parents fighting

[alexthegoat]

I'm really unsure hoe to describe it but they've been violently arguing verbally esrly this morning. last night I had a random memory of the times when they used to fight physically.

it does affect my mental health but I'm trying to pretend it doesn't.

I just need some help man I'm really not feeling well
seems like they want to have a separation but I'm not mentally prepared for it

anyone who has experienced this I would like to hear their way of coping I guess or something
I'm really scared

 

[Stalker]

my parents have been divorced for years

 

[alexthegoat]

my parents have been divorced for years

how was it like initially? were you close to your parents? and how are you now

 

[Stalker]

how was it like initially? were you close to your parents? and how are you now

it was around the time of the pandemic

my dad was already not often at home

you get used to these things

 

[Daddy Dick]

my parents would fight a lot until my mom got sick and eventually passed in 2020 the way i would cope about it when i was younger is literally nothing, i couldn't change it i couldn't do anything about it i would just distract myself u cant really cope from something so close and apparent like that

 

[Mr.Blitzkrieg]

2024-2025 my parents used to argue quite a bit (over dumb shit too) sometimes but over the months they've been getting better and barely argue anymore. Maybe that's what's happening to your parents? anyways I'm sorry to hear that man and that must be a really uncomfortable situation to be in.

 

[DrRodger]

Damn same nothing you can do tho maybe you should run away

 

[alexthegoat]

it was around the time of the pandemic

my dad was already not often at home

you get used to these things

for me, I've had an absent father most of my life.
he lives in a different country, I'm alone with my siblings and mom in another.

recently while visiting this happened.
it's really taking a toll on me and I'm really scared I might do something to myself im literally shaking

 

[Stalker]

for me, I've had an absent father most of my life.
he lives in a different country, I'm alone with my siblings and mom in another.

recently while visiting this happened.
it's really taking a toll on me and I'm really scared I might do something to myself im literally shaking

you can do it big guy

 

[alexthegoat]

2024-2025 my parents used to argue quite a bit (over dumb shit too) sometimes but over the months they've been getting better and barely argue anymore. Maybe that's what's happening to your parents? anyways I'm sorry to hear that man and that must be a really uncomfortable situation to be in.

well, my parents have a long history of violent fights. today they were on the verge of physically fighting but I just had to step in.
I'm really just contemplating what to do cause I really have no options and I'm so fucking scared

 

[alexthegoat]

you can do it big guy

guess looks wasn't enough to cry about

Damn same nothing you can do tho maybe you should run away

not possible for me

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

I'm really unsure hoe to describe it but they've been violently arguing verbally esrly this morning. last night I had a random memory of the times when they used to fight physically.

it does affect my mental health but I'm trying to pretend it doesn't.

I just need some help man I'm really not feeling well
seems like they want to have a separation but I'm not mentally prepared for it

anyone who has experienced this I would like to hear their way of coping I guess or something
I'm really scared

just try to sleep through it
its not the best way to cope, but just ignoring the fights and chaos might lead you brain to think that things may have gotten better
nothing you can do to improve the situation even though it affects you so much

 

[grazedbr]

My parents got divorced when i was too youngbto understand, but ive had to deal with fights with her boyfriends etc, its definitely scary if it helps talk to a friend or sm1 your close to about it, imo its better to get stuff of your chest in person

 

[Sub->CL]

it was around the time of the pandemic

my dad was already not often at home

you get used to these things

Same, middle of the pandemic and my father was already at work more than half the time.
The divorce itself isn't too bad but when your parents hate each other more than they love you...

 

[alexthegoat]

My parents got divorced when i was too youngbto understand, but ive had to deal with fights with her boyfriends etc, its definitely scary if it helps talk to a friend or sm1 your close to about it, imo its better to get stuff of your chest in person

I'm a lonely ethnic I don't have friends spawnpoint kills me

 

[alexthegoat]

just try to sleep through it
its not the best way to cope, but just ignoring the fights and chaos might lead you brain to think that things may have gotten better
nothing you can do to improve the situation even though it affects you so much

it's late and I can't sleep I just don't know if it's ocd or just me fucking myself up

 

[grazedbr]

I'm a lonely ethnic I don't have friends spawnpoint kills me

Ah shit im sorry bro, js keep phshing through it gl man

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

it's late and I can't sleep I just don't know if it's ocd or just me fucking myself up

youre worrying too much and i would too, but if you want to cope, this is one of the ways to do so
stop thinking about this too much and just try to get some sleep if you can
and i get it if you cant talk to someone about it irl, we are here for you

 

[alexthegoat]

Ah shit im sorry bro, js keep phshing through it gl man

thanks but genuinely scared for my future either my brains explode or I live happily

 

[grazedbr]

thanks but genuinely scared for my future either my brains explode or I live happily

Believe in you man

 

[alexthegoat]

youre worrying too much and i would too, but if you want to cope, this is one of the ways to do so
stop thinking about this too much and just try to get some sleep if you can
and i get it if you cant talk to someone about it irl, we are here for you

problem is, it's not even the parent shit that's pissing on me
I just have so much to take it's hurting bro
being born ethnic just means it was over before it even began
fuck my life man like genuinely it's worthless and me typing this bullshit is pointless too it won't make me respawn as a European or non ethnic

 

[iLdar]

Yea bro i feel you for me its been like this since i was a jit

My father threatens to kill my mother then kill himself after

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

problem is, it's not even the parent shit that's pissing on me
I just have so much to take it's hurting bro
being born ethnic just means it was over before it even began
fuck my life man like genuinely it's worthless and me typing this bullshit is pointless too it won't make me respawn as a European or non ethnic

geomaxx or smth, there are always options , just try to get the best out of your life man, it might feel like this rn, but sometimes a little cope can take you somewhere very happy

 

[takethezincpill]

I'm really unsure hoe to describe it but they've been violently arguing verbally esrly this morning. last night I had a random memory of the times when they used to fight physically.

it does affect my mental health but I'm trying to pretend it doesn't.

I just need some help man I'm really not feeling well
seems like they want to have a separation but I'm not mentally prepared for it

anyone who has experienced this I would like to hear their way of coping I guess or something
I'm really scared

my parents r gonna get divorced too bro
no one is really ever prepared for it
just think of it like this, its the best for the both of them
im here if u need to talk

 

[takethezincpill]

it's really taking a toll on me and I'm really scared I might do something to myself im literally shaking

bro dont

 

[alexthegoat]

geomaxx or smth, there are always options , just try to get the best out of your life man, it might feel like this rn, but sometimes a little cope can take you somewhere very happy

when you have the worst passport and broke. geomaxxing is not even an option
u think if i could have the option to be in Europe or smth I'd still be sitting here lol

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

when you have the worst passport and broke. geomaxxing is not even an option
u think if i could have the option to be in Europe or smth I'd still be sitting here lol

wait so rn youre not in a white majority country?? are you in a country where your ethnicity is the majority? if yes you dont have much to worry about being an ethnic, if no then make some cash

 

[alexthegoat]

my parents r gonna get divorced too bro
no one is really ever prepared for it
just think of it like this, its the best for the both of them
im here if u need to talk

I really can't picture if for you but I come from a village in the fucking mountains where cousin marriages are it, nothing more. and as u know how it all ends up with the cultural bullshit
long story short it won't be beneficial for any, matter of fact it'll be worse for everyone, relatives, me and my siblings and so on

 

[Yuqwi]

I'm really unsure hoe to describe it but they've been violently arguing verbally esrly this morning. last night I had a random memory of the times when they used to fight physically.

it does affect my mental health but I'm trying to pretend it doesn't.

I just need some help man I'm really not feeling well
seems like they want to have a separation but I'm not mentally prepared for it

anyone who has experienced this I would like to hear their way of coping I guess or something
I'm really scared

Always grew up with my parents fighting, it’s really hard to deal with. I hope you are doing good

 

[alexthegoat]

wait so rn youre not in a white majority country?? are you in a country where your ethnicity is the majority? if yes you dont have much to worry about being an ethnic, if no then make some cash

not an adult and i don't have the opportunities
the average person in my country would make 150$ in us currency

 

[takethezincpill]

I really can't picture if for you but I come from a village in the fucking mountains where cousin marriages are it, nothing more. and as u know how it all ends up with the cultural bullshit
long story short it won't be beneficial for any, matter of fact it'll be worse for everyone, relatives, me and my siblings and so on

i get it, my parents arent cousins but we kinda have the same traditions
are your parents gonna get problem with their family or? is that why its not beneficial?

 

[alexthegoat]

Always grew up with my parents fighting, it’s really hard to deal with. I hope you are doing good

I'll say talking to random people online does help when ur lonely and u don't have anyone
I got tired of gpt and thought to maybe talk to an actual human being online
thank u bro stay safe

 

[ethniccell098]

I'm really unsure hoe to describe it but they've been violently arguing verbally esrly this morning. last night I had a random memory of the times when they used to fight physically.

it does affect my mental health but I'm trying to pretend it doesn't.

I just need some help man I'm really not feeling well
seems like they want to have a separation but I'm not mentally prepared for it

anyone who has experienced this I would like to hear their way of coping I guess or something
I'm really scared

Start a job and go separate ways . you will be depressed all the time if you stay longer

 

[alexthegoat]

i get it, my parents arent cousins but we kinda have the same traditions
are your parents gonna get problem with their family or? is that why its not beneficial?

same bullshit yk
if they separate their sides of the family won't go well with the other, and so on
it has gone really far with some families but I just hope they don't end it and if they do may god forbid I hope they end on good terms dude

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

not an adult and i don't have the opportunities
the average person in my country would make 150$ in us currency

dude just hang on, get a job later on and just try your best emigrate or smth
third world countries are brutal especially if youre not born into rich families
hope the best for you man

 

[Yuqwi]

I'll say talking to random people online does help when ur lonely and u don't have anyone
I got tired of gpt and thought to maybe talk to an actual human being online
thank u bro stay safe

Tbh me too, it’s actually nice to talk to people online because so many share similar experiences

 

[alexthegoat]

Start a job and go separate ways . you will be depressed all the time if you stay longer

picture this
a south east Asian male who lives in the worst country where average people make a month how much mayos make I a day.
having the worst passport adds up to it
I can't go to another country like u people can having 150+ passport score
my passport has 23 score. it's one of the lowest
it's over for me lol

 

[alexthegoat]

dude just hang on, get a job later on and just try your best emigrate or smth
third world countries are brutal especially if youre not born into rich families
hope the best for you man

I can still try my best but don't expect much, I really don't know dude i have too much brain fog as of right now so I might make horrible decisions

 

[alexthegoat]

Tbh me too, it’s actually nice to talk to people online because so many share similar experiences

the only time there has been no dnr or stupid fuckin reply and it makes me feel a bit better hoenstly
hope the best for u bra

 

[ethniccell098]

picture this
a south east Asian male who lives in the worst country where average people make a month how much mayos make I a day.
having the worst passport adds up to it
I can't go to another country like u people can having 150+ passport score
my passport has 23 score. it's one of the lowest
it's over for me lol

Same here but now i am atleast earning something by gambling , i hope to get a job here and there and leave my parents

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

I can still try my best but don't expect much, I really don't know dude i have too much brain fog as of right now so I might make horrible decisions

just sleep man, im bsfr rn

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

the only time there has been no dnr or stupid fuckin reply and it makes me feel a bit better hoenstly
hope the best for u bra

dnr

 

[Yuqwi]

the only time there has been no dnr or stupid fuckin reply and it makes me feel a bit better hoenstly
hope the best for u bra

Same to you brother, sound like a great guy

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

picture this
a south east Asian male who lives in the worst country where average people make a month how much mayos make I a day.
having the worst passport adds up to it
I can't go to another country like u people can having 150+ passport score
my passport has 23 score. it's one of the lowest
it's over for me lol

afghanistan?

 

[alexthegoat]

Same to you brother, sound like a great guy

most things aside my "great"ness won't get me far lol
I'm sub5 so it's really over for me I don't have nothing going on but I'll try

 

[alexthegoat]

afghanistan?

im paki pashtun

 

[itsover369]

I'm really unsure hoe to describe it but they've been violently arguing verbally esrly this morning. last night I had a random memory of the times when they used to fight physically.

it does affect my mental health but I'm trying to pretend it doesn't.

I just need some help man I'm really not feeling well
seems like they want to have a separation but I'm not mentally prepared for it

anyone who has experienced this I would like to hear their way of coping I guess or something
I'm really scared

i am sorry for you bro. my parents are fighting constantly but i hope my parents will divorce

 

[Prøphet]

Wrap a pillow around your ears

That’s what I used to do

 

[YeetTrynaAscend]

im paki pashtun

close enough

 

[alexthegoat]

Wrap a pillow around your ears

That’s what I used to do

I have dirty pillows I'll just stay up honestly