R
randomuser2407
Noble Natty
- Joined
- Aug 19, 2020
- Posts
- 6,914
- Reputation
- 9,983
I know a guy who usually get the same amount of likes as me but when he uses a boost on Saturday night, he gets around 50 likes, which gives him enough matches to get laid.40 likes in 20 days. You mean 20 minutes????i hope to god that was a typo
ur gonna need to gymcel to get good smv boyo
I'm not bragging about my 40 likes in 20 days, I know that it's a low number but what I meant is that since my matches are of average looks and I get such a small amount, then I'm average on Tinder, in fact, the average man gets even less likes than me.
The main problem with Tinder though is that 90% of its users are men and only 10% are women, which is why there is such a big gap between the amount of matches that women get and what men get. Some could say that it's the same in real life because they think that women get approached a lot but it's not really the case unless you're in a bar or a club, and even in that environment, even though women do have the advantage, it's not 90% of men and 10% of women in most bars and clubs, so since there are more women, it is much easier to succeed in a bar or a club than on Tinder.
The reason why Tinder requires you to be in the top 10% (or better) is because the supply of women is so low that they have the advantage and they know it, so it allows them to be as picky as they want because they know that if they want a really good looking man, they will be able to get him.
Unlike what many of you believe, most women don't use Tinder, and that's mainly because they prefer meeting guys in real life because they find it difficult to accept to go on a date with a guy that they know nothing about. In real life, you can have at least a 10 minute conversation before you ask a woman out on a date and during that time you can actually talk, while on Tinder, it's limited to texting which isn't the same at all. I know because I even found this to be the case for me, I really dislike how dating apps work even they reply to my messages. And, you can get catfished a lot on Tinder but not when you meet in real life.
That is not to say that Tinder is impossible but it's definitely not the most effective way to meet women, it's just the lazy way of doing it and it limits your options even if you're really good looking. In other words, if you're good looking enough to do very well on Tinder, you'll still have way more options in real life if you go out to bars and clubs at least twice a week.
I regret that it took me years to realize this because if I had just forced myself to go out to bars and clubs since the age of 18, I would have gotten lots of success with women instead of wasting my time alone in my room doing nothing productive.
Even when I will be muscular, it will not be enough to match with lots of women very quickly because I still wouldn't be a supermodel. However, it will help me a lot for when I am able to go out to bars and clubs when they reopen, because a tall 6 foot 4 guy with big muscles is much more attractive and intimidating than the vast majority of men who go to most bars and clubs, so my success will be way better.