Seth Walsh
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Action, experience, feedback beats everything.I feel like talking to my best friend who's the sole with me that i know irl who understand what is appealing.
Hair texture is life. Coloring is life and extremely important - i know of the best way to get red undertones temporarily even for indian skin tones -, and so are lips, eyes and face shape.
Harmony>hair/coloring/eyes/lips/face shape>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> anything else.
I feel like we could almost finish each other's sentences at this stage. People get caught up in the detail, the face ratings out of 10, the debates like "what's more important, hunter eyes or a Chad jaw", but all that is ramble if it's not achieving anything.
Firstly focus on what's in your control. Set a goal and let it become an obsession. If it doesn't, the thoughts won't grow, and you'll realise transforming your appearance isn't something you really wanted. If it does; have a "systems thinking" POV. Relentless meticulous tracking. Almost as if you're preparing for a bodybuilding contest, but you're really just laying the framework for "glowing up". I am sure most of the top tiktokers looksmaxxed so deliberately, and knew what to do.
It's consistency.
Also, if it aligns with other incentives, that's what'll drive you to do it (i.e., Vinnie Hacker got more views when he looked hotter to his girl audience. His looksmaxxing was automatic. If he cut his hair or gained some weight, he knew his income would dip).
So try create incentives for yourself to never falter, even if the incentives aren't really real to begin with.