Personality does matter

[infra.nizar]

I've always heard from girls "you're so attractive, unfortunately you ruin it with your personality" and tbh I'm tired of pretending to be NT in front of foids
I'm not really ND but I do have low inhibition, and most of the time I act childish
ik goatis said that we should act natural even though it costs us to be antisocial, but most girls that used to like me run away in the first week of talking or texting

 

[Frenulum]

i act natural im nt naturally and charming and high t and high iq and dark triad

 

[underwearremover]

goatis said

 

[Node]

OMFG NOWA OMGOMGOMG AHOWIOWWO

 

[armemann]

but extremy unimportant in comparison to looks

 

[infra.nizar]

yeah he's a retard but he still said a valid point

 

[infra.nizar]

but extremy unimportant in comparison to looks

well I've ruined every situationship I've had with the foids attracted to me just by being me
time to larp

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

I've always heard from girls "you're so attractive, unfortunately you ruin it with your personality" and tbh I'm tired of pretending to be NT in front of foids
I'm not really ND but I do have low inhibition, and most of the time I act childish
ik goatis said that we should act natural even though it costs us to be antisocial, but most girls that used to like me run away in the first week of talking or texting

only if your shy antisocial or nd or have social anxiety

 

[infra.nizar]

shy antisocial

no

nd

not truly diagnosed with some neurodivergence but I sometimes act childish

have social anxiety

absolutely not

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

no

not truly diagnosed with some neurodivergence but I sometimes act childish

absolutely not

it wasnt your personality

 

[infra.nizar]

it wasnt your personality

yeah I thought about that too
but like the girls that came up to me (naturally they're attracted) are the ones who get distant after finding out my true self
so it is about looks but I think my personality is so awful or childish that they run away

 

[cynical]

at these normies

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

yeah I thought about that too
but like the girls that came up to me (naturally they're attracted) are the ones who get distant after finding out my true self
so it is about looks but I think my personality is so awful or childish that they run away

low inhib is good dw about personality

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Personality doesn't matter. Because it implies that you can be ugly as hell and still not get rejected over your looks. This isn't true, women are very superficial. Personality only matters if you're already considered good-looking enough for them.

 

[kktsk]

Personality doesn't matter. Because it implies that you can be ugly as hell and still not get rejected over your looks. This isn't true, women are very superficial. Personality only matters if you're already considered good-looking enough for them.

niggas on org still cant explain the michael b jordan effect
and if personality does not matter it implies you can be a total retard and still get laid
sean o'pry's autistic ass doesn't really

 

[infra.nizar]

Personality doesn't matter. Because it implies that you can be ugly as hell and still not get rejected over your looks. This isn't true, women are very superficial. Personality only matters if you're already considered good-looking enough for them.

low inhib is good dw about personality

too rigid ngl
looks set the first filter, most women reject or accept fast based on appearance
research by paul eastwick shows this stage relies on visual cues, once you pass that level your behavior drives the outcome
work by finkel shows warmth, social awareness and emotional control increase attraction during interaction, you lose interest when you show low inhibition, poor timing, or childish reactions, so looks get you in the door and your personality decides if you stay

 

[Outlander]

Personality only matters in terms of how NT you are, and women do not care if you are a good person or not.

 

[infra.nizar]

Personality only matters in terms of how NT you are, and women do not care if you are a good person or not.

too narrow
social ease helps early because smooth behavior feels comfortable, but women still judge how you act over time, you can get initial interest with looks and confidence, then lose it fast if you act disrespectful, unstable, or childish, so NT traits help you start, but your behavior decides if you keep attention