please save me

[cute_cat271k]

i made "friends" these past months trying to get my life together and the only thing i saw was them getting an unreal amount girls and love while im always forgotten because i am such a fucking loser everyone around me is fucking annoying i genuinely hate everything i tried to actually talk to a foid and she "wasn't ready" and i saw her with 3 guys since JFL i actually don't know what to do anymore i haven't been out in months and im a rotter slop just please drop actual advice

 

[grilldaddy❤️]

Welcome to your future

 

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Are you nt

How do you look

 

[160cmcurry]

 

[cute_cat271k]

Are you nt

How do you look

ive been actually diagnosed with neurodivergency and im like hmtn according to alot of people i talked to

 

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ive been actually diagnosed with neurodivergency and im like hmtn according to alot of people i talked to

What are your ND traits, you should slay

 

[d0wnpour_]

i made "friends" these past months trying to get my life together and the only thing i saw was them getting an unreal amount girls and love while im always forgotten because i am such a fucking loser everyone around me is fucking annoying i genuinely hate everything i tried to actually talk to a foid and she "wasn't ready" and i saw her with 3 guys since JFL i actually don't know what to do anymore i haven't been out in months and im a rotter slop just please drop actual advice

Having NT and outgoing friends is law. They'll put you in optimal situations. Yes, you're not chad, but you might as well work with what you have instead of complaining. Rotting all day won't get you slays.

 

[d0wnpour_]

ive been actually diagnosed with neurodivergency and im like hmtn according to alot of people i talked to

Due to your ND I'd just say you're overthinking you should slay

 

[cute_cat271k]

What are your ND traits, you should slay

shit emotions and really bad at communicating with people

 

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Due to your ND I'd just say you're overthinking you should slay

Nah if he's acc diagnosed ND there's a chance he could be low inhib and ND like i have, its not fun

 

[cute_cat271k]

Due to your ND I'd just say you're overthinking you should slay

i genuinely have no confidence anymore i cannot approach people in real life

 

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Yeah same issue i get verbally mogged in a convo

My advice is to copy your NT slayer friends mannerism and behavior, do some science and just trial and error

idk how i can advice this but you just gotta try and learn and improve

shit emotions and really bad at communicating with people

 

[Deleted member 76088]

i genuinely have no confidence anymore i cannot approach people in real life

Just tell people you’re nd. It’s better to get treated like a retard than like a weirdo

 

[d0wnpour_]

i genuinely have no confidence anymore i cannot approach people in real life

I can totally understand that tbh I'm the same way sometimes. Best ways to get over it is genuinely just having the mindset of "being sad/rotting won't help me". The second I started realizing that no matter how much I complained or thought bad thoughts I would still be stuck in my situation, the more I started being outgoing purely because it doesnt matter wtf i do

 

[cute_cat271k]

Yeah same issue i get verbally mogged in a convo

My advice is to copy your NT slayer friends mannerism and behavior, do some science and just trial and error

idk how i can advice this but you just gotta try and learn and improg

have tried and i was a fucking robot lmfao

 

[Cicciosudmaxxer]

 

[cute_cat271k]

Just tell people you’re nd. It’s better to get treated like a retard than like a weirdo

it's pretty obvious, most my friends that aren't even close know that im open about saying it

 

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have tried and i was a fucking robot lmfao

If you can, try to get oxytocin peptide thats real grade if available, you can benefit from it

 

[cute_cat271k]

I can totally understand that tbh I'm the same way sometimes. Best ways to get over it is genuinely just having the mindset of "being sad/rotting won't help me". The second I started realizing that no matter how much I complained or thought bad thoughts I would still be stuck in my situation, the more I started being outgoing purely because it doesnt matter wtf i do

it's just sad bro im capped at a dogshit height and i always try to think in a "positive" way and it backfires

 

[cute_cat271k]

If you can, try to get oxytocin peptide thats real grade if available, you can benefit from it

what benefits does it give?

 

[Deleted member 76088]

it's pretty obvious, most my friends that aren't even close know that im open about saying it

If you’re hmtn then you should find someone even if slightly nd. I mean I’m a normal mtn and have somewhat of an acceptable romantic life

 

[Deleted member 76088]

it's just sad bro im capped at a dogshit height and i always try to think in a "positive" way and it backfires

How tall and how old?

 

[d0wnpour_]

it's just sad bro im capped at a dogshit height and i always try to think in a "positive" way and it backfires

Sure I understand but what the fuck is thinking negatively gonna do for you? Genuinely you just have to think positively, and I know that sounds like cope, but it isn't. Thinking positively increases dopamine and other positive hormones in the body which aid in attractiveness and outgoing behavior. If you think about it, everyone in human history up until a few years ago had no choice to rot all day. They had to be outgoing and that is how all your ancestors found wives. Positive pill for the win

 

[cute_cat271k]

If you’re hmtn then you should find someone even if slightly nd. I mean I’m a normal mtn and have somewhat of an acceptable romantic life

sadly im not slightly nd, even my parents shame me for being such a fucking no social life loser it's actually a joke

 

[cute_cat271k]

How tall and how old?

i am 14 and 5'7 but i was forced to be a grade above my age

 

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what benefits does it give?

Im not sure if its new and publicly available since peptides are impossible in my country but you can read the paper

https://looksmax.org/threads/oxytocin-will-save-me.1570067/post-22415443

 

[Deleted member 76088]

sadly im not slightly nd, even my parents shame me for being such a fucking no social life loser it's actually a joke

Remember that life is meaningless. Just consume absurd amounts of nicotine and touch yourself. That’s literally heaven on earth and will never get boring

 

[takethezincpill]

i don’t know

forgive me

 

[cute_cat271k]

Sure I understand but what the fuck is thinking negatively gonna do for you? Genuinely you just have to think positively, and I know that sounds like cope, but it isn't. Thinking positively increases dopamine and other positive hormones in the body which aid in attractiveness and outgoing behavior. If you think about it, everyone in human history up until a few years ago had no choice to rot all day. They had to be outgoing and that is how all your ancestors found wives. Positive pill for the win

can you give me any actual advice on how to think in a better way?

 

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Why

i am 14 and 5'7 but i was forced to be a grade above my age

 

[Deleted member 76088]

i am 14 and 5'7 but i was forced to be a grade above my age

Nah bro you’re 14 there is still hope. I was 5’7 at 14 too and I am now 6 foot at 19. Plus you will develop more facially

 

[d0wnpour_]

can you give me any actual advice on how to think in a better way?

First of all, 5'7 at 14 isn't bad at all. I was 5'7 at 14 and now I'm 5'10. Not the best height, but technically barely above average and a decent height to sit at. So don't worry abt that. Even if 5'7 at 14 you'll likely grow more cuz ur literally only 14 and even if it is only one or two inches that is fine as a hmtn, especially being a hmtn at 14 which is good.

Secondly, weird advice but smiling even if youre not happy (i mean full face smile really act like ur happy) releases dopamine. Just the act of smiling releases dopamine and can increases positivity in your mood. Another good one is just to do what you like, like play some videogames or go on a walk while listening to music.

 

[cute_cat271k]

Why

i was way smarter than people my age in like grade 3 and i used to compete internationally in alot of contests

 

[cute_cat271k]

Nah bro you’re 14 there is still hope. I was 5’7 at 14 too and I am now 6 foot at 19. Plus you will develop more facially

my dad and mom are both 5'7 lol

 

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my dad and mom are both 5'7 lol

My mom is way shorter than that and my dad is maybe 5'9

 

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You just made me smile because I remember that forcing your smile makes you happier

 

[cute_cat271k]

My mom is way shorter than that and my dad is maybe 5'9

i just hope my growth spurt comes soon, i genuinely get towered even by girls at my school

 

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my dad and mom are both 5'7 lol

My dad is 5'7 and my mom is 5'6 and i grew to 6'0

Chill, you will defo grow way taller, esp since your mom is relatively above avg height

 

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First of all, 5'7 at 14 isn't bad at all. I was 5'7 at 14 and now I'm 5'10. Not the best height, but technically barely above average and a decent height to sit at. So don't worry abt that. Even if 5'7 at 14 you'll likely grow more cuz ur literally only 14 and even if it is only one or two inches that is fine as a hmtn, especially being a hmtn at 14 which is good.

Secondly, weird advice but smiling even if youre not happy (i mean full face smile really act like ur happy) releases dopamine. Just the act of smiling releases dopamine and can increases positivity in your mood. Another good one is just to do what you like, like play some videogames or go on a walk while listening to music.

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You just made me smile because I remember that forcing your smile makes you happier

 

[cute_cat271k]

You just made me smile because I remember that forcing your smile makes you happier

genuinely made me smile

 

[cute_cat271k]

My dad is 5'7 and my mom is 5'6 and i grew to 6'0

Chill, you will defo grow way taller, esp since your mom is relatively above avg height

First of all, 5'7 at 14 isn't bad at all. I was 5'7 at 14 and now I'm 5'10. Not the best height, but technically barely above average and a decent height to sit at. So don't worry abt that. Even if 5'7 at 14 you'll likely grow more cuz ur literally only 14 and even if it is only one or two inches that is fine as a hmtn, especially being a hmtn at 14 which is good.

Secondly, weird advice but smiling even if youre not happy (i mean full face smile really act like ur happy) releases dopamine. Just the act of smiling releases dopamine and can increases positivity in your mood. Another good one is just to do what you like, like play some videogames or go on a walk while listening to music.

everyone reached a good height in my opinion when did you grow?

 

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genuinely made me smile

A smiling hmtn is a temporary htn, your bones show more when you smile btw

 

[d0wnpour_]

everyone reached a good height in my opinion when did you grow?

Major growth happened at late 15-16. I'm 17 rn so maybe i'll grow more but its not likely but im chill with that tbh

 

[cute_cat271k]

A smiling hmtn is a temporary htn, your bones show more when you smile btw

i have bad teeth, im getting braces soon for that tho hopefully my smile will actually look alright

 

[cute_cat271k]

Major growth happened at late 15-16. I'm 17 rn so maybe i'll grow more but its not likely but im chill with that tbh

hopefully ill grow sooner, my growth has been really slow

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

ask your friends who have gf for a threesome

 

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everyone reached a good height in my opinion when did you grow?

I was 5'9 at 14 now im literally dead set 6'0 at 17, im very tall for my ethnicity, you will grow dw

 

[cute_cat271k]

ask your friends who have gf for a threesome

tbh this isn't even a bad idea but it will be kind of weird

 

[d0wnpour_]

hopefully ill grow sooner, my growth has been really slow

having good diet and hormones matters. consume calcium to help support your bones and make sure u get as much nutrients as u can daily to maximize your potential. if i did that i genuinely might have been hotter looking and taller

 

[cute_cat271k]

I was 5'9 at 14 now im literally dead set 6'0 at 17, im tall for my ethnicity, you will grow dw

hopefully will man