(Serious) Is it worth getting a girl if you don't have a high income?

[wannaBProud]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

 

[shneckmax]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

DNR bc this is def gonna be a retarted take

 

[wannaBProud]

DNR bc this is def gonna be a retarted take

I know but I wanna know why I am retarted in this topic and what the truth is

 

[Ryan4245]

I know but I wanna know why I am retarted in this topic and what the truth is

Off the title alone the answer to ur question is no. Unless she’s the type who doesnt gaf.

 

[wannaBProud]

Off the title alone the answer to ur question is no. Unless she’s the type who doesnt gaf.

thx for the answer

 

[jaaba]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

It depends on your age. If you’re bellow 18 there should be a lot less financial stress from a relationship as the girls probably in the same boat as you (don’t go for rich foids tho as they will expect you to treat them as their father does)

18+ it’s kinda over if you’re broke because they’ll see you as a bum if you can’t take them places or buy them stuff

 

[optimisticzoomer]

No
Stay celibate and retain your semen

 

[wannaBProud]

It depends on your age. If you’re bellow 18 there should be a lot less financial stress from a relationship as the girls probably in the same boat as you (don’t go for rich foids tho as they will expect you to treat them as their father does)

18+ it’s kinda over if you’re broke because they’ll see you as a bum if you can’t take them places or buy them stuff

Yea real, im 19 and im not broke but not rich so would it just be best to wait you think? Maybe like until you have at least +$6 000 a month

 

[Ultimate Subhuman™]

Nope

 

[jaaba]

Yea real, im 19 and im not broke but not rich so would it just be best to wait you think? Maybe like until you have at least +$6 000 a month

Ideally you’d wait, however if you find a girl you actually really like DO NOT wait, you might fumble something that could be really good

 

[greycellbrill]

nah they arent tbh the "love/affection" you feel are all momentary and can be taken away in an instant by disloyalty or them just dying. The endgame isnt worth just have coutis whenever you can.

 

[Foreverbrad]

If you do this and none of your side hustles work (very plausible) then you will end up dying a virgin as no girl will date you past your mid 20s unless you earn six figures plus.

 

[bimaxmaxxer]

if your girl doesn't want to drive you home from work, just to suck you off and if hanging out together in nature is not enough for her for a date - I have news for you.

Spoiler: critical diagnose

You are an oofy-doofy. I'm sorry.

 

[foidaddict]

No, money is quite literally the only exception to BP

 

[manletprofile]

dont commit til ur ready to settle i guess

 

[takethewhitepill]

Yes. She should be there for you to make your life easy so you can really make it. She should be someone you forget about problems with not a source. And they really don't cost you anything. I can proudly say I have not spent a cent on any of the girls ive ever even taken on a date. I really struggle to see how they cost you any money tbh. Just dont betabuxx. Your friends would spent that time playing video games or some shit, we dont have the energy to work that much and its unproductive so we try to relax whether with a girl we love or something else. If they dont like their gfs then thats probably showing you something about secular dating. I know that now if I am spending that much time we are married and thats for life. I know that I do really like spending time with her because thats why im there, not amything lustful. And girls are quite pleasant if you choose well and choose one who isn't a ran through whore who doesnt even look good like most people seem to.

 

[wannaBProud]

Yes. She should be there for you to make your life easy so you can really make it. She should be someone you forget about problems with not a source. And they really don't cost you anything. I can proudly say I have not spent a cent on any of the girls ive ever even taken on a date. I really struggle to see how they cost you any money tbh. Just dont betabuxx. Your friends would spent that time playing video games or some shit, we dont have the energy to work that much and its unproductive so we try to relax whether with a girl we love or something else. If they dont like their gfs then thats probably showing you something about secular dating. I know that now if I am spending that much time we are married and thats for life. I know that I do really like spending time with her because thats why im there, not amything lustful. And girls are quite pleasant if you choose well and choose one who isn't a ran through whore who doesnt even look good like most people seem to.

¨thx bro

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

If a woman is actually attracted to you, she'll try to not be a burden. She should be working full time anyways before you marry and have kids, so you'll have plenty of time to get a high income. You don't wanna suddenly be 35 without a wife, where all your options are gold diggers and post wall post cock carousel foids

 

[edodalic29]

If you do this and none of your side hustles work (very plausible) then you will end up dying a virgin as no girl will date you past your mid 20s unless you earn six figures plus.

i get dates often as a neet

 

[chudlight]

Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever.

woah thats brutal if true

those must be zoomer relationships though most older people i know married 20-25 and theyve been married for decades, i just recently got married thats a brutal statistic though i cant lie

i decided to get married cuz it would be easier to build wealth that way, with two people you can easily get a loan for a multi unit house with a fha loan and aggresively pay it back + the rents you make off the place pay it back too

 

[kranerman23123]

woah thats brutal if true

those must be zoomer relationships though most older people i know married 20-25 and theyve been married for decades, i just recently got married thats a brutal statistic though i cant lie

i decided to get married cuz it would be easier to build wealth that way, with two people you can easily get a loan for a multi unit house with a fha loan and aggresively pay it back + the rents you make off the place pay it back too

I would like to see the statistic more in depth, like what percentage of those relationships in early 20s that last over a year end up lasting really long. Because obviously most people in their 20s and especially during teens are spamming relationships that last months or even weeks so that probably majorly skews the statistic. Most people I know who had a partner for over a year in highschool are still with that partner 6 years later

 

[kranerman23123]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

While I agree that you shouldn't throw away too much time in your early 20s on random girls, having a supportive relationship or even hooking up with random girls gives you a massive massive confidence boost that applies to every other area in life

 

[chudlight]

I would like to see the statistic more in depth, like what percentage of those relationships in early 20s that last over a year end up lasting really long. Because obviously most people in their 20s and especially during teens are spamming relationships that last months or even weeks so that probably majorly skews the statistic. Most people I know who had a partner for over a year in highschool are still with that partner 6 years later

yeah i agree, there are people who quickly move on from relationships without a care while there are people who dont tend to have longer term relationships

this would skew the numbers because some people quickly switch and thus have a greater number of relationships while the people who dont would be underrepresented

 

[Foreverbrad]

i get dates often as a neet

Are you oldcel though?

 

[Koyyendate]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

Only worth it if she is a really good partner (rare) who’s gonna support you love you and stay loyal

 

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[wannaBProud]

If a woman is actually attracted to you, she'll try to not be a burden. She should be working full time anyways before you marry and have kids, so you'll have plenty of time to get a high income. You don't wanna suddenly be 35 without a wife, where all your options are gold diggers and post wall post cock carousel foids

Hmm I hear you but at the same time there is a high chance the girl is wrong for you and you maybe realise that after 6 months which is a long time if you in your 20s aka your prime.

 

[prexxy]

you need experience so yes, don't need to spend a lot on them. If u don't like the person u can just leave, no need to take it that srsly when ur young

 

[Nardicus101]

If you go to university and date within your school, there going to acknowledge you dont have alot of money to begin with and there okay with it.
The girls who expect the most are the one who dint go to school n work full time

 

[wannaBProud]

you need experience so yes, don't need to spend a lot on them. If u don't like the person u can just leave, no need to take it that srsly when ur young

Thx bro

 

[wannaBProud]

If you go to university and date within your school, there going to acknowledge you dont have alot of money to begin with and there okay with it.
The girls who expect the most are the one who dint go to school n work full time

Thats very very true the problem with my uni is that every guy are fkn chad and 195 cm+ so my competition is so though hahah sweden is crazy

 

[Nardicus101]

If your school is not academically ranked high than it is worth it to transfer for sure for a tad bit better social life, I did this and dont regret it at all, best decision I ever made

Switching to a uni with more girls than men, and is also STEM bias school = easy puss n since there always studying, they dont have time for dates n hangout, only wanna fuck

 

[Hunter]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

youre crazy for thinking this way if you find the right girl who loves you for who you are a relationship will always work.

 

[hellfire]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

dnr but it is very worth it, if they stay you have someone who will stay with you for the rest of ur life

 

[uksucks]

i get dates often as a neet

Do they know though or do you larp

 

[ajhrer]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

i lowkey think its worth it bro. think of it as gaining experience dating and knowing how to handle girls. and when you meet the right one you have enough experience and wont just mess up. u can prolly just date those low maintenance girls for now ig

 

[Pafoly]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

Is this bait? Nobody forces you to be with them or spend money on them? I haven't spent a single cent on a girl in my life and I've had multiple year longs relationships. You hang out with them because it's fun, just like you scroll your tiktok fyp for fun. If you're on here rotting you might as well spend time with a girl instead.

 

[wannaBProud]

Is this bait? Nobody forces you to be with them or spend money on them? I haven't spent a single cent on a girl in my life and I've had multiple year longs relationships. You hang out with them because it's fun, just like you scroll your tiktok fyp for fun. If you're on here rotting you might as well spend time with a girl instead.

Nah bro you wanna treat your girl you probably go to mcdonalds with yo girl

 

[wannaBProud]

i lowkey think its worth it bro. think of it as gaining experience dating and knowing how to handle girls. and when you meet the right one you have enough experience and wont just mess up. u can prolly just date those low maintenance girls for now ig

Yea good point thx

 

[Baldingman1998]

Yes but sadly most women care about money. You can still find a woman tho

 

[wannaBProud]

youre crazy for thinking this way if you find the right girl who loves you for who you are a relationship will always work.

yea but I probably wont find a girl who love sme for my personality thats why i looksmax

 

[Hunter]

yea but I probably wont find a girl who love sme for my personality thats why i looksmax

We*

 

[e1488shciozl]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

10 hours a day is nothing when you actually like someone. Damn why even bother abt relationships, if you were chad you wouldnt have to wait until she would start to trust u, wouldn't have to spend a lot of money and nerves, you would just fuck her instantly. They literally don't care about any emotional connection if you're chad brah

 

[wannaBProud]

10 hours a day is nothing when you actually like someone. Damn why even bother abt relationships, if you were chad you wouldnt have to wait until she would start to trust u, wouldn't have to spend a lot of money and nerves, you would just fuck her instantly. They literally don't care about any emotional connection if you're chad brah

thats why we literally looksmax but if you want a gf before you reach chad (most can't)

 

[moonch1ld]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

Water. But I wish more people thought like you. Also it’s worthless getting into a relationship unless its your dream girl and she had no romantic/emotional or sexual past.

 

[why not me?]

Get a cute femboy instead

 

[Pafoly]

Nah bro you wanna treat your girl you probably go to mcdonalds with yo girl

If we'd go to mcdonalds I'd make her pay it for me, I ain't gonna be no simp loser. I wouldn't even buy any girl a $1 cheese burger

 

[xoimsobased]

this doesn't take a genius and the answer is HELL NO

 

[m0ss26]

Short answer no long answer fuck no

 

[Nardicus101]

no its not