People tell me I’m very gl and shit but are weirded out I never hit on a girl

[one job away]

Not trying to brag cuz I got nothing to brag about but pretty much every time i go out ppl comment on my good looks now. The thing is I never approach or try to hit or fck girls. And they ask me why and tell me to do it it and just talk to X girl whatever. The issue is I don’t want and they ask me why and I have no good answer. What would you say?

 

[volcelfatcel]

"can't be fucked mate"
just say that, there's no reason to be had except you don't want to fuck

 

[one job away]

i think this is all happening in your mind. it's called anxiety. maby people just find you a bit unapproachable UmU

What is happening in my mind ?

 

[Deleted member 6785]

Not trying to brag cuz I got nothing to brag about but pretty much every time i go out ppl comment on my good looks now. The thing is I never approach or try to hit or fck girls. And they ask me why and tell me to do it it and just talk to X girl whatever. The issue is I don’t want and they ask me why and I have no good answer. What would you say?

"None of your business plus i'm shagging your granny tonight"

 

[one job away]

anxiety

Im not scared tho. I just have nothing To say to people I don’t care for. I can’t strike a convo with random people cuz i literally don’t give a shit about them. You know how hard it is to talk about stuff you care absolutely 0 about? + i don’t care for random girls. I need to actually like them.

 

[Deleted member 10987]

Not trying to brag cuz I got nothing to brag about but pretty much every time i go out ppl comment on my good looks now. The thing is I never approach or try to hit or fck girls. And they ask me why and tell me to do it it and just talk to X girl whatever. The issue is I don’t want and they ask me why and I have no good answer. What would you say?

Just tell them that this is not their problem

 

[one job away]

"None of your business plus i'm shagging your granny tonight"

Hilarious ngl. But those people are usually friends of friends and just trying to help. Positive reinforcement shit

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Im not scared tho. I just have nothing To say to people I don’t care for. I can’t strike a convo with random people cuz i literally don’t give a shit about them. You know how hard it is to talk about stuff you care absolutely 0 about? + i don’t care for random girls. I need to actually like them.

Relatable

 

[.👽.]

fuck approaching just start tinder

 

[one job away]

Just tell them that this is not their problem

Issue is that The social circle I’m somewhat in is literally slayers upon slayers upon slayers. I mog pretty much all of them but they all (or most) have thousands of matches. Easily hit on every girl they like. Nt af. Interesting people. Fun to talk to. Interesting life’s. I’m a very odd one out in there. In a normal group i wouldn’t be so different cuz most guys larp. But those guys and girls are just impressive lifemoggers.