Self love is cope. Relationships are law

[habeebullah]

The idea that you shouldn't care about what anyone thinks about you, is utter cope. Even though I have copious amounts of self love for myself (looks excluded), it has done me no good. External validation is just as important if not even more so. Sure I value myself as a person, but that doesn't get me friends or a girlfriend.

Also anyone who says that getting a partner doesn't improve your life, is either normfag in a relationship who takes what he has for granted, or an incel in denial who tries to cope by pretending that he's not missing out on anything. It's actually insane how much getting constant love and affection from the opposite sex boosts your self esteem. You literally feel like you own the world. Imagine waking up everyday, knowing that a girl chose YOU and not anyone else. You feel wanted, you feel loved, you feel chosen, you feel like you BELONG.

Sure my self love has kept me grounded. Im not depressed, nor am I socially awkward. But what's the point if I will be hated by almost everyone else.

TLDR: Self love is cope, external validation is more important

 

[habeebullah]

Self love can keep you sane for a while, but to rely on it for your entire life is almost impossible.

It can help if the loneliness you feel is short lived and not life long. But 10+ years of loneliness and it's over

 

[habeebullah]

Pls reply goys

 

[crazyguy]

The idea that you shouldn't care about what anyone thinks about you, is utter cope. Even though I have copious amounts of self love for myself (looks excluded), it has done me no good. External validation is just as important if not even more so. Sure I value myself as a person, but that doesn't get me friends or a girlfriend.

Also anyone who says that getting a partner doesn't improve your life, is either normfag in a relationship who takes what he has for granted, or an incel in denial who tries to cope by pretending that he's not missing out on anything. It's actually insane how much getting constant love and affection from the opposite sex boosts your self esteem. You literally feel like you own the world. Imagine waking up everyday, knowing that a girl chose YOU and not anyone else. You feel wanted, you feel loved, you feel chosen, you feel like you BELONG.

Sure my self love has kept me grounded. Im not depressed, nor am I socially awkward. But what's the point if I will be hated by almost everyone else.

TLDR: Self love is cope, external validation is more important

true
the only love i receive is from myself and im slowly losing my mind

 

[habeebullah]

true
the only love i receive is from myself and im slowly losing my mind

I'm the exact same way bro. I know it doesn't mean much considering you don't even know me, plus im just a nigga on org but I love you

I used to be able to cope when i was younger with the fact that "my time hadn't come" and that I'd find my people eventually. But im starting to lose hope

 

[crazyguy]

I'm the exact same way bro. I know it doesn't mean much considering you don't even know me, plus im just a nigga on org but I love you

I used to be able to cope when i was younger with the fact that "my time hadn't come" and that I'd find my people eventually. But im starting to lose hope

i was about to say some insanely real shit but idk

 

[habeebullah]

i was about to say some insanely real shit but idk

Nah go ahead gang im intrigued

 

[tyquese]

The idea that you shouldn't care about what anyone thinks about you, is utter cope. Even though I have copious amounts of self love for myself (looks excluded), it has done me no good. External validation is just as important if not even more so. Sure I value myself as a person, but that doesn't get me friends or a girlfriend.

Also anyone who says that getting a partner doesn't improve your life, is either normfag in a relationship who takes what he has for granted, or an incel in denial who tries to cope by pretending that he's not missing out on anything. It's actually insane how much getting constant love and affection from the opposite sex boosts your self esteem. You literally feel like you own the world. Imagine waking up everyday, knowing that a girl chose YOU and not anyone else. You feel wanted, you feel loved, you feel chosen, you feel like you BELONG.

Sure my self love has kept me grounded. Im not depressed, nor am I socially awkward. But what's the point if I will be hated by almost everyone else.

TLDR: Self love is cope, external validation is more important

self love can only get u so far getting constant love from the opposite sex is better rhan anything not to mention wheres any sort of love gonna come from if ur sub ur fucked from both sides

 

[habeebullah]

self love can only get u so far getting constant love from the opposite sex is better rhan anything not to mention wheres any sort of love gonna come from if ur sub ur fucked from both sides

I agree with this part 100%. Humans are social creatures. Intimacy is literally considered a NEED for humans.

You can love yourself even as a subhuman, it just takes a lot of willpower

 

[Painful Cycle]

That's true but you can't love someone when you can't even love yourself

 

[isis_Bleach]

yep but ill never have stacy so whats the point. might as well shoot up a kindergarten in roblox

 

[habeebullah]

That's true but you can't love someone when you can't even love yourself

That's not true. There's many depressed and even suicidal people in relationships. You can hate yourself, but love others

Still, that's not even my case. I DO love myself, it's just that no one loves me in return

 

[gimmedatacc]

indeed it is cope and I want to cope to the absolute maximum. I want a mansion and I want eat fast food and drink cola all day every day until I die

 

[tyquese]

I agree with this part 100%. Humans are social creatures. Intimacy is literally considered a NEED for humans.

You can love yourself even as a subhuman, it just takes a lot of willpower

creatures in general live off of love from same species of animal thats why males are always constantly fighting for attention from females u see this in almost every animal

 

[habeebullah]

yep but ill never have stacy so whats the point. might as well shoot up a kindergarten in roblox

You can still secure a subhuman foid for a loving ltr. I can't even do that

 

[Just Blast]

cope
being a narcist is the only way

 

[Painful Cycle]

That's not true. There's many depressed and even suicidal people in relationships. You can hate yourself, but love others

Still, that's not even my case. I DO love myself, it's just that no one loves me in return

Just because they're in the realtionship doesn't mean they're happy, happiness comes from love and the way you feel matters the most and if you feel like you hate yourself you can't be happy.

 

[crazyguy]

Nah go ahead gang im intrigued

i'll tell yall about it soon

 

[habeebullah]

i'll tell yall about it soon

Alright

 

[isis_Bleach]

You can still secure a subhuman foid for a loving ltr. I can't even do that

i mean yea i have a subhuman gf that loves me. but i dont love her so it only makes me feel worse. btw if i leave her she will blackmail me so im fucked.

 

[habeebullah]

cope
being a narcist is the only way

Good luck being a narcissist for 60+ years while you've had no friends, no family, and no girls

 

[habeebullah]

i mean yea i have a subhuman gf that loves me. but i dont love her so it only makes me feel worse. btw if i leave her she will blackmail me so im fucked.

Dude I don't even feel bad for you tbh. I would literally KILL to be in your situation yet you're taking what you have for granted, and are calling your girlfriend a subhuman and openly stating that you don't love her

 

[Just Blast]

Good luck being a narcissist for 60+ years while you've had no friends, no family, and no girls

i have a girl
im dying young
ill mog you and then go sit in my room and talk to a new girl every 3 weeks idrc bro

 

[habeebullah]

i have a girl
im dying young
ill mog you and then go sit in my room and talk to a new girl every 3 weeks idrc bro

Okay then this thread isn't about you tf? Mogging a Trucel isn't a flex btw

 

[Just Blast]

Okay then this thread isn't about you tf? Mogging a Trucel isn't a flex btw

sorry i didnt know you were a trucel, leaving now

 

[isis_Bleach]

Dude I don't even feel bad for you tbh. I would literally KILL to be in your situation yet you're taking what you have for granted,

u would kill for a subhuman tier gf? why?

and are calling your girlfriend a subhuman

because she is

and openly stating that you don't love her

because i dont. god chooses who u love, its not smth u decide for urself.

 

[habeebullah]

sorry i didnt know you were a trucel, leaving now

It's okay I forgive u

 

[mkabo005]

Coping is ass
But at least it keeps you from killing yourself

 

[habeebullah]

u would kill for a subhuman tier gf? why?

because she is

because i dont. god chooses who u love, its not smth u decide for urself.

u would kill for a subhuman tier gf? why?

because she is

because i dont. god chooses who u love, its not smth u decide for urself.

I would kill for a "subhuman" gf because I literally don't care about looks at all. I treat everyone equally despite their appearance, and a girls face or body isn't a factor that I care about when looking for a girlfriend.

Your girlfriend loves you, which is all that I want.

Btw Why are you dating her if you don't love her bro ?

 

[habeebullah]

Coping is ass
But at least it keeps you from killing yourselfView attachment 4216313

Holy what is that wojak

 

[theRetard]

i'd fuck myself if i could do this.
there's no woman that can get more love than i love myself

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

Holy truke!

 

[mkabo005]

Holy what is that wojak

You know you’re cooked when even your wojak is subhuman

 

[heightmax]

The idea that you shouldn't care about what anyone thinks about you, is utter cope. Even though I have copious amounts of self love for myself (looks excluded), it has done me no good. External validation is just as important if not even more so. Sure I value myself as a person, but that doesn't get me friends or a girlfriend.

Also anyone who says that getting a partner doesn't improve your life, is either normfag in a relationship who takes what he has for granted, or an incel in denial who tries to cope by pretending that he's not missing out on anything. It's actually insane how much getting constant love and affection from the opposite sex boosts your self esteem. You literally feel like you own the world. Imagine waking up everyday, knowing that a girl chose YOU and not anyone else. You feel wanted, you feel loved, you feel chosen, you feel like you BELONG.

Sure my self love has kept me grounded. Im not depressed, nor am I socially awkward. But what's the point if I will be hated by almost everyone else.

TLDR: Self love is cope, external validation is more important

in absence of love you can’t learn to love

be loved then love

 

[habeebullah]

i'd fuck myself if i could do this.
there's no woman that can get more love than i love myself

I'm glad to hear that
I'm the same, but unfortunately loving myself won't get me a wife and kids

 

[habeebullah]

in absence of love you can’t learn to love

be loved then love

Good advice and all but I literally CANT BE LOVED

 

[isis_Bleach]

I would kill for a "subhuman" gf because I literally don't care about looks at all. I treat everyone equally despite their appearance, and a girls face or body isn't a factor that I care about when looking for a girlfriend.

Your girlfriend loves you, which is all that I want.

a fat black ugly nigger who doesnt wipe her ass would love u bro. unless ur sub5. but ur prolly just mtn. imo i have to at least find her attractive to love her. whats the point if u cant stand the sight of ur gf.

Btw Why are you dating her if you don't love her bro ?

she blackmailed me as i mentioned.

 

[habeebullah]

Holy truke!

Yessir

 

[heightmax]

Good advice and all but I literally CANT BE LOVED

why

 

[habeebullah]

a fat black ugly nigger who doesnt wipe her ass would love u bro. unless ur sub5. but ur prolly just mtn. imo i have to at least find her attractive to love her. whats the point if u cant stand the sight of ur gf.

she blackmailed me as i mentioned.

No im literally trucel jfl this isn't larp. I would slaughter an Indian family of 10 if it meant I could be MTN

Not even an obese, recessed, bug eyed, midget nigger would want me

Also damn im sorry to hear that she blackmailed you wtf. What did she do?

 

[habeebullah]

why

I have a subhuman face bro

 

[heightmax]

I have a subhuman face bro

happens bro

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

self love can only get u so far getting constant love from the opposite sex is better rhan anything not to mention wheres any sort of love gonna come from if ur sub ur fucked from both sides

Holy truke!

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That's true but you can't love someone when you can't even love yourself

Niggas always say this shit, but it's not even true.
Like what the fuck does that even mean concretely.

I would kill for a "subhuman" gf because I literally don't care about looks at all. I treat everyone equally despite their appearance, and a girls face or body isn't a factor that I care about when looking for a girlfriend.

Your girlfriend loves you, which is all that I want.

Btw Why are you dating her if you don't love her bro ?

For real, nigga really shouldn't be with her.
The thing about looks and love is true btw.

she blackmailed me as i mentioned.

You mentioned that? What happened, do you have a story time thread?

 

[habeebullah]

happens bro

Yeah unfortunately gang

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

The idea that you shouldn't care about what anyone thinks about you, is utter cope. Even though I have copious amounts of self love for myself (looks excluded), it has done me no good. External validation is just as important if not even more so. Sure I value myself as a person, but that doesn't get me friends or a girlfriend.

Also anyone who says that getting a partner doesn't improve your life, is either normfag in a relationship who takes what he has for granted, or an incel in denial who tries to cope by pretending that he's not missing out on anything. It's actually insane how much getting constant love and affection from the opposite sex boosts your self esteem. You literally feel like you own the world. Imagine waking up everyday, knowing that a girl chose YOU and not anyone else. You feel wanted, you feel loved, you feel chosen, you feel like you BELONG.

Sure my self love has kept me grounded. Im not depressed, nor am I socially awkward. But what's the point if I will be hated by almost everyone else.

TLDR: Self love is cope, external validation is more important

I don’t really see how this can work. You’re getting validation from a person who loves u, obv the person who loves u isn’t gonna call u ugly lmao. Validation from incels online is so much better.

 

[Painful Cycle]

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Niggas always say this shit, but it's not even true.
Like what the fuck does that even mean concretely.

For real, nigga really shouldn't be with her.
The thing about looks and love is true btw.

You mentioned that? What happened, do you have a story time thread?

It's really simple I don't see whats hard to understand? How can you feel loved if you can't love yourself? people who hate themselves are miserable

 

[habeebullah]

I don’t really see how this can work. You’re getting validation from a person who loves u, obv the person who loves u isn’t gonna call u ugly lmao. Validation from incels online is so much better.

Dude im not taking about being praised for looks. Im talking about validation in general. Also you're HTN+ so my thread doesn't apply to you. You don't understand what it's like to be lonely, you could go out and get a gf whenever you wanted to, so of course validation on an incel forum that is known for being harsh is better for you

Personally, I'd much rather a loving girlfriend than have online incels praise me online

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

Also you're HTN+ so my thread doesn't apply to you. You don't understand what it's like to be lonely, you could go out and get a gf whenever you wanted to, so of course validation on an incel forum that is known for being harsh is better for you

Im 5'6 dawg that shit doesn't happen lmao. I also want a gf to man we all do

 

[habeebullah]

Im 5'6 dawg that shit doesn't happen lmao. I also want a gf to man we all do

You're still a good looking dude, gang.
I'm sure you'll find someone eventually

Face>height always.
I'm pretty much 6'0 in public yet I'd rather be your height and MTN than my height and subhuman

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

You're still a good looking dude, gang.
I'm sure you'll find someone eventually

Face>height always.
I'm pretty much 6'0 in public yet I'd rather be your height and MTN than my height and subhuman

5'6 mtn is ltn smv lmao. I'm htn so for me me SMV is like normie or slightly above bc I'm 5'6. But idk have u tried surgery?