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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
 
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too high effort for me
 
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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
Dnr+tfd+ total Master death
 
therapy for insecurity

otherwise you will fuck up every realtionship ever bc of ur insecurities
 
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therapy for insecurity

otherwise you will fuck up every realtionship ever bc of ur insecurities
maybe youre right, but i think our height difference is awful, 3 inches
 
She loves you so?
Just be with her
I fucking hate fags like you crying about height YOU GOT A GIRL NIGHER
 
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therapy for insecurity

otherwise you will fuck up every realtionship ever bc of ur insecurities
ima super insecure male i agree, thisis the first time i felt loved so im just confused
 
im just scared, im sobbing while typing this
 
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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
Youre getting in your own head brother, your algorithm and the forums been teaching you that girls only accept 6ft+, this is simply not true, while its more probable for them to pick a taller man, tendency doesnt equal determinism, and why would she say all those things about you if she really didnt truly mean them,she could just be with another man if that was the case scenario. Just go for it but dont make her the pillar of your life because thats when you will be the one to be affected in said situation.
 
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Youre getting in your own head brother, your algorithm and the forums been teaching you that girls only accept 6ft+, this is simply not true, while its more probable for them to pick a taller man, tendency doesnt equal determinism, and why would she say all those things about you if she really didnt truly like you, just go for it but dont make her the pillar of your life because thats when you will be the one to be affected in said situation.
yeah, all she asked me is to get a good job so
 
yeah, all she asked me is to get a good job so
Hmmm I see, in that case just make sure in the long-term she truly likes you and that she just doesnt want a dude to be wage slaving to cover for all her needs
 
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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
Its not all about height just live you life with her and it will be good not all people are 6ft+ tall, women go with other men that are good too and she seem kind, stop to stressing about it.
 
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Its not all about height just live you life with her and it will be good not all people are 6ft+ tall, women go with other men that are good too and she seem kind, stop to stressing about it.
thank you :)
 
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She loves you so?
Just be with her
I fucking hate fags like you crying about height YOU GOT A GIRL NIGHER
What is this bluepilled cope? Do you think she'd chose him over a gymaxxed 190+ Man? And I'm not saying that to insult him, I'm just being honest and realistic.
 
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What is this bluepilled cope? Do you think she'd chose him over a gymaxxed 190+ Man? And I'm not saying that to insult him, I'm just being honest and realistic.
I'm telling him to just spend him time with her
No benefit in being scared, if she wants to leave he'll never be able to stop her so why not bid his time with her?
 
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chill brah
she's 5'4 you're 5'7
it's aight
god bless you both
 
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What is this bluepilled cope? Do you think she'd chose him over a gymaxxed 190+ Man? And I'm not saying that to insult him, I'm just being honest and realistic.
this is exactly wht im scared of , but i guess ill give myself a chance
 
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Enjoy while it lasts
 
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The height difference is fine. Stop mentioning your insecurities to her. Since you already have her just keep doing what youre doing. Don't push her away out of fear of her leaving you
 
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I'm telling him to just spend him time with her
No benefit in being scared, if she wants to leave he'll never be able to stop her so why not bid his time with her?
If she does leave him after he's already been in a relationship with her then he would be even more attached to her now and it'd be harder for him to get over her leaving him. He needs to be sure that she's genuinely okay with his height before she randomly decides to leave him for a taller man 2+ years into their relationship. And she's telling him that he'll get taller despite him being 20. Clearly his height somewhat bothers her.
this is exactly wht im scared of , but i guess ill give myself a chance
Pretty much every foid would leave a 5'7 man for someone taller, hell they'd probably never even look at him. Atleast the foid you're with is giving you a chance. What's the average height of the Men around you? And the height of any previous bfs or "talking stages" or celebrity crushes? If she picked you despite having men who are taller than you approach her then maybe you found a good one.
 
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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
Assess problem > insecurity about height/indirect fear of reproduction/getting left by the love of your life, face each problem individually, for the insecurity there's nothing you could do but cope, for the fear of reproduction you could either A. Tell her you don't plan on having kids, B. Sperm donated by Chad, C. Just hope your kid doesn't end up short or hating you, and tbfr I don't think she's gonna leave you anytime soon if you keep progressing this same pace if you already reached where you are into the relationship, but of you decide to have a kid be ready to face some bigger problems in your life as a family man, believe in you tho all love❤
 
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What is this bluepilled cope? Do you think she'd chose him over a gymaxxed 190+ Man? And I'm not saying that to insult him, I'm just being honest and realistic.
Life is not all about look sometimes
 
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The height difference is fine. Stop mentioning your insecurities to her. Since you already have her just keep doing what youre doing. Don't push her away out of fear of her leaving you
yeah
If she does leave him after he's already been in a relationship with her then he would be even more attached to her now and it'd be harder for him to get over her leaving him. He needs to be sure that she's genuinely okay with his height before she randomly decides to leave him for a taller man 2+ years into their relationship. And she's telling him that he'll get taller despite him being 20. Clearly his height somewhat bothers her.

Pretty much every foid would leave a 5'7 man for someone taller, hell they'd probably never even look at him. Atleast the foid you're with is giving you a chance. What's the average height of the Men around you? And the height of any previous bfs or "talking stages" or celebrity crushes? If she picked you despite having men who are taller than you approach her then maybe you found a good one.
her ex was 6'3. and never mentioned any crush but i think she likes jude bellinghum
 
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rape her
 
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her ex was 6'3. and never mentioned any crush but i think she likes jude bellinghum
I mean, atleast she willingly chose you. How many foids that aren't bound to religion and forced by the Men in their family even willing to entertain a 5'7 man these days? But the celebrity crush in itself is a red flag.

What are her stats facially and body wise?
 
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I mean, atleast she willingly chose you. How many foids that aren't bound to religion and forced by the Men in their family even willing to entertain a 5'7 man these days? But the celebrity crush in itself is a red flag.

What are her stats facially and body wise?
Ehh Liking Jude is just like liking football for a man it's just a common point to start convos these days
 
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Ehh Liking Jude is just like liking football for a man it's just a common point to start convos these days
Having a celebrity crush whilst semi being in a relationship and probably talking to him about it is a red flag
 
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I mean, atleast she willingly chose you. How many foids that aren't bound to religion and forced by the Men in their family even willing to entertain a 5'7 man these days? But the celebrity crush in itself is a red flag.

What are her stats facially and body wise?
high mtb on normal days
 
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Having a celebrity crush whilst semi being in a relationship and probably talking to him about it is a red flag
You have to accept ta if you're gonna be in a relationship in 2026 tbh
Or geomaxx and go for a girl in some remote village
 
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Ehh Liking Jude is just like liking football for a man it's just a common point to start convos these days
yeah i heard that, but shes not into football
 
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Having a celebrity crush whilst semi being in a relationship and probably talking to him about it is a red flag
she never talked about him i just super deeply stalked her insta likes
 
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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
Get jacked so she can feel more secure with you religious girls love muscular dudes
 
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Get jacked so she can feel more secure with you religious girls love muscular dudes
how should i start based on my height tho, i think ill look shorter if i overtrain
 
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how should i start based on my height tho, i think ill look shorter if i overtrain
You won’t get “too big” by accident just hit the gym trust
 
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So recently i met this girl and we liked each other. shes super beautiful and she showers me with alot of love, ive never felt this before. but here is a problem, she is 5'4 and i am 169cm (almost 5'7). this fact scares me to death that i cant sleep nowadays.in beginning she tried telling me that my height can be increased but i told her directly that its impossible since im 20, shes 20 too btw She told me i am a great person and height doesnt matter , even tho her preference was tall men. I am seriously scared of loosing her. she is super religious and wants to start a family with me. but the fact that im literally 169 cm scares me t death about my relationship. she is perfect, 5'4 is a great female height, and shes an easy High tier while im low tier. she said im kind hearted and good and im good looking for her. i havent slept for 4 days now. i dont wanna loose her coz shes so perfect but i have a feeling that i am not enough for her, especially height. Please help me what should i do to calm myself, and wht are the chances of her leaving me after all the love she gave me ...
please guide me to a path, i hope yall wont make fun of me im serious
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