
SntDomistheRealChad
Did you just call me a little bitch?
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IMO high tier women will only date you if you have a good reputation. If your reputation is low (are an asshole etc) you are basically fucked unless you live in a 1 million+ city because the hot woman will almost always get a second opinion on you from someone who knows of you and if the word isn’t good you’re screwed.
This is super essential to getting second and third dates and often the first, after a solid few months of hanging out you can outrank her normie friends but until then you’re in a dire situation. For example I’ve matched with 2 girls both of whom are friends of an old workplace I worked at, the one is the sister of a girl who works there and the other a friend.
Basically my rep is low due to circumstances (being an asshole to normies, and the resulting anxiety from being around senseless normies and secondhand embarassment, plus general social anxiety from childhood), thus leading to frustration and beta behaviours.
I can change this quick however and have high confidence but I feel like I’m fighting a bad rep sometimes, should I move to a 1million+ city?
Thanks guys.
This is super essential to getting second and third dates and often the first, after a solid few months of hanging out you can outrank her normie friends but until then you’re in a dire situation. For example I’ve matched with 2 girls both of whom are friends of an old workplace I worked at, the one is the sister of a girl who works there and the other a friend.
Basically my rep is low due to circumstances (being an asshole to normies, and the resulting anxiety from being around senseless normies and secondhand embarassment, plus general social anxiety from childhood), thus leading to frustration and beta behaviours.
I can change this quick however and have high confidence but I feel like I’m fighting a bad rep sometimes, should I move to a 1million+ city?
Thanks guys.