Sexualizing your woman and looking at her as a sex object

[ivan.kuk]

I got hit with a clarity. I used and still do (but less, and I'm changing) sexualize my exes, especially my last one.

Looking back at it, it just taints your whole perception of them, and the relationship.

A real bond is when you can look at her and feel a calm appreciation, without any perverse thoughts in the background. It's a beautiful thing that I wish I could go back in time to do right again.

That's what porn addiction did to me, and I'm glad that I'm almost a year free from it and starting to heal.

I have a certain amount of regret about my past life, and the way I was, but I'm glad I am finally changing. I still have some time left to experience the other side.

Never watching porn again.

Hope to experience real connection in the future. And if not, that's okay too.

 

[werewollf]

dnr but mirin the effort

 

[ivan.kuk]

dnr but mirin the effort

I mourn the lost potential. What could have been, if I was healthy.

 

[ykls.]

What is holding you back from experiencing real connection and porn can really destroy your mind.
So be happy that you beat it and dont regret over these things that are not changeable.
Have fun

 

[ivan.kuk]

What is holding you back from experiencing real connection and porn can really destroy your mind.
So be happy that you beat it and dont regret over these things that are not changeable.
Have fun

Thanks. I will eventually, It's still not a good idea for me to end up in a relationship yet.

 

[ykls.]

Thanks. I will eventually, It's still not a good idea for me to end up in a relationship yet.

why do you that its not a good idea for you to get in a relationship?

 

[horseman.]

Ok