People asking you if you have a gf are annoying.

[HerpDerpson]

Does this happen to you?
Constantly meet lots of new people and have small talks with them. They unironically ask me whether I'm married, have gf or children (!).
Like, I get it, men are clueless bastards and women hate the idea of anyone not wanting to betabuxx, but it's still annoying that they just pretend I can have sex for free (I tried. Got rejected by landwhales, turbosluts and trannies) or assume I even want to get married.
Maybe it's time to low inhib maxx and just tell women: "I'm ugly and you know that, you hypocrite. You wouldn't fuck me" like a psycho.
But with men, I'll have to go through the whole prolonged discussion about zero matches on tinder, which I just don't care enough to have.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

I hate woman!

 

[Deleted member 19157]

 

[Gargantuan]

In the pre-COVID era people used to ask me this question quite frequently, it is indeed annoying.

 

[Deleted member 13332]

dude you are old as fuck , ofc everyone expects you to be married with children XDDD

 

[Deleted member 9801]

People assume Im playa

 

[john2]

Doesn't happen to me. If a person with a gf is asking you if you have a gf or not, then he is most likely mocking you since he has a gf himself and can brag about it. If a person who doesn't have a gf asks you, then he might be clueless.

 

[Gonthar]

Does this happen to you?
Constantly meet lots of new people and have small talks with them. They unironically ask me whether I'm married, have gf or children (!).

Just tell them this: "Ohhh, it's private information, I don't discuss this.... People these days are so quick to post their private lives on social media, everything they do, their most intimate moments, it's like they don't have anything anymore personal, exclusive, that it's only theirs to enjoy. I want to keep this part of my life just to myself."

 

[HerpDerpson]

if you have a gf or not, then he is most likely mocking you since he has a gf himself and can brag about it. If a person who doesn't have a gf asks you, then he might be clueless.

Oh, that actually makes sense. Thank you.

 

[HerpDerpson]

About two pals who often tell me to... cold approach.
One is a birdfaced fat divorced Armenian escortcel (he's moneymaxxed). He's supposed to be my landlord, but I live there for free because he's in my pocket - I loaned him money because he couldn't pay the alimony/child support together with the rent and was risking his property being arrested. JFL at him telling me to get married.
Other is a fat oldcel (39), he was a slayer in his youth (still a great dimorphic face, wish he'd so wearing a beard) and he dreams of getting married again (divorce, no children) when he has the money (!).

 

[RAITEIII]

I dont like to be asked ANYTHING. I've been asked if I'm married with children and I wondered if they were taking the piss calling me oldcel looking.

I also don't like people asking you about your dating life altogether. I have had motherfuckers (sorry yussuf you're a friend) ask me a million times when was my last ONS and then after I feel forced to answer they spread it around like I'm a champ but then this gets to the ears of the girl that I liked and BAM suddenly you're a huge idiot who would never be loyal.

 

[HerpDerpson]

(sorry yussuf you're a friend

that sound really charming.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Does this happen to you?
Constantly meet lots of new people and have small talks with them. They unironically ask me whether I'm married, have gf or children (!).
Like, I get it, men are clueless bastards and women hate the idea of anyone not wanting to betabuxx, but it's still annoying that they just pretend I can have sex for free (I tried. Got rejected by landwhales, turbosluts and trannies) or assume I even want to get married.
Maybe it's time to low inhib maxx and just tell women: "I'm ugly and you know that, you hypocrite. You wouldn't fuck me" like a psycho.
But with men, I'll have to go through the whole prolonged discussion about zero matches on tinder, which I just don't care enough to have.

Just say "no". You ain't gotta be going on about tinder with dudes.

 

[Beetlejuice]

People from my family ask that shit lol
I don't like when people ask about that type of stuff

 

[helpmegod]

Just tell them this: "Ohhh, it's private information, I don't discuss this.... People these days are so quick to post their private lives on social media, everything they do, their most intimate moments, it's like they don't have anything anymore personal, exclusive, that it's only theirs to enjoy. I want to keep this part of my life just to myself."

yeah as if anyone is stupid enough to not know you ain't getting any when they take one look at your face. Unless you say yes and then proceed to show her, it's not gonna work if you're ugly

 

[Kingcel32]

Doesn't happen to me. If a person with a gf is asking you if you have a gf or not, then he is most likely mocking you since he has a gf himself and can brag about it. If a person who doesn't have a gf asks you, then he might be clueless.

What does it mean if girls ask you this question

 

[Gonthar]

yeah as if anyone is stupid enough to not know you ain't getting any when they take one look at your face. Unless you say yes and then proceed to show her, it's not gonna work if you're ugly

This is what a Romanian actor said to the press, he's a minor celebrity but refuses to discuss his private life, he did mention in some articles that he has a son, what do you think, does he have a girlfriend, wife, is he divorced or what?

 

[Ronnie]

What does it mean if girls ask you this question

she probably has friend that is interested and is trying to to get a clear idea of where you stand. Or maybe she just curious if anyone would date a freak

 

[helpmegod]

This is what a Romanian actor said to the press, he's a minor celebrity but refuses to discuss his private life, he did mention in some articles that he has a son, what do you think, does he have a girlfriend, wife, is he divorced or what?

There's a difference between a press statement and talking to normal people IRL

 

[Kingcel32]

she probably has friend that is interested and is trying to to get a clear idea of where you stand. Or maybe she just curious if anyone would date a freak

Over

 

[comfortably dumb]

Just tell them this: "Ohhh, it's private information, I don't discuss this.... People these days are so quick to post their private lives on social media, everything they do, their most intimate moments, it's like they don't have anything anymore personal, exclusive, that it's only theirs to enjoy. I want to keep this part of my life just to myself."

nah, way too defensive, wtf

just say no

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

The guys are asking to see whether or not they should hit that shit. The women ask because they have no thoughts inside their empty heads. And any thought is better than no thought. U feels me?

 

[Prettyboy]

I don’t like to talk about my sex life and I don’t ask others about theirs either. I often get looked upon with a bad eye if I mention people I partake in action without commitment

 

[Gonthar]

nah, way too defensive, wtf

just say no

Then they say: "Ohhh....why not?".
What do you answer then?

 

[comfortably dumb]

Then they say: "Ohhh....why not?".
What do you answer then?

something half-assed like "i haven't been too active socially", "i haven't found her yet" etc

 

[onnysk]

it's just normie small talk

nothing malicious about it

 

[Gonthar]

something half-assed like "i haven't been too active socially", "i haven't found her yet" etc

- "But why?".

it's just normie small talk

nothing malicious about it

Some seem to like to really dig deep and keep asking questions, until you confess your faults and insecurities, while they stare at you like you're crazy and then be like: "Ummm...right...".
Then it's highly likely they will go and talk shit behind your back: "Hey, this guy doesn't have a girlfriend, what a loser!!!!!".

Never give normies ammo and confess any bad or weird things that can be used against you!

 

[onnysk]

- "But why?".

Some seem to like to really dig deep and keep asking questions, until you confess your faults and insecurities, while they stare at you like you're crazy and then be like: "Ummm...right...".
Then it's highly likely they will go and talk shit behind your back: "Hey, this guy doesn't have a girlfriend, what a loser!!!!!".

Never give normies ammo and confess any bad or weird things that can be used against you!

it's just small talk, people do it to get comfortable

if op were ugly no one would ask him, they would know he has no gf

 

[Gonthar]

it's just small talk, people do it to get comfortable

if op were ugly no one would ask him, they would know he has no gf

I was asked once(why I'm not married)...At a funeral, by an old priest, with throat cancer who could barely speak. WTF can you even say in this very particular situation, there were a bunch of other old folks around, everyone stared at me, I couldn't be rude, blunt or start preaching about black pill theory there, it would have been very retarded...

 

[JBcollector]

Just say you are asexual and a romantic

 

[Johnnybegood]

it's just normie small talk

nothing malicious about it

Finally someone with actual fucking sense, @onnysk come here brother!!

 

[john2]

What does it mean if girls ask you this question

They want to see whether you're a loser or not. But if you've been in an STR, a long distance relationship before, or if you've dated girls in the past, then most of them won't think you're a loser.

 

[reputation]

come out as Aroace

 

[reputation]

I don’t like to talk about my sex life and I don’t ask others about theirs either. I often get looked upon with a bad eye if I mention people I partake in action without commitment

they envy you

 

[Deleted member 19994]

İn reality, they want to suck your cock.

 

[reputation]

Does this happen to you?
Constantly meet lots of new people and have small talks with them. They unironically ask me whether I'm married, have gf or children (!).
Like, I get it, men are clueless bastards and women hate the idea of anyone not wanting to betabuxx, but it's still annoying that they just pretend I can have sex for free (I tried. Got rejected by landwhales, turbosluts and trannies) or assume I even want to get married.
Maybe it's time to low inhib maxx and just tell women: "I'm ugly and you know that, you hypocrite. You wouldn't fuck me" like a psycho.
But with men, I'll have to go through the whole prolonged discussion about zero matches on tinder, which I just don't care enough to have.

women want to provide for themselves and play with hot oneitis, gold-digging is for ugly women who cannot have a hot male.

 

[Britmaxxer]

most men my age (under 25) are single and get laid once every few months tops. nobody asks each other this because having a gf is so unusual.