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eikson
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Good evening everyone,
after my breakup this summer I got sucked so deep into the Blackpill echo chamber that I thought I would never wet my dick again. After working through the breakup, hitting the gym again and starting many of the looksmaxing tips that can be found here, I felt ready to date for the first time since the breakup. Unfortunately I had a big time constraint because as I'm writing this right now I'm in Istanbul waiting for my hair transplant tomorrow (3500 grafts wish me luck bros, might even throw 200 into my beard).
Setup:
Bumble Premium (I don't mind spending 7,50 instead of swiping for hours like a retard or losing potential matches), Location: Berlin
A good selection of pictures that show my strengths and hide my flaws
Strenghts: relatively masculine face, okay height at 1.86, good style and social circle, good job and uni
Weaknesses: recessed subhuman, low PSL, giga framecel
I facetuned the pictures very slightly (no one I met IRL commented on it though, so definitely recommended to pass the initial treshold)
This is my main pic:
Swiping and matching:
I bought premium and began swiping like there's no tomorrow. This was a big mistake, as the algorithm pushes you at the beginning, so I had like 80 matches in a few hours. About half of the girls messaged me and as you may have guessed most conversation starters were as dry as a woman's pussy when she finds this forum in her bf's bookmarks. So mostly you get "hey
", "hi" and dumb shit like that.
So the main lessons are:
- get ready to carry every conversation
- only filter through the girls who liked you and don't try to maintain more than about 5 convos at the same time
- get their IG or number asap or set up a date immediately (you have no idea how many matches they have, I tried my bff's bumble for 5 mins and got more matches than I got the entire week)
Dating:
From about 150 matches I pursued around 60 girls. From there I got 12 numbers and around 15 IG handles. Since I only had one weekend to date before my hair transplant I was short on time. I had 3 dates last Saturday and 2 on Sunday. All of them were spent in parks or at seas in Berlin in order to always keep the conversation going by walking from A to B.
My observations:
- Girls are just, or at least almost, as desperate and devoid of meaningful relationships as we are.
- All five girls I met in person were extremely kind, funny and interested in me.
- Not a single one flaked or ghosted me. One girl asked me to postpone but I told her I can't and she fucking came to the date on zero hours of sleep after partying the entire night to see me before I go on my "vacation".
My results:
- I had second dates with two out of the five girls (yesterday and Monday) and made out with both of them
- Due to work and my travel to Istanbul I couldn't meet the other girls a second time, but I was honest about why I'm going to Turkey and all three said they want to see me asap when I come back even though I will look like I was mauled by a bear
- I have a "backlog" of around 10 girls, whose IG or number I got, who want me to message them when I'm back
Reading through this now it sounds like I'm boasting or bragging, but I hope I still get my point accross. I went into this thing with zero expecations, well aware of the pareto principle, chad monopoly and all the other blackpill buzzwords that made me think I'll get a few run through landwhales at best. As a member of the bottom 80% you do not only compete for the trash 20% of girls, don't listen to Wheatwaffles. NTmaxx to the best of your possibilitie and throw yourself out there.
I have no idea what I'm doing, so I'm probably not a good adress to ask for tips and tricks, but I'm happy to help. My shaved head feels fucking weird too.
after my breakup this summer I got sucked so deep into the Blackpill echo chamber that I thought I would never wet my dick again. After working through the breakup, hitting the gym again and starting many of the looksmaxing tips that can be found here, I felt ready to date for the first time since the breakup. Unfortunately I had a big time constraint because as I'm writing this right now I'm in Istanbul waiting for my hair transplant tomorrow (3500 grafts wish me luck bros, might even throw 200 into my beard).
Setup:
Bumble Premium (I don't mind spending 7,50 instead of swiping for hours like a retard or losing potential matches), Location: Berlin
A good selection of pictures that show my strengths and hide my flaws
Strenghts: relatively masculine face, okay height at 1.86, good style and social circle, good job and uni
Weaknesses: recessed subhuman, low PSL, giga framecel
I facetuned the pictures very slightly (no one I met IRL commented on it though, so definitely recommended to pass the initial treshold)
This is my main pic:
Swiping and matching:
I bought premium and began swiping like there's no tomorrow. This was a big mistake, as the algorithm pushes you at the beginning, so I had like 80 matches in a few hours. About half of the girls messaged me and as you may have guessed most conversation starters were as dry as a woman's pussy when she finds this forum in her bf's bookmarks. So mostly you get "hey
", "hi" and dumb shit like that.So the main lessons are:
- get ready to carry every conversation
- only filter through the girls who liked you and don't try to maintain more than about 5 convos at the same time
- get their IG or number asap or set up a date immediately (you have no idea how many matches they have, I tried my bff's bumble for 5 mins and got more matches than I got the entire week)
Dating:
From about 150 matches I pursued around 60 girls. From there I got 12 numbers and around 15 IG handles. Since I only had one weekend to date before my hair transplant I was short on time. I had 3 dates last Saturday and 2 on Sunday. All of them were spent in parks or at seas in Berlin in order to always keep the conversation going by walking from A to B.
My observations:
- Girls are just, or at least almost, as desperate and devoid of meaningful relationships as we are.
- All five girls I met in person were extremely kind, funny and interested in me.
- Not a single one flaked or ghosted me. One girl asked me to postpone but I told her I can't and she fucking came to the date on zero hours of sleep after partying the entire night to see me before I go on my "vacation".
My results:
- I had second dates with two out of the five girls (yesterday and Monday) and made out with both of them
- Due to work and my travel to Istanbul I couldn't meet the other girls a second time, but I was honest about why I'm going to Turkey and all three said they want to see me asap when I come back even though I will look like I was mauled by a bear
- I have a "backlog" of around 10 girls, whose IG or number I got, who want me to message them when I'm back
Reading through this now it sounds like I'm boasting or bragging, but I hope I still get my point accross. I went into this thing with zero expecations, well aware of the pareto principle, chad monopoly and all the other blackpill buzzwords that made me think I'll get a few run through landwhales at best. As a member of the bottom 80% you do not only compete for the trash 20% of girls, don't listen to Wheatwaffles. NTmaxx to the best of your possibilitie and throw yourself out there.
I have no idea what I'm doing, so I'm probably not a good adress to ask for tips and tricks, but I'm happy to help. My shaved head feels fucking weird too.
