Rejection therapy from my oneitis experiment

[BlackFag]

This will be a small 1 week series thing where i will describe my feeling of how rejection from my 4 year long oneitis

although a very low t faggot thread
i believe it can help judge how bad rejection truly is
and maybe it might help some greycell

starting Thread: https://looksmax.org/threads/should-i-tell-her-i-love-her.1857813/

 

[grbbsc]

u shouldn't be hyping it up this much either tbh

 

[Bryce]

 

[BlackFag]

2/03/26
will send the voicemail in an hour
Feeling: currently very nervous
extra details: ill tell her if she doens't feel the same to simply block me (or is that too pussy of me?)

 

[BlackFag]

u shouldn't be hyping it up this much either tbh

hyping it up is calming me down
if i did it as is i would lose my mind

being able to treat it as a experiment keeps me calm

 

[grbbsc]

hyping it up is calming me down
if i did it as is i would lose my mind

being able to treat it as a experiment keeps me calm

the fact that you need to treat it as an experiment won't help your goal of rejection therapy, you need to go in raw if you actually want the best results and that means just going for it

 

[grbbsc]

send the voicemail rn fuck ur little countdown do it now

 

[BlackFag]

send the voicemail rn fuck ur little countdown do it now

its sent

 

[BlackFag]

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2/03/26
will send the voicemail in an hour
Feeling: currently very nervous
extra details: ill tell her if she doens't feel the same to simply block me (or is that too pussy of me?)

36 minutes of losing my mind later
i sent it was 56 seconds, its pretty late where she is so i have a few hours to prep my soul and mind for the rejection

feeling: exhausted and cortisol bursting through my veins

next update in 24-48 hours if not less

 

[BlackFag]

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36 minutes of losing my mind later
i sent it was 56 seconds, its pretty late where she is so i have a few hours to prep my soul and mind for the rejection

feeling: exhausted and cortisol bursting through my veins

next update in 24-48 hours if not less

Response was faster then expected
she rejected me
not that hard tho

feel kinda of down but not really that sad

to add: i was more scared of sending it then recieving a response
TLDR; rejection is not that bad actually

 

[Buckh0rn]

Response was faster then expected
she rejected me
not that hard tho

feel kinda of down but not really that sad

to add: i was more scared of sending it then recieving a response
TLDR; rejection is not that bad actually

How’s this possible,
My oneitis rejected me when I was 12 or 13 and I still haven’t gotten over it.

 

[BlackFag]

How’s this possible,
My oneitis rejected me when I was 12 or 13 and I still haven’t gotten over it.

because what can i do?
if i stay sad for the rest of my life after doing everything correct
ill just be raising my cortisol for no reason

she will always be my oneitis but i can accept that i might not be the one for her

 

[LTNUser]

How’s this possible,
My oneitis rejected me when I was 12 or 13 and I still haven’t gotten over it.

Jfl at not being able to recover from rejection at 12 or 13
If it happened when you were 15 or 16 it would have been understandable because that's when you have comparatively more maturity and start to understand the importance of responsibility.

You were a kid with no real feelings at that time and your hormones hadn't kicked in either.
Surprising how you still whine about it.