Deleted member 1464
- Apr 14, 2019
No, but I've picked up a fair amount of girls and have watched other guys pick up girls. I've had sex with 20 girls and I'm 26, so while I'm not the best in the world, I have a good idea of what works and what doesn't.
Mainly, you want to present yourself as an attractive, interesting, funny, confident, high value person that clearly has options. This is the key. Just be a cool guy. Don't be desperate, clingy, overly nice, too interested, etc.
Here's a few more specific tips:
1) Open up a conversation with her right when you see her. The longer you wait to say hi, the less confident/interesting/cool you appear.
Just "What's up?" usually does the trick. Bonus points if you have an interesting opener, such as "I was having an argument with my friend about [blank], what do you think?"
2) Tease frequently. This has a dual effect of making her laugh and making you look high value, like a guy that won't put up with shit. It's also just fun. Don't defend yourself if she makes fun of you, instead just augment it.
Say a girl says to you "I bet you have a 1 inch dick."
A good response would be "Only 1/2 an inch, but I'm still waiting for puberty!"
A bad response would be "What? No it's way bigger than that"
3) Involve the whole group if you're talking to a girl in a group. Definitely talk to the guys and get them on your side. Be someone that the whole group finds interesting. Don't try to isolate the girl too early if she's with friends, or her friends will pull her back.
4) Once she gives some signs of being interested (giggling, touching her hair, complimenting you, etc.), start lightly touching her at good times. So make a joke and then touch her side, or something like that. Don't keep your hand on her awkwardly though. Touching builds attraction if done right.
5) Don't act like you're trying to prove yourself to her. If anything, you should see it as the other way around. Overtly bragging looks very low value. Get her to brag.
6) Don't open by buying her a drink. That's a pretty low-status move. If anything, tell her to get you the first round and you'll get the second.
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