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why is it hard to find a foid that actually cares about you man.

carepill is brutal. you could do everything right and she just wont give a fuck or put effort in the relationship.

is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?

sometimes i feel like im asking for too much but in her position i would've put in more effort.



ramblngs from the dangerous trenches of new delhi.
 
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why is it hard to find a foid that actually cares about you man.

carepill is brutal. you could do everything right and she just wont give a fuck or put effort in the relationship.

is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?

sometimes i feel like im asking for too much but in her position i would've put in more effort.



ramblngs from the dangerous trenches of new delhi.
idk
 
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just leave a person who doesnt care about you ngl
it probably feels like hell being in a situation with these type of people
u can sometimes never make someone love u back no matter what
all u can do is forget and find a new one
 
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why is it hard to find a foid that actually cares about you man.

carepill is brutal. you could do everything right and she just wont give a fuck or put effort in the relationship.

is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?

sometimes i feel like im asking for too much but in her position i would've put in more effort.



ramblngs from the dangerous trenches of new delhi.
YOU are the only one she doesn't care about
 
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why is it hard to find a foid that actually cares about you man.

carepill is brutal. you could do everything right and she just wont give a fuck or put effort in the relationship.

is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?

sometimes i feel like im asking for too much but in her position i would've put in more effort.



ramblngs from the dangerous trenches of new delhi.
My oneitis doesn't even know I exist, brootallll
 
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just leave a person who doesnt care about you ngl
it probably feels like hell being in a situation with these type of people
u can sometimes never make someone love u back no matter what
all u can do is forget and find a new one
eh... that hit hard
 
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Simply put you shouldn’t be in a relationship with ur crush unless she had a crush on you too, you will always be putting in more and she will be putting in less
 
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just leave a person who doesnt care about you ngl
it probably feels like hell being in a situation with these type of people
u can sometimes never make someone love u back no matter what
all u can do is forget and find a new one
i try to make shit special and romantic but my goddddd

can you really not sacrifice a bit of comfort for the relationship?

sometimes i wonder if she just views herself as non-special and regular and if she bases her actions off of that.

it's hell
 
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My oneitis doesn't even know I exist, brootallll
Unironically I think it would be better she thinks ur a creep than doesn’t notice you, not because I want u to be weird but because you need to be trying
 
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My oneitis is getting BLACKED while I type this
 
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i try to make shit special and romantic but my goddddd

can you really not sacrifice a bit of comfort for the relationship?

sometimes i wonder if she just views herself as non-special and regular and if she bases her actions off of that.

it's hell
just put in the effort she's putting in ( 0 i'd assume by the way u say it ) and just see how it goes
if yall split then its good for u but on the odd chance she treats u better then thats good for u ig? tho i'd doubt that
 
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Simply put you shouldn’t be in a relationship with ur crush unless she had a crush on you too, you will always be putting in more and she will be putting in less
better to be in a relationship where the girl had a crush on u first
 
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just put in the effort she's putting in ( 0 i'd assume by the way u say it ) and just see how it goes
if yall split then its good for u but on the odd chance she treats u better then thats good for u ig? tho i'd doubt that
funny thing is whenever i match her energy she starts saying im cold jfl.

foids man foids
 
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Unironically I think it would be better she thinks ur a creep than doesn’t notice you, not because I want u to be weird but because you need to be trying
I dont even go to the same classes as her tho, she literally has probably only seen me 2 times in her WHOLE life, I havent even talked to her, I just look at her whenever I see her and listen to her having convos with her girl friends :feelswhy:
 
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Almost an oxymoron
 
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why is it hard to find a foid that actually cares about you man.

carepill is brutal. you could do everything right and she just wont give a fuck or put effort in the relationship.

is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?

sometimes i feel like im asking for too much but in her position i would've put in more effort.



ramblngs from the dangerous trenches of new delhi.
The right one will be infatuated with you
You can blame looks but more often than not its a matter of chemistry if she’s with you but just doesn’t seem that invested you probably aren’t compatible
 
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Stop thinking that u faggot,
But it’s so hot….holy shit imagine there were 2 ,2BBCS holy shit they would fucking WRECK HER!!!
 
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I dont even go to the same classes as her tho, she literally has probably only seen me 2 times in her WHOLE life, I havent even talked to her, I just look at her whenever I see her and listen to her having convos with her girl friends :feelswhy:
So yeah ur fucked, if I was you I’d try following her on insta, waiting for a follow back, if not like up her stories, wait a bit, then reply to a story saying aww or smth non goonerlike, a pic that isn’t her basically and if she doesn’t reply u know she doesn’t want u, simple
 
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So yeah ur fucked, if I was you I’d try following her on insta, waiting for a follow back, if not like up her stories, wait a bit, then reply to a story saying aww or smth non goonerlike, a pic that isn’t her basically and if she doesn’t reply u know she doesn’t want u, simple
I don't think she has an insta tho :lul:
 
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funny thing is whenever i match her energy she starts saying im cold jfl.

foids man foids
just match her energy
both outcomes i stated will be good for u even tho one might hurt more then the other
better to forget and get someone who puts in more effort than u
 
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I don't think she has an insta tho :lul:
Ask around and look for her friends instas and see if they follow Her, that’s what I did to my crush (she ended up thinking I’m a creep for context)
 
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Ask around and look for her friends instas and see if they follow Her, that’s what I did to my crush (she ended up thinking I’m a creep for context)
you had the option to ask around because you have some social skills tho, I got none, I dont think its possible for me bruh
 
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you had the option to ask around because you have some social skills tho, I got none, I dont think its possible for me bruh
you have male friends right? Ask them? I have no social skills in relation to women
 
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I dont got friends tho, might be over for me
Brutal, I’d give up at that point, status is so important for women especially in school
 
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Brutal, I’d give up at that point, status is so important for women especially in school
Might get lucky next year once I change schools :lul:
 
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why is it hard to find a foid that actually cares about you man.

carepill is brutal. you could do everything right and she just wont give a fuck or put effort in the relationship.

is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?

sometimes i feel like im asking for too much but in her position i would've put in more effort.



ramblngs from the dangerous trenches of new delhi.
Dude that depends on the size of your dih.
 
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is she really just like that as a person or she just doesn't like me/give a fuck about me enough? or is it cause im mtn?
Real real.
I love them tho.
I know they care alot.
I still start (over)thinking nd shit like this comes to my head on certain occasions
 
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Real real.
I love them tho.
I know they care alot.
I still start (over)thinking nd shit like this comes to my head on certain occasions
im losing hope man.

i don't think she gives a fuck anymore and this used to be a once in a week thought but everyday im reminded of it by her actions.
 
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my oneitis cared for me for like a week or so
 
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im losing hope man.

i don't think she gives a fuck anymore and this used to be a once in a week thought but everyday im reminded of it by her actions.
What are her actions bro?
Sry to hear that btw :(
That shit must feel very brutal.
I wouldn't recommend it, but you can try to test her smh. If the test comes back negative tho it's gonna hurt like shit.
I wouldn't do some tests or play stupid games.
It isn't very respectful and healthy.
Atp the thing to do in a healthy relationship would be to just talk to them directly and openly.
Maybe they've got shit going on in their life you don't know abt.
(If they do they should obv let you know abt it, but that's another topic).

Alternatively you can just gaslight yourself into thinking you are worthless and don't deswrve anything more and you should be thankful for the crumbs of love you are getting.
 
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What are her actions bro?
Sry to hear that btw :(
That shit must feel very brutal.
I wouldn't recommend it, but you can try to test her smh. If the test comes back negative tho it's gonna hurt like shit.
I wouldn't do some tests or play stupid games.
It isn't very respectful and healthy.
Atp the thing to do in a healthy relationship would be to just talk to them directly and openly.
Maybe they've got shit going on in their life you don't know abt.
(If they do they should obv let you know abt it, but that's another topic).

Alternatively you can just gaslight yourself into thinking you are worthless and don't deswrve anything more and you should be thankful for the crumbs of love you are getting.
i live 400km away and she's not willing to skip a single fuckass math lesson to meet me.
i've met her twice in the spam of 3 months last year since sept
 
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i live 400km away and she's not willing to skip a single fuckass math lesson to meet me.
i've met her twice in the spam of 3 months last year since sept
Damn. You are very relatable.
Fuck you are relatable.
Im in a ldr too.
I was gonna follow you but i already do ;)

We live 1300km away so it's a little different.
But i had an insane fucking episode of tantrums of pure frustration anger and despair because they wouldn't (and kinda couldn't) spend this current week with me.
We were together for 5 days and on the 1st of january they had to leave sadly.
But school starts the 7th and they didn't want to be with me on their birthday on the 2nd (today) :feelswhy::feelswhy:
 
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