chad , then you need to social-adapt. Acting neurotypical is one of the most important soft skills you can develop — especially when interacting with women.
Stay neutral and positive. Never be racist, sexist, or edgy. Don’t make dark humor jokes — they almost never land unless you already have strong social calibration. Same goes for sarcasm; it only works when people already like you and feel comfortable around you.
Keep conversations light and socially safe. Talk about basic, harmless topics everyday things like music, food, movies, or lifestyle — nothing too deep, nothing controversial. Avoid politics, religion, or zodiac talk. And if these topics do come up, keep your opinions positive and open-minded. Women pick up very quickly on negative or judgmental energy.
Religion: You don’t have to hide it if you’re Christian or wear something like a cross necklace , that’s fine. But avoid coming across as too religious or overly spiritual. Strong or strict religious behavior tends to make most people feel uncomfortable or judged. The goal is to appear neutral, open, and relatable, not tied to ideology.
If you’ve already entered a conversation with a girl ,even if it’s completely platonic and you find yourselves talking more often (like at school, work, or in social activities), that’s a small positive signal. It means you’re not completely repelling her; she’s comfortable enough to engage with you.
From that point on, maintain normal and neurotypical behavior. Don’t overthink it, don’t act self-conscious, don’t try to impress. Every conversation is a “social check” pass it by being emotionally stable and easy to talk to.
Avoid high-risk or emotionally charged topics. Never talk about abortion, birth control, or pregnancy-related debates. These are trap topics that can only go wrong for you. Even if you have an opinion, keep it private. The only safe way to bring it up is light and neutral — e.g., “Would you rather have a son or daughter someday?” or “How many kids would you like to have?” questions that stay friendly and platonic.
No Blackpill knowledge or online ideology. In normal social environments, things like “.org topics” don’t exist. Normies don’t think that way. Mentioning it marks you as socially off.
If you ever mention appearance, do it the way normal people do: “Looks matter, but personality and confidence are even more important.” Repeat what most people believe — blend in socially. Never bring up SMV, lookscales, or other online terminology. That’s not neurotypical behavior; it’s social suicide.
Mistakes and social calibration: If you’re not HTN, every mistake you make counts ten times more. Some people even wait for you to mess up to use it against you. Move carefully stay calm, respectful, and self-controlled.
If someone especially a girl isn’t interested, even though you’re polite and normal, walk away. Don’t force it, don’t argue, don’t chase validation. Remove yourself to protect your energy and prevent awkward or negative situations.
Attention and validation: Some girls may talk to you without real interest, just for attention or validation. That’s normal, but you need to recognize it. If there are signs of disrespect or inconsistency, step back and observe. If they stop engaging, it was never genuine just a brief interaction, not a real connection.
Group dynamics: If you’re in a class, workplace, or social group and get along platonically with multiple girls, be very careful. If you screw up with one girl and they are friends, you can poison the well completely, affecting all of them. Failing with one doesn’t only affect her — it can potentially affect multiple girls. They talk, and if your stories or behavior don’t align, they will notice. You have to construct your story carefully to avoid contradictions.
Character and appearance: Personality is critical. Your character should be “smart” and natural. Ofcourse Looks is law , but always reinforce what the average person believes — confidence, politeness, and social awareness are more important when your sub 8 . Your behavior and consistency in social interactions and ofc looks determine how people perceive you
Yes, it might sound like Jester-maxing , but that’s reality if you’re not HTN. Women subconsciously scan you. Weirdness, negativity, or uncalibrated behavior leads to being ignored or friendzoned.
So the goal isn’t to fake who you are — it’s to filter yourself strategically. Be funny, but not offensive. Be interesting, but not intense. Be confident, but not arrogant.
Remember: with men, you can talk raw and unfiltered. With women, you need to code-switch adapt your tone, humor, and energy. That’s not being fake; that’s being socially intelligent.
Masks and advantage: Everyone in life wears a mask. Every person. Why not use this to your advantage? By being aware and deliberate, you can use social knowledge to your benefit. You have the advantage of access to knowledge that the average person never sees. Use it. Learn, observe, and apply.
If your not sub 5 or a heavy social retard this might help you
Also this text was written by AI but dont bother i had to make some heavy editing.
It is not important how i show you things but what i show you with it think about that.
Good luck
Stay neutral and positive. Never be racist, sexist, or edgy. Don’t make dark humor jokes — they almost never land unless you already have strong social calibration. Same goes for sarcasm; it only works when people already like you and feel comfortable around you.
Keep conversations light and socially safe. Talk about basic, harmless topics everyday things like music, food, movies, or lifestyle — nothing too deep, nothing controversial. Avoid politics, religion, or zodiac talk. And if these topics do come up, keep your opinions positive and open-minded. Women pick up very quickly on negative or judgmental energy.
Religion: You don’t have to hide it if you’re Christian or wear something like a cross necklace , that’s fine. But avoid coming across as too religious or overly spiritual. Strong or strict religious behavior tends to make most people feel uncomfortable or judged. The goal is to appear neutral, open, and relatable, not tied to ideology.
If you’ve already entered a conversation with a girl ,even if it’s completely platonic and you find yourselves talking more often (like at school, work, or in social activities), that’s a small positive signal. It means you’re not completely repelling her; she’s comfortable enough to engage with you.
From that point on, maintain normal and neurotypical behavior. Don’t overthink it, don’t act self-conscious, don’t try to impress. Every conversation is a “social check” pass it by being emotionally stable and easy to talk to.
Avoid high-risk or emotionally charged topics. Never talk about abortion, birth control, or pregnancy-related debates. These are trap topics that can only go wrong for you. Even if you have an opinion, keep it private. The only safe way to bring it up is light and neutral — e.g., “Would you rather have a son or daughter someday?” or “How many kids would you like to have?” questions that stay friendly and platonic.
No Blackpill knowledge or online ideology. In normal social environments, things like “.org topics” don’t exist. Normies don’t think that way. Mentioning it marks you as socially off.
If you ever mention appearance, do it the way normal people do: “Looks matter, but personality and confidence are even more important.” Repeat what most people believe — blend in socially. Never bring up SMV, lookscales, or other online terminology. That’s not neurotypical behavior; it’s social suicide.
Mistakes and social calibration: If you’re not HTN, every mistake you make counts ten times more. Some people even wait for you to mess up to use it against you. Move carefully stay calm, respectful, and self-controlled.
If someone especially a girl isn’t interested, even though you’re polite and normal, walk away. Don’t force it, don’t argue, don’t chase validation. Remove yourself to protect your energy and prevent awkward or negative situations.
Attention and validation: Some girls may talk to you without real interest, just for attention or validation. That’s normal, but you need to recognize it. If there are signs of disrespect or inconsistency, step back and observe. If they stop engaging, it was never genuine just a brief interaction, not a real connection.
Group dynamics: If you’re in a class, workplace, or social group and get along platonically with multiple girls, be very careful. If you screw up with one girl and they are friends, you can poison the well completely, affecting all of them. Failing with one doesn’t only affect her — it can potentially affect multiple girls. They talk, and if your stories or behavior don’t align, they will notice. You have to construct your story carefully to avoid contradictions.
Character and appearance: Personality is critical. Your character should be “smart” and natural. Ofcourse Looks is law , but always reinforce what the average person believes — confidence, politeness, and social awareness are more important when your sub 8 . Your behavior and consistency in social interactions and ofc looks determine how people perceive you
Yes, it might sound like Jester-maxing , but that’s reality if you’re not HTN. Women subconsciously scan you. Weirdness, negativity, or uncalibrated behavior leads to being ignored or friendzoned.
So the goal isn’t to fake who you are — it’s to filter yourself strategically. Be funny, but not offensive. Be interesting, but not intense. Be confident, but not arrogant.
Remember: with men, you can talk raw and unfiltered. With women, you need to code-switch adapt your tone, humor, and energy. That’s not being fake; that’s being socially intelligent.
Masks and advantage: Everyone in life wears a mask. Every person. Why not use this to your advantage? By being aware and deliberate, you can use social knowledge to your benefit. You have the advantage of access to knowledge that the average person never sees. Use it. Learn, observe, and apply.
If your not sub 5 or a heavy social retard this might help you
Also this text was written by AI but dont bother i had to make some heavy editing.
It is not important how i show you things but what i show you with it think about that.
Good luck
