Personality does matter

[infra.nizar]

I've always heard from girls "you're so attractive, unfortunately you ruin it with your personality" and tbh I'm tired of pretending to be NT in front of foids
I'm not really ND but I do have low inhibition, and most of the time I act childish
ik goatis said that we should act natural even though it costs us to be antisocial, but most girls that used to like me run away in the first week of talking or texting

 

[Frenulum]

i act natural im nt naturally and charming and high t and high iq and dark triad

 

[underwearremover]

goatis said

 

[Node]

OMFG NOWA OMGOMGOMG AHOWIOWWO

 

[armemann]

but extremy unimportant in comparison to looks

 

[infra.nizar]

yeah he's a retard but he still said a valid point

 

[infra.nizar]

but extremy unimportant in comparison to looks

well I've ruined every situationship I've had with the foids attracted to me just by being me
time to larp

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

I've always heard from girls "you're so attractive, unfortunately you ruin it with your personality" and tbh I'm tired of pretending to be NT in front of foids
I'm not really ND but I do have low inhibition, and most of the time I act childish
ik goatis said that we should act natural even though it costs us to be antisocial, but most girls that used to like me run away in the first week of talking or texting

only if your shy antisocial or nd or have social anxiety

 

[infra.nizar]

shy antisocial

no

nd

not truly diagnosed with some neurodivergence but I sometimes act childish

have social anxiety

absolutely not

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

no

not truly diagnosed with some neurodivergence but I sometimes act childish

absolutely not

it wasnt your personality

 

[infra.nizar]

it wasnt your personality

yeah I thought about that too
but like the girls that came up to me (naturally they're attracted) are the ones who get distant after finding out my true self
so it is about looks but I think my personality is so awful or childish that they run away

 

[cynical]

at these normies

 

[iwannasleeponurlap]

yeah I thought about that too
but like the girls that came up to me (naturally they're attracted) are the ones who get distant after finding out my true self
so it is about looks but I think my personality is so awful or childish that they run away

low inhib is good dw about personality

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Personality doesn't matter. Because it implies that you can be ugly as hell and still not get rejected over your looks. This isn't true, women are very superficial. Personality only matters if you're already considered good-looking enough for them.

 

[kktsk]

Personality doesn't matter. Because it implies that you can be ugly as hell and still not get rejected over your looks. This isn't true, women are very superficial. Personality only matters if you're already considered good-looking enough for them.

niggas on org still cant explain the michael b jordan effect
and if personality does not matter it implies you can be a total retard and still get laid
sean o'pry's autistic ass doesn't really

 

[infra.nizar]

Personality doesn't matter. Because it implies that you can be ugly as hell and still not get rejected over your looks. This isn't true, women are very superficial. Personality only matters if you're already considered good-looking enough for them.

low inhib is good dw about personality

too rigid ngl
looks set the first filter, most women reject or accept fast based on appearance
research by paul eastwick shows this stage relies on visual cues, once you pass that level your behavior drives the outcome
work by finkel shows warmth, social awareness and emotional control increase attraction during interaction, you lose interest when you show low inhibition, poor timing, or childish reactions, so looks get you in the door and your personality decides if you stay

 

[Outlander]

Personality only matters in terms of how NT you are, and women do not care if you are a good person or not.

 

[infra.nizar]

Personality only matters in terms of how NT you are, and women do not care if you are a good person or not.

too narrow
social ease helps early because smooth behavior feels comfortable, but women still judge how you act over time, you can get initial interest with looks and confidence, then lose it fast if you act disrespectful, unstable, or childish, so NT traits help you start, but your behavior decides if you keep attention

 

[tgun564636]

chad can have bad personally but still be seen as good and funny person to be around.

The way your “personality” is perceived is 90 percent down to how you look.

I’m speaking from experience as sometime who’s gone from htn to ltn back to htn.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

niggas on org still cant explain the michael b jordan effect
and if personality does not matter it implies you can be a total retard and still get laid
sean o'pry's autistic ass doesn't really

too rigid ngl
looks set the first filter, most women reject or accept fast based on appearance
research by paul eastwick shows this stage relies on visual cues, once you pass that level your behavior drives the outcome
work by finkel shows warmth, social awareness and emotional control increase attraction during interaction, you lose interest when you show low inhibition, poor timing, or childish reactions, so looks get you in the door and your personality decides if you stay

Still, saying personality does matter is also false because it really doesn't when you are unattractive. It only starts mattering to some degree if you have good looks to back you up, but even then you can be as shitty as you want and still pull. Sean O'pry is unironically a really nice guy so he shouldn't be used as an example. Being non-NT doesn't mean you have a bad personality. The truth is you can be as shitty as you want and still get women, but you need to be a chad to get away with even more stuff but that should be water at this point.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

chad can have bad personally but still be seen as good and funny person to be around.

The way your “personality” is perceived is 90 percent down to how you look

This.

 

[infra.nizar]

chad can have bad personally but still be seen as good and funny person to be around.

The way your “personality” is perceived is 90 percent down to how you look

strong looks do create a halo effect where people rate you as more likable and funny at first, but this fades with interaction, if your behavior shows low control, disrespect, or instability, interest drops fast even for highly attractive men, u can see this in short term attention versus who gets repeat dates and stays, looks bias perception early, ur actions decide how long people stay

 

[infra.nizar]

Still, saying personality does matter is also false because it really doesn't when you are unattractive. It only starts mattering to some degree if you have good looks to back you up, but even then you can be as shitty as you want and still pull. Sean O'pry is unironically a really nice guy so he shouldn't be used as an example. Being non-NT doesn't mean you have a bad personality. The truth is you can be as shitty as you want and still get women, but you need to be a chad to get away with even more stuff but that should be water at this point.

as I said before strong looks set first filter
low attractiveness reduces attention and matches. halo effect raises perceived humor and kindness at first, fades after real interaction. personality changes outcomes across every looks tier. calm, respectful, socially aware behavior raises response rates and second dates
social psychology research finds first impressions shift after face to face interaction. behavior signals like warmth, respect, responsiveness predict continued interest across dates

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

as I said before strong looks set first filter
low attractiveness reduces attention and matches. halo effect raises perceived humor and kindness at first, fades after real interaction. personality changes outcomes across every looks tier. calm, respectful, socially aware behavior raises response rates and second dates
social psychology research finds first impressions shift after face to face interaction. behavior signals like warmth, respect, responsiveness predict continued interest across dates

And like I said.. if you're a chad, you can get away with anything. If you can't get away with it, it just means you aren't attractive enough. Even if you aren't unattractive. Looks are the single most important factor here.

 

[infra.nizar]

And like I said.. if you're a chad, you can get away with anything. If you can't get away with it, it just means you aren't attractive enough. Even if you aren't unattractive. Looks are the single most important factor here.

u overrate how much looks protect bad behavior.
strong looks help you pass the first filter and buy patience early. they do not erase consequences. if you act selfish, unstable, or disrespectful, interest drops even when you are attractive.
what changes is speed, attractive people get more chances before rejection. that is not “chad get away with anything”, that is “get more tolerance at the start”.
over time, people judge how you behave in real interaction. consistent bad behavior removes interest across all attractiveness levels.
Looks are important, but they do not control the full outcome.

 

[astatin]

water

Everyone knows that personallity matters most

 

[fraudislaw]

water
NT pill

 

[infra.nizar]

bump

 

[GeneticsIsEverythin]

DNR but yeah it’s all about being NT

 

[armemann]

well I've ruined every situationship I've had with the foids attracted to me just by being me
time to larp

Yeah true, even same for me

 

[infra.nizar]

@iwannasleeponurlap @Outlander @tgun564636 @Gengar’s Ghost @armemann
I finally figured it out
I understand why they get disappointed, first they see a 6'1, LMTN with a wide frame and they think I'm mature and normal
but when we text I get childish and act stupid, that's why they get frustrated

 

[armemann]

@iwannasleeponurlap @Outlander @tgun564636 @Gengar’s Ghost @armemann
I finally figured it out
I understand why they get disappointed, first they see a 6'1, LMTN with a wide frame and they think I'm mature and normal
but when we text I get childish and act stupid, that's why they get frustrated

Yeah tbh i think its exactly the same for me
6‘2 MTN
some girls prob found me attractive, but i think im just not serious enough
I never act serious or nonchalant but joke in every situation

I think i gotta kill that part of me to finally reach a realtionship

 

[infra.nizar]

Yeah tbh i think its exactly the same for me
6‘2 MTN
some girls prob found me attractive, but i think im just not serious enough
I never act serious or nonchalant but joke in every situation

I think i gotta kill that part of me to finally reach a realtionship

we're all going to pretend we are someone we are not to fit in in 2026

 

[Rick_bozo]

I've always heard from girls "you're so attractive, unfortunately you ruin it with your personality"

Your not attractive enough

 

[infra.nizar]

Your not attractive enough

just a little bit above average
grateful