Blackpill (SERIOUS) The most helpfull thread on this site for members is how to get social skills.

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the idea behind it and the sentiment is positive.....however by your age i was genuinely a 2/10 guy truecel with big glasses and iron-clad rails for braces till at least 25, and then as a result of that i was excluded from all "decent" social groups, cause soy ciety is gyno centric and men dont want ugly men around em to creep up the girls

by now, over 30, its already too late, most "friends" will be in LTRs or married or not doing any interesting things even if im average or ascending/ better looking now

only geomaxxing will save me now, basically, since it's the SILVER BULLET that kills the werewolf named hypergamy, for JBW older guys , that understand how wmn actually operate :Comfy::feelskek:
I'd say if you hit 25 and have no friends/gf then it's pretty much over for having a healthy, normal life in the traditional sense. You can still cope with escorts like I will, but I'll never have a normal life cause my brain isn't normal (autism/schizophrenia). :ogre:
 
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I'd say if you hit 25 and have no friends/gf then it's pretty much over for having a healthy, normal life in the traditional sense. You can still cope with escorts like I will, but I'll never have a normal life cause my brain isn't normal (autism/schizophrenia). :ogre:
id push it to over 30/35 depending on how you look like ofc :feelskek:, but yeah i m not NT either bro:feelscry:....how old r u?
 
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id push it to over 30/35 depending on how you look like ofc :feelskek:, but yeah i m not NT either bro:feelscry:....how old r u?
I'm entering my mid 20's this year. The reason why I say 25 is because that's usually when most people are done with school and start wageslaving and/or starting families. It becomes increasingly difficult, if not impossible, to make legit true friends or have a trusted group of friends as a social circle after you leave school. Most of your close friends will be made in school and people with already established social circles will not feel the need to accept others into it. At best, they'd accept you as an acquaintance/distant friend, but never close so you'll be easily replaceable for them and they're more likely to use you. When it comes to dating, if you don't have experiences with it, especially if you're a virgin, most women will not want to deal with you, unless you're Chad, of course. The only women that will be in a similar situation as you would be mentally ill women who are damaged goods at that point or crazy cat ladies who don't want children. Your chances of finding a virgin female to pair-bond with are null and the few ones that are virgin at 25 most likely have mental problems or don't care about sex/relationships (usually the rare autistic woman). If you begin looksmaxxing at 25, you'll prolly finish by your late 20's/early 30's and have to play the catch-up game with normies which is impossible to win because they will continue gaining experiences as they age as well.
 
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Alot people here are always so negative, muhh i need to look like a chad to have friends. bullshit. why is the average normie living a nice social life and having alot of friends,

because they have social skills because they don't rot here 24/7 living in an echo chamber

ofcourse i don't deny the lookspill, looking better is easier to make friends i also experience it rn. but when i was like this 4 years ago like a fatty:

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i still was positive asfuck and was social with people, thats why my brain is not crippled.

Gonna make this thread soon as first priority.

Because if you ascended looks wise but still lack the social skills it is still bad, ofcourse it is easier to have it socially and you grow confidence with good experiences but if you already work on your social skills during your looksmaxxing you do 2 things at the same time.

-Lars
Bro when u make the social skills thread tag me
 
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” i need to look like a chad to have friends. bullshit. why is the average normie living a nice social life and having alot of friends, ”


This one cuts like steel
 
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” i need to look like a chad to have friends. bullshit. why is the average normie living a nice social life and having alot of friends, ”


This one cuts like steel
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Bro whats your advice for someone who moved to a new city after uni (had no choice relocated for job) and now doesnt have a social cirlce because of it. I see normie guys all the time irl with girls who I find cute and would be happy with despite the fact I mog these normie guys I can only get lower tier girls via online cos no social cirlce ;'(
 
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Bro whats your advice for someone who moved to a new city after uni (had no choice relocated for job) and now doesnt have a social cirlce because of it. I see normie guys all the time irl with girls who I find cute and would be happy with despite the fact I mog these normie guys I can only get lower tier girls via online cos no social cirlce ;'(
get into a salesjob and go to techno parties
 
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I'm entering my mid 20's this year. The reason why I say 25 is because that's usually when most people are done with school and start wageslaving and/or starting families. It becomes increasingly difficult, if not impossible, to make legit true friends or have a trusted group of friends as a social circle after you leave school. Most of your close friends will be made in school and people with already established social circles will not feel the need to accept others into it. At best, they'd accept you as an acquaintance/distant friend, but never close so you'll be easily replaceable for them and they're more likely to use you. When it comes to dating, if you don't have experiences with it, especially if you're a virgin, most women will not want to deal with you, unless you're Chad, of course. The only women that will be in a similar situation as you would be mentally ill women who are damaged goods at that point or crazy cat ladies who don't want children. Your chances of finding a virgin female to pair-bond with are null and the few ones that are virgin at 25 most likely have mental problems or don't care about sex/relationships (usually the rare autistic woman). If you begin looksmaxxing at 25, you'll prolly finish by your late 20's/early 30's and have to play the catch-up game with normies which is impossible to win because they will continue gaining experiences as they age as well.
yeah but your whole premise about this relies on "fitting in " with SOY ciety :feelskek:
life in oldcel liberal SOYlandia is an absolute hellish gynocentric landscape, like wtf am i gaining by serving a foid who has had 100s of chads before me and now is old?
and ofc you cant get a virgin foid past a certain age.....
all this "fitting in" with normie, liberal soyciety is cringe as shit, no thx, id rather spend my time here 24/7 rotting and playing vidya, than going to "dates" with a foid that has had 100s of chads before and having to PRETEND she s a princess and to jestermaxx for her
also your talking points with the skinny-fat?/fat by now normie friends will be whatever millionaire athlete is running on grass, soy songs, Obi soy kenobi, etc :feelsuhh::soy::feelswhy:
"socializing" in 2022 is literally cringe and hell with non blk pillers/ at least non blue pillers
no thx- meet me in SEA and we shall have a party.....if youre huwhite then= forever :Comfy:
 
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I do a fair bit of music and I know a lot of MCs/rappers, you'd be amazed how many ugly skinny white kids are insanely popular and pull crowds into wherever they play. I'm not saying these guys are slaying, but they are happy and have a wide social circle and "social proof". Developing a socially relevant skill is important for men, just as much as looksmaxing because for 99% of us we will never be able to looksmax enough that we can exist on the basis of our looks alone. If the only things you do are lift weights and play vidya what exactly do you have to offer other people?
 
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What was this thread supposed to be to become the most helpful thread on this site?

You've written half a page and said nothing, or is it: "Just be positive and social teehee"? Without having a foundation of social skills that will get you nothing, I know positive and social autists but do you think they have many friends?
many friends isnt important quality friends is.
 
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i've been saying the whole time. the most brutal blackpill is the personality pill. there's no surgery for your personality it's so fucking hard to change it, especially if you live in a country where you have to speak your second language. it's over I'm done trying lol I'm better off alone life is more stable this way...
 
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Alot people here are always so negative, muhh i need to look like a chad to have friends. bullshit. why is the average normie living a nice social life and having alot of friends,

because they have social skills because they don't rot here 24/7 living in an echo chamber

ofcourse i don't deny the lookspill, looking better is easier to make friends i also experience it rn. but when i was like this 4 years ago like a fatty:

View attachment 1698712

i still was positive asfuck and was social with people, thats why my brain is not crippled.

Gonna make this thread soon as first priority.

Because if you ascended looks wise but still lack the social skills it is still bad, ofcourse it is easier to have it socially and you grow confidence with good experiences but if you already work on your social skills during your looksmaxxing you do 2 things at the same time.

-Lars
True.

This forum will give you the knowledge required to improve your looks but simultaneously detract your social competency. If you get too entwined in the blackpill ideology that is.

Most social men even when not looking great can still get somewhat good-looking women meanwhile some people here that could almost walk the runway struggle to talk to the opposite sex.

I would like to change this dynamic
 
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"Just be positive bro--I did it!"

It's just not that easy tbh. Some people were turned away when you were let in, and you really can't make up for it by reading some self-help books or threads about others' success.
 
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Alot people here are always so negative, muhh i need to look like a chad to have friends. bullshit. why is the average normie living a nice social life and having alot of friends,
ABSOLUTELY FALSE.

I will resume my life. my personality is literally the same since I was born

kid until 7yo good money normal clothes and normal haircut: plenty of friends
child/adolescent (7-15) EXTREMELY poor, bad clothes long dirty hair: ZERO FRIENDS ABSOLUTE LONELINESS
15-21(NOW) normal clothing, normal haircut etc: many friends, people like to talk with me, I have lived with 2 girls having them paying for it (one of them my life crush spending some thousands of euros with me with better clothes, presents, dinners and lunches in restaurants trips plane trips etc etc unfortunately I didn't know about the blackpill so I didn't care about body fat haircut shaved beard etc etc)


the prettier you are the more people are willing to talk with you and give you a chance to socialise. the more u socialise the better u understand about what u should say and what u shouldn't, it gives u positive feedback and u then reproduce what works better. at my work I have seen some lite chad guys absolutely nailing conversations with highly intelligent people even though I knew he didn't have ANY idea about what was being said (but he always knew what to say and when to say).

the taller u are the easier it is to socialise as well. I am the best at my class and from far one of the best on my course and yet when everyone's talking about the exams they want to know what the tallest guys have to say (6ft) while ignoring my opinion (5ft8), this doesn't happen at all when I am around people of my height, in Portugal where everyone is my height I used to be at the centre of the conversation.


essentially:
if you're tall and normal looking, your social/leadership skills will be really developed
if you're short and ugly you're social skills will be perpetually bad.

these people need to looksmax or genemax. socialmaxxing literally doesn't exist
 
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Alot people here are always so negative, muhh i need to look like a chad to have friends. bullshit. why is the average normie living a nice social life and having alot of friends,

because they have social skills because they don't rot here 24/7 living in an echo chamber

ofcourse i don't deny the lookspill, looking better is easier to make friends i also experience it rn. but when i was like this 4 years ago like a fatty:

View attachment 1698712

i still was positive asfuck and was social with people, thats why my brain is not crippled.

Gonna make this thread soon as first priority.

Because if you ascended looks wise but still lack the social skills it is still bad, ofcourse it is easier to have it socially and you grow confidence with good experiences but if you already work on your social skills during your looksmaxxing you do 2 things at the same time.

-Lars
Reminder to discuss how to make quality friends, and not losers or douchebags.
 
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yeah but your whole premise about this relies on "fitting in " with SOY ciety :feelskek:
life in oldcel liberal SOYlandia is an absolute hellish gynocentric landscape, like wtf am i gaining by serving a foid who has had 100s of chads before me and now is old?
and ofc you cant get a virgin foid past a certain age.....
all this "fitting in" with normie, liberal soyciety is cringe as shit, no thx, id rather spend my time here 24/7 rotting and playing vidya, than going to "dates" with a foid that has had 100s of chads before and having to PRETEND she s a princess and to jestermaxx for her
also your talking points with the skinny-fat?/fat by now normie friends will be whatever millionaire athlete is running on grass, soy songs, Obi soy kenobi, etc :feelsuhh::soy::feelswhy:
"socializing" in 2022 is literally cringe and hell with non blk pillers/ at least non blue pillers
no thx- meet me in SEA and we shall have a party.....if youre huwhite then= forever :Comfy:
Incelmogging the forum
 
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ABSOLUTELY FALSE.

I will resume my life. my personality is literally the same since I was born

kid until 7yo good money normal clothes and normal haircut: plenty of friends
child/adolescent (7-15) EXTREMELY poor, bad clothes long dirty hair: ZERO FRIENDS ABSOLUTE LONELINESS
15-21(NOW) normal clothing, normal haircut etc: many friends, people like to talk with me, I have lived with 2 girls having them paying for it (one of them my life crush spending some thousands of euros with me with better clothes, presents, dinners and lunches in restaurants trips plane trips etc etc unfortunately I didn't know about the blackpill so I didn't care about body fat haircut shaved beard etc etc)


the prettier you are the more people are willing to talk with you and give you a chance to socialise. the more u socialise the better u understand about what u should say and what u shouldn't, it gives u positive feedback and u then reproduce what works better. at my work I have seen some lite chad guys absolutely nailing conversations with highly intelligent people even though I knew he didn't have ANY idea about what was being said (but he always knew what to say and when to say).

the taller u are the easier it is to socialise as well. I am the best at my class and from far one of the best on my course and yet when everyone's talking about the exams they want to know what the tallest guys have to say (6ft) while ignoring my opinion (5ft8), this doesn't happen at all when I am around people of my height, in Portugal where everyone is my height I used to be at the centre of the conversation.


essentially:
if you're tall and normal looking, your social/leadership skills will be really developed
if you're short and ugly you're social skills will be perpetually bad.

these people need to looksmax or genemax. socialmaxxing literally doesn't exist
bro it is a combination read again.
 

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