People do the whole Non-Chalant aloof thing wrong

[mcmentalonthemic]

Guys our age notice that "hey, when I don't literally shower this foid with attention, she becomes much more responsive! So I will act mean and really aloof!"
They get success with it once and spam the strat.

This is the wrong way to go about this, you are not Chad and will only get limited results.

They ghost her mid convo and come back next day. You idiot, whilst you're "ghosting her" thinking she's missing you. she just messages Chad and Chad's friends for no cost.

Instead of just ghosting her, you have to do some shit like "I need to go for a smoke now, cya"
Something NT and aloof that isn't just acting like a distant sperg

And you have to mix it up aswell

 

[futureschizo]

Truee they catch on

wont put up with it unless youre chad

 

[Deleted member 131540]

its truly over if you have to implement these bullshit methods when texting girls

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

its truly over if you have to implement these bullshit methods when texting girls

I am at a stage of attractiveness where I don't need to do this to girls, I am just giving advice
I mean, I do use them, but only with girls I'm especially interested in emotionally instead of just a fling

 

[Deleted member 131540]

I am at a stage of attractiveness where I don't need to do this to girls, I am just giving advice
I mean, I do use them, but only with girls I'm especially interested in emotionally instead of just a fling

yeah I get using them, I was mainly referring to an overreliance on this

for me, I just use texting as a method for meeting up irl