Poll: Does Game/Personality Matter?

[Merćer]

pimps make no sense to me.

I think it's an advanced form of beta-buxxing with multiple women at once with some PUA bullshit sprinkled in.

Lol it dont work like that. They have that mystic to them, even the most degenerate of the degenerate whore succumb to their influence.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Going for what you want, being socially adept (self awareness), and holding frame over females in every interaction you have with them. You gotta lead the way and set the tone 100% of the time.

 

[Selinity]

Going for what you want, being socially adept (self awareness), and holding frame over females in every interaction you have with them. You gotta lead the way and set the tone 100% of the time.

Hold frame?

Okay, I am holding my frame, now what?

 

[Deleted member 5185]

Going for what you want, being socially adept (self awareness), and holding frame over females in every interaction you have with them. You gotta lead the way and set the tone 100% of the time.

I disagree. This is redpill thinking.

Micromanaging single interactions isn't important. What is important is to make the girl know that you are above her in terms of status. Acting silly, being insecure in a given situation and so on in any single interaction won't matter. Its the general, overall picture that matters. If she thinks you can just walk out the door and fuck a woman that is equal if not hotter than her, she won't ditch you (assuming you look good enough for her).

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Hold frame?

Okay, I am holding my frame, now what?

Not your physical frame. The frame of your interactions. Setting the tone and emotions of a conversation. You can't let a woman change your frame.

For example, if you're laughing about something and at the same time she gets offended by it you can't let her change your frame of mind. That's actually a really weak example. I'm not very good at explaining this.

 

[wristcel]

Everyone seems to basically already have the right answer.

'Game' can help you bang girls faster and more efficiently and make you less likely to completely fuck up with girls who are kinda into you (Once I studied 'game', my lay count went up a lot, but it was basically simply due to numbers game rather than some PUA wizardry. Approached way more girls, and better capitalized on attraction). You can't force attraction in a girl with 'game'. She needs to find you hot. At that point, the amount of 'game' you need is determined by just HOW hot she finds you, and how hot she is etc etc etc

I think guys punching way out of their league happens due to various reasons such as

1/luck? She just happens to think you're handsome and has weird taste in guys? I've benefited from this and have banged some girls who are way way too hot and young for my ugly old ass.

2/Social circle/propinquity?
I think that's how shit like this is explained:

https://looksmax.org/threads/that-g...he-looks-like-shit.270399/page-2#post-4766269

 

[Selinity]

Everyone seems to basically already have the right answer.

'Game' can help you bang girls faster and more efficiently and make you less likely to completely fuck up with girls who are kinda into you (Once I studied 'game', my lay count went up a lot, but it was basically simply due to numbers game rather than some PUA wizardry. Approached way more girls, and better capitalized on attraction). You can't force attraction in a girl with 'game'. She needs to find you hot. At that point, the amount of 'game' you need is determined by just HOW hot she finds you, and how hot she is etc etc etc

I think guys punching way out of their league happens due to various reasons such as

1/luck? She just happens to think you're handsome and has weird taste in guys? I've benefited from this and have banged some girls who are way way too hot and young for my ugly old ass.

2/Social circle/propinquity?
I think that's how shit like this is explained:

https://looksmax.org/threads/that-g...he-looks-like-shit.270399/page-2#post-4766269

Thankyou for your insight

 

[one job away]

Game and personality; when you think of the two what comes into mind is most likely PUA, cold approaching and chatting up women in an attempt to gain romantic interest. Acting 'alpha' or 'confident' and displaying certain mannerism about you that signal a higher status.

We've all though about these two before, and more importantly whether or not they genuinely matter when it comes to building attraction.

Personally, I do think that game and personality matters, but I would like to know what the looksmaxxing public thinks on the topic, and hopefully see some new opinions regarding the age old debate of personality vs looks.

If you would like to participate in the 'does game/personality matter' survey, you can so here:

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game exists even in nature. this forum likes to look at primal instincts of animals. some birds for example dance to attract females or sing a certain melody. game exists throughout the animal kingdom.

 

[Selinity]

Everyone seems to basically already have the right answer.

'Game' can help you bang girls faster and more efficiently and make you less likely to completely fuck up with girls who are kinda into you (Once I studied 'game', my lay count went up a lot, but it was basically simply due to numbers game rather than some PUA wizardry. Approached way more girls, and better capitalized on attraction). You can't force attraction in a girl with 'game'. She needs to find you hot. At that point, the amount of 'game' you need is determined by just HOW hot she finds you, and how hot she is etc etc etc

I think guys punching way out of their league happens due to various reasons such as

1/luck? She just happens to think you're handsome and has weird taste in guys? I've benefited from this and have banged some girls who are way way too hot and young for my ugly old ass.

2/Social circle/propinquity?
I think that's how shit like this is explained:

https://looksmax.org/threads/that-g...he-looks-like-shit.270399/page-2#post-4766269

Holy shit, that thread is something else JFL

 

[Deleted member 12002]

I disagree. This is redpill thinking.

Micromanaging single interactions isn't important. What is important is to make the girl know that you are above her in terms of status. Acting silly, being insecure in a given situation and so on in any single interaction won't matter. Its the general, overall picture that matters. If she thinks you can just walk out the door and fuck a woman that is equal if not hotter than her, she won't ditch you (assuming you look good enough for her).

That's running dread game. Yeah, it works. But you gotta get to a certain point before you can do it. You don't think someone who looks like Chico can't be a beta who gets walked all over and controled by women? I've seen it more than enough times in my life.

It's not about micromanaging single actions. It's about forcibly throwing off the yoke of beta male conditioning until the right actions become natural. It's about getting back to your instincts.

 

[Deleted member 5185]

That's running dread game. Yeah, it works. But you gotta get to a certain point before you can do it. You don't think someone who looks like Chico can't be a beta who gets walked all over and controled by women? I've seen it more than enough times in my life.

It's not about micromanaging single actions. It's about forcibly throwing off the yoke of beta male conditioning until the right actions become natural. It's about getting back to your instincts.

The only point of any game is what you call "dread". You don't need to get anywhere - it doesn't matter if its the first time you meet a chick or you've been married for 20 years. The important thing is that as long as she believes you're the best guy she can bag, she won't leave you or cheat on you.

The only point, the only goal, the only thing you can and should try to achieve with game is to make her believe that you are the highest SMV man she can be with. If she believes that you can get a woman of equal or higher quality, while she cannot get a man of equal or higher quality after a potential breakup or even after just meeting her once, she will stay interested.

If Chico, Tyler Maher and other PSL gods manages to convince the girl they're with that she can do better, she will leave them. It takes a lot more cuckery from them to achieve that then from a looksmatched man. However, this requires behaving systemically like a cuck. If you as a man know and believe in your heart that you can do better than whoever you are currently with, and that is reflected in the objective reality and she knows it - then that is all it takes.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

The only point of any game is what you call "dread". You don't need to get anywhere - it doesn't matter if its the first time you meet a chick or you've been married for 20 years. The important thing is that as long as she believes you're the best guy she can bag, she won't leave you or cheat on you.

The only point, the only goal, the only thing you can and should try to achieve with game is to make her believe that you are the highest SMV man she can be with. If she believes that you can get a woman of equal or higher quality, while she cannot get a man of equal or higher quality after a potential breakup or even after just meeting her once, she will stay interested.

If Chico, Tyler Maher and other PSL gods manages to convince the girl they're with that she can do better, she will leave them. It takes a lot more cuckery from them to achieve that then from a looksmatched man. However, this requires behaving systemically like a cuck. If you as a man know and believe in your heart that you can do better than whoever you are currently with, and that is reflected in the objective reality and she knows it - then that is all it takes.

A woman doesn't have to believe you can do better than her to understand that you could potentially leave her.

 

[Lars]

it does matter alot i can tell

 

[Deleted member 10602]

Oh hey its the social suicide dude, how did your school shit go? Any Update?

 

[Selinity]

Oh hey its the social suicide dude, how did your school shit go? Any Update?

After I apologized everyone forgave me and moved on with their lives, even were nice to me again and shit.

Like nothing ever happened.

Weird. But I am not complaining.

Guess sperging out once wasn't good enough for a social suicide jfl

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Yes but also, your looks shapes your personality to some degree

 

[Deleted member 10602]

After I apologized everyone forgave me and moved on with their lives, even were nice to me again and shit.

Like nothing ever happened.

Weird. But I am not complaining.

Guess sperging out once wasn't good enough for a social suicide jfl

Hmm yes true. If I were you I would've done the same shit tbh, taking advice from autists on here will wreck you and your social life, they don't have any social life and they're fine with it but you probably aren't the same. I would still use some advanced mind warfare against niggers who I don't like

 

[Selinity]

Hmm yes true. If I were you I would've done the same shit tbh, taking advice from autists on here will wreck you and your social life, they don't have any social life and they're fine with it but you probably aren't the same. I would still use some advanced mind warfare against niggers who I don't like

mind-warefare?

Please, share some examples and sources where I can learn that.

 

[Deleted member 10602]

mind-warefare?

Please, share some examples and sources where I can learn that.

just books on human behaviour, psychology, debating etc I assume, if you really wanted to learn more about it. You can have a shitty argument basis and come out on top. I don't really know much about it tbh but I've seen winning people's emotions and other stuff makes them think your argument is actually pretty good. Like porn, immigration, degeneracy and other shit.

 

[eduardkoopman]

game/personality can make a foid swoon over you even more if you meet the looks requirement and it's needed for LTR

otherwise it's cope

true that.

 

[Selinity]

true that.

goddamn, persoanlity copers BTFO

 

[GigaAscender]

I am a greycel, it's my job to make stupid threads

fucking greycel

 

[Chinacurry]

So basically personality gets you used up roasties in their 30s?

LIFEFUEL

Lifefuel till you hear what they did with other guys anyway...

Otherwise just spin plates bro!!

 

[eduardkoopman]

goddamn, persoanlity copers BTFO

Lol

Muh personality

 

[Deleted member 12611]

Personality matters to get to know women, and to reinforce infatuation/the halo effect with women you already know. That's it. That's why high-inhib aspie chadlites here get outslayed by low-inhib NT normies, for reason 1. That's why cuck behaviour is outslayed by dom behaviour, for reason 2.

 

[JamesHowlett]

Everything matters.

Looks/status matters more but personality/game is still important.

 

[N1c]

Game is the biggest cope out there. It dosent matter. However personality is a diffrent thing then game and that matters. If you are to autstic or to nice it is over

 

[klamus]

Or lets take an extreme example: A 6ft 6.5PSL guy with some personality disorder that makes him sit inside all day and play videogames -

Literally me