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(I suffer from this problem alot, to much. Only for my work, does it help that I analyse the shit out of situations and hypothetical scenario's and concern all the risks, because my pussy customers are willing to pay money for that horseshit.)
Any dude thinking BEYOND: getting sex and prospering. Is fucked, unhappy and/or fails.
The people doing best and being most high/happy on life; are the dumbfucks that hardly think and just take actions and risks (without alot of concern/over-thinking) on: getting sex/laid; and to prosper/survive.
But smart people, they start to think about stuff like:
* BUT, what if I get rejected? What if she says.... (what shoudl I say back)? What it she thinks ......?
* BUT, what if interest rates go up on my business loan?
* BUT, what if we go to war with Russia, Iran, etc....?
DON'T think about this BUT shit. Why, do I even think or worry about this shit?
They only lead to excuses, to do SHIT. Paralysis by analysis disease.
That's why the dumb fucks, often do much better.
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The higher IQ story, of the above is as follows (hopefully my last time of being high IQ)
How much/little IQ and thinking plays a role.
"Only 25% of your job successes are predicted based upon intelligence and technical skills"
For other things in life, beyond work. I think the influence percentage of intelligence is even plenty lower then 25%.
"The “silent 75%” of long-term job success is based upon your ability to positively adapt to the world: optimism, social support creation, and viewing stress as a challenge instead of as a threat, etc.."
For other things in life, it's also about just adapting while doing mainly. Not thinking.
How thinking about risks/downsides (often called, being high IQ) FUCKS me/us up.
"In truth, "negative" emotions and thoughts [such as doubts, thinking about small risks, etc..] stem from the most primitive part of the brain that responds to fear and threat.
When we are "negative" [aka, thinking about risks or possible downsides] in emotions or thoughts, our brains resort to “fight or flight” thinking about the world. [most high iq people, chose flight and thus lead a life of procrastination/inaction]
"When we are more "positive" [aka, thinking about what to do and just doing it to hopefully get .....] in emotions or thoughts, our brains creates new patterns and "solutions" widen the amount of possibilities our brains can process."
"Try to raise your level of happiness before tackling a challenge.". Because it will make you more low IQ [aka. NOT thinking about doubts, obstacles, and small risks. But thinking about what to do and just doing it to so to get XYZ].
Suggestion video on how to make more happy baseline:
sources:
hbr.org
www.forbes.com
www.inc.com
www.virgin.com
A ranting old man about being low IQ is best
Any dude thinking BEYOND: getting sex and prospering. Is fucked, unhappy and/or fails.
The people doing best and being most high/happy on life; are the dumbfucks that hardly think and just take actions and risks (without alot of concern/over-thinking) on: getting sex/laid; and to prosper/survive.
But smart people, they start to think about stuff like:
* BUT, what if I get rejected? What if she says.... (what shoudl I say back)? What it she thinks ......?
* BUT, what if interest rates go up on my business loan?
* BUT, what if we go to war with Russia, Iran, etc....?
DON'T think about this BUT shit. Why, do I even think or worry about this shit?
They only lead to excuses, to do SHIT. Paralysis by analysis disease.
That's why the dumb fucks, often do much better.
***********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************
The higher IQ story, of the above is as follows (hopefully my last time of being high IQ)
How much/little IQ and thinking plays a role.
"Only 25% of your job successes are predicted based upon intelligence and technical skills"
For other things in life, beyond work. I think the influence percentage of intelligence is even plenty lower then 25%.
"The “silent 75%” of long-term job success is based upon your ability to positively adapt to the world: optimism, social support creation, and viewing stress as a challenge instead of as a threat, etc.."
For other things in life, it's also about just adapting while doing mainly. Not thinking.
How thinking about risks/downsides (often called, being high IQ) FUCKS me/us up.
"In truth, "negative" emotions and thoughts [such as doubts, thinking about small risks, etc..] stem from the most primitive part of the brain that responds to fear and threat.
When we are "negative" [aka, thinking about risks or possible downsides] in emotions or thoughts, our brains resort to “fight or flight” thinking about the world. [most high iq people, chose flight and thus lead a life of procrastination/inaction]
"When we are more "positive" [aka, thinking about what to do and just doing it to hopefully get .....] in emotions or thoughts, our brains creates new patterns and "solutions" widen the amount of possibilities our brains can process."
"Try to raise your level of happiness before tackling a challenge.". Because it will make you more low IQ [aka. NOT thinking about doubts, obstacles, and small risks. But thinking about what to do and just doing it to so to get XYZ].
Suggestion video on how to make more happy baseline:
sources:
![hbr.org](/proxy.php?image=https%3A%2F%2Fhbr.org%2Fresources%2Fimages%2Fhbr_opengraph_940x490.png&hash=8c200d73fb90ada022b1e506f93405ba&return_error=1)
Are Happy People Dumb?
“Happy people are not the smart people.” I was talking to a stock trader shortly before giving a lecture at a large bank in New York. I think he thought I was a fellow trader, but I felt a little awkward at this turn in the conversation… as my lecture topic was the research case […]
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6 Reasons The Smartest People Aren't The Most Successful
An illustration of a character from a story; also, an illustration of illustrations (Photo credit: Wikipedia) Don’t get me wrong – there are lots of intelligent people who have been wildly successful in the business world, making our lives easier, move faster, and of course, connected. However...
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10 Problems Only Smart People Have
Being intelligent is great, but it does have some real downsides, according to science.
All the latest news from Virgin | Virgin
The lowdown on all things Virgin. Read all the latest news and blogs from Richard Branson, Holly Branson, the Virgin companies and Virgin Unite.
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A ranting old man about being low IQ is best