People dont like you if you have original thoughts. Being relatable (opinion wise) is the key to others liking you.

[Deleted member 121482]

I realized there is no reason for you to have a opinion nowadays if you want to be liked.
I was experimenting with this at one point, and realized that when I actually say what I think or do what I want (give people good advice, ignore social anxiety and talk to anyone, ACTUALLY PARTY AT PARTIES AND NOT JUST DRINK AND STAY ON MY PHONE, or say something that they dont have a pre programmed response for) people act like its weird cause nowadays everyone is a antisocial dumb monkey that goes outside to spend time on their phone instead of socializing and being happy.

On the other hand when I say the most basic half assed relatable shit like: Yeah bro you are broke because of the government (definitely not cause you buy 3$ coffee every day, smoke a pack of cigs a day , drink 3 times a week and spend money on video games) or Yeah I also like "insert 5/10 show promoted on tiktok" or "insert shitty rock band that has 3 good songs out of 5 albums" they act like I am so interesting and cool and likeable.

TLDR: Be original with close friends/online , be a relatable dumbass with strangers

 

[Klasik616]

If you're agaisnt everyone opinions it is obvious you won't have friends

 

[Deleted member 94554]

That’s why u mask and lie

 

[Deleted member 121482]

If you're agaisnt everyone opinions it is obvious you won't have friends

very true, even if they are shit opinions because nowadays half of the population doesn't actually think for themselves and research, they just believe

 

[Brus Wane]

It's been that way for the longest time.

Shit like being original is why it didn't end well for guys like Socrates, Giordano Bruno and of course OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST.

If you want to be original or different, go to a debate club at uni , even then unis these days can be quite closed minded

If you want to fit in, go to a football game and agree with whatever you hear but use more vulgarities than the next guy.
Or a pub
Anywhere low to avg IQ really

 

[_MVP_]

i stopped saying what i really think irl long ago

i wear a mask

im an actor

 

[Aladin]

Water

 

[Deleted member 121482]

It's been that way for the longest time.

Shit like being original is why it didn't end well for guys like Socrates, Giordano Bruno and of course OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST.

If you want to be original or different, go to a debate club at uni , even then unis these days can be quite closed minded

If you want to fit in, go to a football game and agree with whatever you hear but use more vulgarities than the next guy.
Or a pub
Anywhere low to avg IQ really

I had a debate club in my hs and I went to one debate. Most braindead shit ever they were arguing on things that aren't even questions like why global warming is bad (as if you need more than 2 braincells to understand why)

 

[Bl0odKn1ght]

True, that is why i want to ascend

 

[RAITEIII]

I like to be challenged and anyone who's close to me in any way must expect to be challenged, in a respectful friendly way.

Someone who tries to cater to me by saying what I wanna hear means that eventually I'll notice they're fake and leave. Now, many people are like me and many could tell you're being fake too, and will leave.

I don't see why you wouldn't want honest feedback on whatever. Issue lies when someone gets cocky, pushy, smartass... but wanting to be told yes sounds like someone who is walking on egg shells and is unstable to handle opinions...

 

[love_enforcer]

no, people don't like losers with default coping mechanisms who aren't self-aware enough to realize there's nothing original about what they are saying, and that they are comforting themselves EXACTLY like every other loser ever

sorry

 

[Deleted member 115987]

If you're agaisnt everyone opinions it is obvious you won't have friends

high t tho

 

[fluxx]

mask

 

[Deleted member 121482]

no, people don't like losers with default coping mechanisms who aren't self-aware enough to realize there's nothing original about what they are saying, and that they are comforting themselves EXACTLY like every other loser ever

sorry

cant really tell if you agree with me or not but I will say this: try and go outside and get people to do "unusual activities for normies" like exploring a abandoned house at night or anything truly exciting. You will get either one of three responses: the "what" guy who thinks anything more than browsing tiktok is weird. the weirdo who WILL agree but will take it too far (like in the example I gave you they will turn it into some weird shit like going there and performing a ritual (shit example but you smart enough to get what I mean), or the average response of "maybe" but then they are either to scared to proceed with it or too lazy. To clarify, I am talking about original opinions as in thinking about something, doing research about it, doing research about alternatives, and only than deciding if its true or not, not just seeing a 3 minute tiktok about a topic and thinking its true.

 

[Volksstaffel]

Sophisticated grey. I like

 

[Aladin]

no, people don't like losers with default coping mechanisms who aren't self-aware enough to realize there's nothing original about what they are saying, and that they are comforting themselves EXACTLY like every other loser ever

sorry

cant really tell if you agree with me or not

I don’t think he was. I don’t even think he understood the OP though.

 

[Aladin]

no, people don't like losers with default coping mechanisms who aren't self-aware enough to realize there's nothing original about what they are saying, and that they are comforting themselves EXACTLY like every other loser ever

sorry

This message makes sense now with that avi.

 

[Prøphet]

Grass is green ahh realization. Pretend to be retarded intellectually and see how your life changes

 

[Deleted member 101201]

I realized there is no reason for you to have a opinion nowadays if you want to be liked.
I was experimenting with this at one point, and realized that when I actually say what I think or do what I want (give people good advice, ignore social anxiety and talk to anyone, ACTUALLY PARTY AT PARTIES AND NOT JUST DRINK AND STAY ON MY PHONE, or say something that they dont have a pre programmed response for) people act like its weird cause nowadays everyone is a antisocial dumb monkey that goes outside to spend time on their phone instead of socializing and being happy.

On the other hand when I say the most basic half assed relatable shit like: Yeah bro you are broke because of the government (definitely not cause you buy 3$ coffee every day, smoke a pack of cigs a day , drink 3 times a week and spend money on video games) or Yeah I also like "insert 5/10 show promoted on tiktok" or "insert shitty rock band that has 3 good songs out of 5 albums" they act like I am so interesting and cool and likeable.

TLDR: Be original with close friends/online , be a relatable dumbass with strangers

True telling your beliefs is the fastest way to isolation

 

[Aladin]

no, people don't like losers with default coping mechanisms who aren't self-aware enough to realize there's nothing original about what they are saying, and that they are comforting themselves EXACTLY like every other loser ever

sorry

How does this connect to the OP?

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

I realized there is no reason for you to have a opinion nowadays if you want to be liked.
I was experimenting with this at one point, and realized that when I actually say what I think or do what I want (give people good advice, ignore social anxiety and talk to anyone, ACTUALLY PARTY AT PARTIES AND NOT JUST DRINK AND STAY ON MY PHONE, or say something that they dont have a pre programmed response for) people act like its weird cause nowadays everyone is a antisocial dumb monkey that goes outside to spend time on their phone instead of socializing and being happy.

On the other hand when I say the most basic half assed relatable shit like: Yeah bro you are broke because of the government (definitely not cause you buy 3$ coffee every day, smoke a pack of cigs a day , drink 3 times a week and spend money on video games) or Yeah I also like "insert 5/10 show promoted on tiktok" or "insert shitty rock band that has 3 good songs out of 5 albums" they act like I am so interesting and cool and likeable.

TLDR: Be original with close friends/online , be a relatable dumbass with strangers

My friend is learning .org slang and calling me a greycel

 

[Andremln]

If you want to be original or different, go to a debate club at uni

debating is kind of useless irl tbh, humans appeal to authority, that is exactly why religion exists