Jason Voorhees
𝕸𝖊𝖗𝖈𝖊𝖓𝖆𝖗𝖞 𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕 • 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒🥇
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The victim mindset is a trap.. I see so many people here stuck in self-pity, just complaining about their situation instead of doing something about it. Yeah some users here like @_MVP_ are genuinely in tough spots where they can’t just “work harder” and fix everything, but a lot of people here absolutely can. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn’t going to change anything.
Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.
The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.
You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.
Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on
Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change
Self pity and victimizing yourself just makes it easier for you to accept and cry about the situation you are in and dwell upon it like cuckold wishing for sympathy from others. Only women and men with a feminine minded men think like this. It's pointless and self pitying will lead you nowhere. All it does is help you to push away your own responsibilities.
The tragic thing about the incel life is complete stagnation of behaviour, no progress, no maturity. Ur young and u want to change but u can't and u wake and ur in ur 30s. This can easily become the norm until your death. Those hoping that something will suddenly change or they'll have an epiphany, turning their life around after, are VERY delusional.
You know the effort and difficulty that's needed for change, you offset it and you accept the comfortable life. But your heart still yearns and screams for a better life. This can easily become the norm until your death. You have got to realize that why you're here now isn't your fault, but it's your RESPONSIBILITY because no one else is going to help you, but you. Accept that this situation is your responsibility, even if it isn't your fault.I'm not saying all of things that lead you to this point in life are fake but it's still your RESPONSIBILITY.
Even I've had the victim mindset for years but you can't let these things bring you down. Even I have been made fun of, called names, felt depressed. Overbearing parents, shitty childhood dealt with the worst cards but I wouldn't be in the position that I am now if I gave up years ago and still had the victim mindset and just accepted my situation and rotted. Remember it is your RESPONSIBILITY to your future self. It is a burden that you and only you carry . No one is going to help you but yourself whether you do carry that act accordingly or not it entirely depends on
Tldr- Complaining and self-pity won’t change your situation—only action will. Most ppl use the victim mindset as an excuse for stagnation. If you don’t take RESPONSIBILITY now, you’ll wake up in your 30s stuck in the same cycle. No one is coming to save you. it’s up to you to change
