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randomuser2407
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There are not just 2 types of people, there are many types.
Lots of men in the manosphere blame their parents for their own problems when in reality, those men themselves are the ones to blame, not their family.
In nurture vs nature, you seem to believe that it's 100% nurture but what I have seen time and time again is that it's the nature of the person that takes over most of the time. If you have a mental illness like ADHD for example, it doesn't matter how much your parents try to help you in school, you'll still get very bad grades compared to everyone else.
As for why there are men who are more dominant than others, it is also something that you can't choose, just like how people don't choose their sexuality, it is something they are born with.
And if you want to talk about what's natural and what's healthy, religion is a very unnatural thing and it can also be very unhealthy, it can drive people to do crazy things in the name of false gods, and it can turn people against each other and it achieves nothing except give people false hope. Religion is the definition of cope because people tell themselves that their god will save them when in reality, they don't even know if he really exists.
Religion doesn't fix anything, only you have the power within you to change things yourself. And the reason why people don't try to be better is because that is delayed gratification and as humans, it is in our nature to seek pleasure and minimize pain and discomfort as much as possible so goals that require you to have faith in something that you can't prove will work are very difficult to accomplish simply because they require you to do something for a very long time with no rewards right now, in the hope that in the future, you will be rewarded. So, most people settle for short term pleasures instead and that is why their lives are empty and they feel like life has no meaning.
Life only has meaning when you can create that meaning yourself, those who are unable to do that, will forever wander aimlessly through life while focusing only on survival and short term pleasures and they will die having accomplished nothing of value in their life, which is very sad, but modern technology is only making the problem worse by giving us access to easy dopamine machines like pornography, youtube videos, facebook and instagram which make us happy in the short term but is ultimately a waste of time since it accomplishes nothing in the long term. To break the cycle, you have to force yourself to do things, not because they are fun but because they make sense and you must have faith that it will all work in the end, even though there is a risk that it may not. That's how self made millionaires/billionaires came to be, they didn't have a secret to success, they just did the grind way longer than everyone else and they didn't just work to make money but to accomplish things.
Lots of men in the manosphere blame their parents for their own problems when in reality, those men themselves are the ones to blame, not their family.
In nurture vs nature, you seem to believe that it's 100% nurture but what I have seen time and time again is that it's the nature of the person that takes over most of the time. If you have a mental illness like ADHD for example, it doesn't matter how much your parents try to help you in school, you'll still get very bad grades compared to everyone else.
As for why there are men who are more dominant than others, it is also something that you can't choose, just like how people don't choose their sexuality, it is something they are born with.
And if you want to talk about what's natural and what's healthy, religion is a very unnatural thing and it can also be very unhealthy, it can drive people to do crazy things in the name of false gods, and it can turn people against each other and it achieves nothing except give people false hope. Religion is the definition of cope because people tell themselves that their god will save them when in reality, they don't even know if he really exists.
Religion doesn't fix anything, only you have the power within you to change things yourself. And the reason why people don't try to be better is because that is delayed gratification and as humans, it is in our nature to seek pleasure and minimize pain and discomfort as much as possible so goals that require you to have faith in something that you can't prove will work are very difficult to accomplish simply because they require you to do something for a very long time with no rewards right now, in the hope that in the future, you will be rewarded. So, most people settle for short term pleasures instead and that is why their lives are empty and they feel like life has no meaning.
Life only has meaning when you can create that meaning yourself, those who are unable to do that, will forever wander aimlessly through life while focusing only on survival and short term pleasures and they will die having accomplished nothing of value in their life, which is very sad, but modern technology is only making the problem worse by giving us access to easy dopamine machines like pornography, youtube videos, facebook and instagram which make us happy in the short term but is ultimately a waste of time since it accomplishes nothing in the long term. To break the cycle, you have to force yourself to do things, not because they are fun but because they make sense and you must have faith that it will all work in the end, even though there is a risk that it may not. That's how self made millionaires/billionaires came to be, they didn't have a secret to success, they just did the grind way longer than everyone else and they didn't just work to make money but to accomplish things.
