[SCREENS] I need advices on WHY I FAILED HERE

[Mrinfinityx]

"I am honest and not scared to express my feelings"

"Some men find that feminine but it is no more charming than weak"

"I was a virgin until 23 years old"

"I don't speak to u but generally guys fake themselves and their intentions for desperate needs and I am far from them"


Those are some of the worst things you could have said, you made the worst first impression.

Each comment shows insecurity and too much vulnerability. Nobody expects you to be a dominant alpha 100% of the time, but you should at least be as confident as the average man otherwise, it's never going to work for you no matter how much you looksmax.

It is very possible that you have autism if you don't understand the basics of social interactions. However, just like with any other skill, you can learn to be better at it. For most people, it comes naturally and that's why even ugly guys can get laid.

Social intelligence is just as important as your looks when trying to succeed with women.

I think I am in fact an interpersonal intelligence autist because I did a serious psychiatric test and scored under 50% at it

 

[randomuser2407]

Ok dating coach

Like I said earlier, there is no secret to understanding the opposite sex, it is actually very simple, and you don't have to act like a pickup artist, you just have to be confident, this is basic blue pilled advice and it's true.

If you have a minimum of normie looks and you can't get laid, it's not your looks that are holding you back, it's your ability to talk to people: your social intelligence. PUAs don't have very high social intelligence, they are just faking, so what I am talking about is very different.

Being confident is simple since it all happens within your mind, what you think about yourself, your goals, your dreams and aspirations, those things are what define your level of confidence. If you see yourself as weak and worthless, then you will project those thoughts onto others and nobody will want to be around you.

This is also known throughout this forum as Being NT.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Your text game is dogshit. Holy shit. I’ll try and find examples and make a thread and tag you

Tag me yes

 

[Htobrother]

Like I said earlier, there is no secret to understanding the opposite sex, it is actually very simple, and you don't have to act like a pickup artist, you just have to be confident, this is basic blue pilled advice and it's true.

If you have a minimum of normie looks and you can't get laid, it's not your looks that are holding you back, it's your ability to talk to people: your social intelligence. PUAs don't have very high social intelligence, they are just faking, so what I am talking about is very different.

Being confident is simple since it all happens within your mind, what you think about yourself, your goals, your dreams and aspirations, those things are what define your level of confidence. If you see yourself as weak and worthless, then you will project those thoughts onto others and nobody will want to be around you.

This is also known throughout this forum as Being NT.

Just be confident bro

 

[randomuser2407]

Bro you really were simping!

He wasn't simping since he wasn't complimenting her or putting her on the pedestal but since he kept talking about himself in a negative way, he ruined his chances with her. There is a difference between simping and being too honest with how you feel. No matter what women claim to want, they don't want you to treat them like your therapist and that's what he did. Simping would have put him in the friendzone, which is still better than what he did.

 

[getra]

You wrote too much

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

You wrote too much

He wrote too much autism

 

[Deleted member 5185]

You're texting too much. I would suggest setting up a date with her as soon as you can. So, in your case, in the first message, after she said "You're very gifted", you should have said "Thanks haha. I've been enjoying talking to you, would you like to meet up for a date sometime?". The longer you wait, the more likely she will flake

Example:
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THIS!!!!

Any and all texting is for CUCKS! Seriously, DO NOT EVER TEXT. No matter what you say she thinks you're a fkin loser for just texting around.

 

[Deleted member 1100]

Insane levels of autism followed by a confession of being an outcast incel for 23years


Impressive, .me users text game is worse than that of a 13yo

 

[randomuser2407]

Just be confident bro

I know how it sounds but it is true that it works, but it's more than that, it's not about just being confident, it's also about making them believe that you have high self confidence. But if you have low self confidence and act fake, then you'll just be like a pickup artist and the illusion will break eventually so it has to be real.


So it's not about just being confident, it's about showing her that you are confident and if you can do that then you will succeed if she was already physically attracted to you.

Guys on here think that IOIs are a lie but in reality, the reason why they fail is because they have the looks for initial attraction but not the confidence to keep the women interested. Even for something as short term as hookups, women want a man who is able to have interesting conversations and that is because they may try to date him afterwards.

Also, high self confidence can make a man who has a boring life look like he has a very interesting life because high self confidence makes you show your best traits and hide your greatest weaknesses while low self confidence does the opposite.

 

[Htobrother]

I know how it sounds but it is true that it works, but it's more than that, it's not about just being confident, it's also about making them believe that you have high self confidence. But if you have low self confidence and act fake, then you'll just be like a pickup artist and the illusion will break eventually so it has to be real.


So it's not about just being confident, it's about showing her that you are confident and if you can do that then you will succeed if she was already physically attracted to you.

Guys on here think that IOIs are a lie but in reality, the reason why they fail is because they have the looks for initial attraction but not the confidence to keep the women interested. Even for something as short term as hookups, women want a man who is able to have interesting conversations and that is because they may try to date him afterwards.

Also, high self confidence can make a man who has a boring life look like he has a very interesting life because high self confidence makes you show your best traits and hide your greatest weaknesses while low self confidence does the opposite.

Ngl confidence is very important

 

[randomuser2407]

THIS!!!!

Any and all texting is for CUCKS! Seriously, DO NOT EVER TEXT. No matter what you say she thinks you're a fkin loser for just texting around.

Actually, you got it all wrong. Texting is fine when you're in a relationship or when you have a fuckbuddy because you already had sex with the girl, but texting for many weeks to a girl that you never had sex with is a very bad idea because it shows desperation and inaction which translates to low self confidence and it puts her on the pedestal and if she rejects you, then you just wasted a lot of time.

This is why I believe it is better to setup a date within 3-4 texts, and then you keep doing it that way until you have sex a couple of times, and then you can start texting more often.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Actually, you got it all wrong. Texting is fine when you're in a relationship or when you have a fuckbuddy because you already had sex with the girl, but texting for many weeks to a girl that you never had sex with is a very bad idea because it shows desperation and inaction which translates to low self confidence and it puts her on the pedestal and if she rejects you, then you just wasted a lot of time.

This is why I believe it is better to setup a date within 3-4 texts, and then you keep doing it that way until you have sex a couple of times, and then you can start texting more often.

*but texting for many weeks to a girl that you never had sex with is a very bad idea because it shows desperation and inaction which translates to low self confidence* 100% describe myself JFL, and in this case I got the quarantine reverse card by chance

 

[tyronelite]

This is why I believe it is better to setup a date within 3-4 texts, and then you keep doing it that way until you have sex a couple of times, and then you can start texting more often.

lol no.. the only time I text my fuck buddies is to meet up that's it. All the talking is done in person

 

[randomuser2407]

lol no.. the only time I text my fuck buddies is to meet up that's it. All the talking is done in person

Then, what I said probably only applies to long term relationships.

 

[tyronelite]

Then, what I said probably only applies to long term relationships.

correct

 

[.👽.]

Nigga do you want to fuck her or talk with her about your virginity jfl.
imagine not realising what went wrong.

 

[Deleted member 5185]

Actually, you got it all wrong. Texting is fine when you're in a relationship or when you have a fuckbuddy because you already had sex with the girl, but texting for many weeks to a girl that you never had sex with is a very bad idea because it shows desperation and inaction which translates to low self confidence and it puts her on the pedestal and if she rejects you, then you just wasted a lot of time.

This is why I believe it is better to setup a date within 3-4 texts, and then you keep doing it that way until you have sex a couple of times, and then you can start texting more often.

Yeah I meant it for like pre meeting or early stages, obviously its not like you're cucking yourself asking your gf to pick up groceries after work nomsayin lol

 

[metagross]

Do you have autism?
I am being 100% serious right now.

To not even realize where you messed up is truly an autistic trait. I don't mean this in a negative way btw. I genuinely believe that you may be on the autism spectrum.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Do you have autism?
I am being 100% serious right now.

To not even realize where you messed up is truly an autistic trait. I don't mean this in a negative way btw. I genuinely believe that you may be on the autism spectrum.

Interpersonal intelligence is below average all I can tell to u

 

[Deleted member 6908]

I have not read rhe replies to the thread becsuse i know its gonna be people telling you how to speak to girls.

I wouldnt take that approach

What you need is to understand girls better. You dont understand them because youre blue pill. Quite frankly yes. Blue pilled.

You told her you were a virgin till 23 and then pretty much made out like you were superior to her and all other men and she snuffed it out as inauthentic, fake and presumed from that that you were up yourself. She wasn't enjoying the convo. You made it serious. Her feeling in the moment was that of boredom.

Its not that you hsve no game. Its that you dont understand women and so are playing the wrong game

Here you are trying to show a woman that you are so different from all the other guys and a good guy at heart. Women dont want you to tell them you're a good guy, they want to realise it. They want you to act like a bad guy on the surface with a soft underlayer.

Telling her you were a virgin till 23, retarded. This tells her you are low value and just so happen to be good looking

You dont understand women and still believe in the 90s movies where the good introverted well mannered guy gets the girl

 

[zaynbrah]

WTF happend JFL at this

bruh wtf man

 

[Deleted member 6908]

Do you have autism?
I am being 100% serious right now.

To not even realize where you messed up is truly an autistic trait. I don't mean this in a negative way btw. I genuinely believe that you may be on the autism spectrum.

He doesn't have autism.

Hes normal.

Many guys who have good souls but haven't discovered their masculinity and are longing for a female companion in their life, will act like this.

 

[Deleted member 10913]

WTF happend JFL at this

Jfl at your whole dont need sex cope. Why even bring that up idiot

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Jfl at your whole dont need sex cope. Why even bring that up idiot

I don't know why I said that even if it is really the case for me, maybe too much confident and comfortable on the moment saying what is going on my mind in total honesty, thinking that s already winned so I can speaking free with no filters

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Never tell a girl something she can use against you or that you're insecure about
JFL I found that out when talking to my mum
Study what people who talk to girls say etc and copy
The minorities on YouTube helps you see how to act around bitches etc by just looking at what they do

 

[Deleted member 10913]

I don't know why I said that even if it is really the case for me, maybe too much confident and comfortable on the moment saying what is going on my mind in total honesty, thinking that s already winned so I can speaking free with no filters

Jfl so you tell everything on your mind. She even shot back at your face. You seem to virtue signal more then the average girl. Let this be a lesson. Never talk about your non existend virtues.

Man if you dont care about relationships why even contact her in the first place you morron. you think the bitch has not the intellect to see that fallacy you made you idiot.

If you wanted to show a virtue you shouldve said if that you cared about marriage ffs. Read this everytime before you go 2 bed so the mistakes you made wont repeat

 

[Mrinfinityx]

this.
you sound like some arrogant idiot who can't stop sucking his own dick.
"oh i might look like a chad but i was virgin till 23 because muh values"
"sex is overrated, i don't need affection"
"oh other men might say it's gay, but i show feeling, i'm so strong because i cry"

Spoiler: NSFW: OP in this convo

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bro, mad cringe, read up on some game, you blew it bad

So her last message is a narci red flag ?

 

[Deleted member 7098]

So her last message is a narci red flag ?

yup, basically tells you to fuck yourself if you love yourself so much and go around implying you're superior to everyone else

 

[Mrinfinityx]

yup, basically tells you to fuck yourself if you love yourself so much and go around implying you're superior to everyone else

@MoeZart So why she said in precedent message that there is nothing to worry about?

 

[Deleted member 7098]

@MoeZart So why she said in precedent message that there is nothing to worry about?

because she isn't seeking beef on an online dating app. why would she get into an argument with you if she already stopped caring
also never ask "what are you looking for on here"

 

[zaynbrah]

bro, mad cringe, read up on some game, you blew it bad

where ?? geneerally idk what to say either in online convos

 

[Deleted member 795]

Yo dude, quit blabbling about your past.
Girls dont care.
And here's a tip: next time

Girl: "u have good eyes"
You: "thanks"

That's it, what is that shit "i show my feelings"? Lol i dont think that's the problem but it sounds dumb in general

 

[Deleted member 4797]

where ?? geneerally idk what to say either in online convos

 

[Deleted member 7098]

where ?? geneerally idk what to say either in online convos

20 Ways to Text a Girl that Make Her Super Attracted

In the article on second dates, Todd comments on a girl he's met and some of the texting they've done between their first date and second, and finishes up with the questions below: “What's the next step? I don't want her to lose interest, but I'm gone for this entire week. We said we'd get...

www.girlschase.com

 

[Uglyandfat]

WTF happend JFL at this

You came off as needy ESPECIALLY with the last message as well as you hit the classic "nice guy" by saying "im not like other men" and came off as ingenuine either that or she was never attracted in the first place

 

[Uglyandfat]

You came off as needy ESPECIALLY with the last message as well as you hit the classic "nice guy" by saying "im not like other men" and came off as ingenuine either that or she was never attracted in the first place

But then again ive came off as pretty feminine and needy with a girl before but she was very attracted to me and I easily escalated the convo to sexting and she wanted to meet up and shit but I backed down cause she was not that attractive to me so then again maybe redpill is cope idk JFL

 

[Deleted member 795]

20 Ways to Text a Girl that Make Her Super Attracted

In the article on second dates, Todd comments on a girl he's met and some of the texting they've done between their first date and second, and finishes up with the questions below: “What's the next step? I don't want her to lose interest, but I'm gone for this entire week. We said we'd get...

www.girlschase.com

Sounds really PUA

Even if i can see myself in there

 

[IdiAmin]

Jesus, it's like an autist read Models for the first time and tried the "muh just be vulnerable, bro" method. It's not even about if you have a game, it's about basic talking skills, text as little as possible and tell her you want to hook up, it's not a rocket science.

I won't talk much about why tf you talk about being a virgin or "not being scared of expressing your feelings" (that's a good one, she is probably fingering herself to you right now because you can express your feelings) because that would be an essay.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

20 Ways to Text a Girl that Make Her Super Attracted

In the article on second dates, Todd comments on a girl he's met and some of the texting they've done between their first date and second, and finishes up with the questions below: “What's the next step? I don't want her to lose interest, but I'm gone for this entire week. We said we'd get...

www.girlschase.com

@MoeZart
What do u do if u don't want to date for the moment but in the same time keeping the girl as orbiter?

 

[bruhcel]

stop telling women shit like this they either don't care or are turned off

 

[bruhcel]

also you seem autistic and creepy af from your messages

 

[Deleted member 7098]

@MoeZart
What do u do if u don't want to date for the moment but in the same time keeping the girl as orbiter?

won‘t happen if you aren‘t giga-chad, she has 10times to option and matches that you have

you at leash have to bang them once if you want to keep them as orbiters

 

[Cigarette]

reasons:
1) too much of a bitch when texting
2) coming off as weak even tho she said brave
3) telling her how much you havent fucked
4) virgin until 23 dont mention that

notes:
shes fucking other dudes, shes bullshitting around with the “when corona ends”, shes got other options.

recommendations:
1) move the fuck on
2) work on your texting game
3) truth is youre just gonna get leashed on by many girls if u keep up like this u gotta rework on your game too

 

[Mrinfinityx]

won‘t happen if you aren‘t giga-chad, she has 10times to option and matches that you have

you at leash have to bang them once if you want to keep them as orbiters

Ok that explains why so

 

[Uglyandfat]

reasons:
1) too much of a bitch when texting
2) coming off as weak even tho she said brave
3) telling her how much you havent fucked
4) virgin until 23 dont mention that

notes:
shes fucking other dudes, shes bullshitting around with the “when corona ends”, shes got other options.

recommendations:
1) move the fuck on
2) work on your texting game
3) truth is youre just gonna get leashed on by many girls if u keep up like this u gotta rework on your game too

truth is redpill and game only matters when you’re deep into a relationship not when a foid is head over heels attracted to your face

 

[Deleted member 7098]

truth is redpill and game only matters when you’re deep into a relationship not when a foid is head over heels attracted to your face

bs, she was attracted to him initially and then he blew it by acting like a narcy autist

 

[Deleted member 5799]

are you a white knight?

you sound like his gay friend.. if a woman talks to you too much its an easy indication of interest, you should be on attack mode, not like "oh im the nice sensitive guy kind"... dont show weakness, "virgin until 23" wtf shut up!

be more straight forward, not sexual but drive the conversation into having a date... never do endless texting, be friendly but short and precise, dont write more than her

Your goal is a date. Set it to be soon (same week) and you choose the date and time. When you agree, stop talking until you meet. Just a short message to confirm date a few hours before and thats it.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

are you a white knight?

you sound like his gay friend.. if a woman talks to you too much its an easy indication of interest, you should be on attack mode, not like "oh im the nice sensitive guy kind"... dont show weakness, "virgin until 23" wtf shut up!

be more straight forward, not sexual but drive the conversation into having a date... never do endless texting, be friendly but short and precise, dont write more than her

Your goal is a date. Set it to be soon (same week) and you choose the date and time. When you agree, stop talking until you meet. Just a short message to confirm date a few hours before and thats it.

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20 Ways to Text a Girl that Make Her Super Attracted

In the article on second dates, Todd comments on a girl he's met and some of the texting they've done between their first date and second, and finishes up with the questions below: “What's the next step? I don't want her to lose interest, but I'm gone for this entire week. We said we'd get...

www.girlschase.com

 

[Uglyandfat]

bs, she was attracted to him initially and then he blew it by acting like a narcy autist

there are levels of attraction. if she was very attracted she wouldn’t have cared