Should i follow this guy's advice? He's expert at social skills

[ThunderBolt]

My name is Daniel Wendler, and I wrote Improve Your Social Skills for two important reasons - I know what it's like to struggle socially, and I know how to help.


See, I have Asperger's Syndrome, which meant I couldn't learn social skills naturally. As a result, I spend years as a social outcast. No matter how hard I tried to connect with others, my attempts inevitably ended in rejection.

But when I was finally diagnosed, I had an epiphany. The psychologist explained that my problems were the result of my inability to learn social skills automatically. And I realized -- what was keeping me from learning social skills deliberately, the way someone might study a foreign language?

So I started to study the "language" of social skills. I bought stacks of social skills books, spend hours rewinding movies to study body language and social cues, and practiced everywhere I could.
My studies paid off. I started to make friends, enjoy social outings -- even went on my first date! Slowly but surely, I began to discover the joy that comes from a life of connection.

 

[ThunderBolt]

for real, we need a social skills section in this damn forum, it's ridiculous, its as important as looks to have a good life. not dating

 

[Deleted member 24444]

really, we need a social skills section in this damn forum, it's ridiculous, its as important as looks to have a good life. not dating

Redpill.org, they are irrelevant

 

[ThunderBolt]

Redpill.org, they are irrelevant

that's why all succesful people have good social skills,

 

[ThunderBolt]

yo, do you know where a good way to get along with young people, im young and i only get along with older people cause they're more mature and they talk about more serious topics.

 

[juste]

 

[New Poster]

You can't reverse engineer social interactions. Things happen too quickly and too much is going on to consciously control what you're doing. You have to rely on your instincts and train them with millions of interactions. No book can tell you these things.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

that's why all succesful people have good social skills,

No. They have good looks and so whatever they do seems good social

 

[ThunderBolt]

You can't reverse engineer social interactions. Things happen too quickly and too much is going on to consciously control what you're doing. You have to rely on your instincts and train them with millions of interactions. No book can tell you these things.

Ok, i talk with people, everything more or less feels alright, but at the end i just leave and they leave and that's it, good way to keep the relationship^?=

 

[New Poster]

Ok, i talk with people, everything more or less feels alright, but at the end i just leave and they leave and that's it, good way to keep the relationship^?=

Wut

 

[ThunderBolt]

Wut

tell me HOW TO KEEP TALKING WITH PEOPLE AFTER AN ENCOUNTER.

 

[StacysFantasy]

tell me HOW TO KEEP TALKING WITH PEOPLE AFTER AN ENCOUNTER.

Look up Brene Brown she has/will ascend us all off this forum