Should I get back on the dating apps

[MoggerGaston]

Or is it just more pain

Been getting insanely hard. I use my old top pics, fraud age lower by 5 years, lie about everything, hide every negative aspect of myself.

Then swipe on 4 different dating apps for a month, with a massive radius

Result: have set-up 1 date with a girl I don't even really find attractive.

idk if worth but honestly nothing better to do.

 

[imthesupremecel]

no dont do it

 

[MoggerGaston]

no dont do it

what can we do

 

[imthesupremecel]

what can we do

nothing we can do

 

[MoggerGaston]

nothing we can do

ill not accept

 

[imthesupremecel]

ill not accept

we have to moggergaston, we have to

 

[MoggerGaston]

we have to moggergaston, we have to

 

[isis_Bleach]

1 date shell probably flake but if u smash jusy hope shes hot irl

 

[MoggerGaston]

we have to moggergaston, we have to

If I lower my standards to 25+ yo LTB,
everything will be all right.

 

[Deleted member 80130]

just accept inceldom and stop caring about that
find some good porn

 

[MoggerGaston]

1 date shell probably flake but if u smash jusy hope shes hot irl

easy if I get her drunk tbh, otherwise impossible to slay on 1st date

 

[MoggerGaston]

just accept inceldom and stop caring about that
find some good porn

 

[isis_Bleach]

we

easy if I get her drunk tbh, otherwise impossible to slay on 1st date

ll just hope she lets u touch her tits or smth if u guys dont touch at all the first date pretty sure its cooked

 

[PeakIncels]

ill not accept

there is nothing you or me can do, it's over, wait for death brother.

 

[SoundnVision]

Na go to some raves and bang some women bro

 

[TechnoBoss]

I don't see why not. The only other option is to LDAR or approach women IRL only.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

the foids profiles look professionally done and high effort
It’s over

 

[Tusseleif]

You could try but you shouldn’t take it too seriously. It can easily be giga depression-fuel. I get flaked on by ltb’s

 

[MoggerGaston]

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there is nothing you or me can do, it's over, wait for death brother.

I am slavic Napoleon. Nobody can stop me.

 

[PeakIncels]

I am slavic Napoleon. Nobody can stop me.

I admire you

 

[MoggerGaston]

we

ll just hope she lets u touch her tits or smth if u guys dont touch at all the first date pretty sure its cooked

making out on first dates has been pretty easy for me ngl. like 70% succes rate.

But sex is <20%
Second date similar <20%

 

[uksucks]

Geomax to south America

 

[MoggerGaston]

Na go to some raves and bang some women bro

i have 0.0% succes rate with banging chicks on raves holy fuck.

I am 100% sure you need to go to after-parties there to slay anything but I never get invited to them.
As a guy you aren't welcome. Maybe unless ur giving away free drugs or smth

 

[MoggerGaston]

I don't see why not. The only other option is to LDAR or approach women IRL only.

I much prefer approaching women IRL. I made a topic in January about a really nice approach I had even though I got rejected (she was lesbian).

Problem with IRL approach is that it seems hard to find appropriate times to do it. Like today I was walking through the city centre and was looking through the window of the starbucks I never go to. Saw some cute girl sitting there, seems cringe asf to just approach her out of nowhere tho ngl.

I will have to cope with OLD for now while improving my IRL social life tbh.

 

[MoggerGaston]

the foids profiles look professionally done and high effort
It’s over

True, cuz they make 103849 pictures everywhere they go with their friends and editing them for social-media is most girl's hobby as the social-media addicts they are.

Meanwhile I have 0 social-media and have to edit my pics just for a tinder profile like an idiot

 

[edodalic29]

Dude i haven’t not once met a normal girl off of old , all of them eventually reveal that they are either used up or still chatting with hundreds of random guys . Use them just to go do fun stuff with

 

[MoggerGaston]

You could try but you shouldn’t take it too seriously. It can easily be giga depression-fuel. I get flaked on by ltb’s

true its brutal. cant value it too much. I need to limit my time on the apps to specific times during the day so it doesn't occupy my mind and make me despressed.

I remember in the past when I used them, I would wake up in the morning, check the apps, see no matches/messages and instantly be depressed jfl brutal

 

[MoggerGaston]

Geomax to south America

eventually. Argentina is calling ngl

 

[MoggerGaston]

Dude i haven’t not once met a normal girl off of old , all of them eventually reveal that they are either used up or still chatting with hundreds of random guys . Use them just to go do fun stuff with

i dont meet women irl unfortunately so have few options.

 

[edodalic29]

i dont meet women irl unfortunately so have few options.

Go for it 100% , i dont approach or rarely get approached irl so i use the apps cuz of how convenient they are

 

[MoggerGaston]

Go for it 100% , i dont approach or rarely get approached irl so i use the apps cuz of how convenient they are

i agree with you that most foids on there are extremely mentally ill.

only chance at a good girl is if its the first time shes using the app and is young. You need to hit fast to get her number and get her off the app, cuz shes never coming back there after a few days.

 

[TechnoBoss]

I much prefer approaching women IRL. I made a topic in January about a really nice approach I had even though I got rejected (she was lesbian).

Problem with IRL approach is that it seems hard to find appropriate times to do it. Like today I was walking through the city centre and was looking through the window of the starbucks I never go to. Saw some cute girl sitting there, seems cringe asf to just approach her out of nowhere tho ngl.

I will have to cope with OLD for now while improving my IRL social life tbh.

Oh, I think I remember that thread. Weren't you at a restaurant or a cafe or something and it was the waitress that looked cute?

IRL approach you have to just kind of wing it. If a girl likes the way you look and you don't seem creepy she'll give you her number. If you see a cute girl on the street (admittedly your example of going in is a bit harder, but it's possible to make it work) just go up to her and say something along the lines of "Excuse me hi I'm sorry to bother you but I walked by and I couldn't help but notice you. I'm on my way to [X location] right now but I thought you looked interesting." and go from there. I know it might be cringe but honestly it's straight forward, not too creepy and can't be really considered aggressive or too imposing. It works for me.

Whenever I've been approached by women on the street though they have just walked up to me and said hi no real introduction needed (probably because they know they're women and they don't need one) - One even walked up to me and asked if I was lost because I was standing outside somewhere waiting for a friend.

 

[edodalic29]

i agree with you that most foids on there are extremely mentally ill.

only chance at a good girl is if its the first time shes using the app and is young. You need to hit fast to get her number and get her off the app, cuz shes never coming back there after a few days.

Yeah true . You gotta strike while the iron is hot.

I seem to only attract low quality females due to looking low trust and overly robust . It is what it is tho , im not looking for love right now , it seems that i cannot have feelings for a woman again after oneitis situation fell off a few months ago . For me i have no desire anymore except for sex .

 

[TechnoBoss]

i cannot have feelings for a woman again after oneitis situation fell off a few months ago . For me i have no desire anymore except for sex .

I'm the opposite now. I feel like I need to find the one before it's too late. I miss my oneitis she truly ruined me for all other women

I'm just trying to find a suitable replacement for her now, but it's not going too well. I just want a LTR that was like the one I had.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Oh, I think I remember that thread. Weren't you at a restaurant or a cafe or something and it was the waitress that looked cute?

yes exactly, the goth emo girl. But I had local social-support back then (the few colleagues I was with encouraged me to approach) and had a really good topic to start a conversation with her about that had to do with her appearance.

IRL approach you have to just kind of wing it. If a girl likes the way you look and you don't seem creepy she'll give you her number. If you see a cute girl on the street (admittedly your example of going in is a bit harder, but it's possible to make it work) just go up to her and say something along the lines of "Excuse me hi I'm sorry to bother you but I walked by and I couldn't help but notice you. I'm on my way to [X location] right now but I thought you looked interesting." and go from there. I know it might be cringe but honestly it's straight forward, not too creepy and can't be really considered aggressive or too imposing. It works for me.

Yeah, success rate is probably really bad with this. But if you can do it without much stress/anxiety/overthinking. I think this is the most important part because if it's hard for you to approach, takes a lot of mental-energy, getting over mental hurdles, then it's going to drain you and become too bothersome. But if you can make it easy on the mind, you could get off a few approaches per week/month depending on how much you go outside, and guarantee succes after a while.

Whenever I've been approached by women on the street

One even walked up to me and asked if I was lost because I was standing outside somewhere waiting for a friend.

 

[Deleted member 71411]

+5/10 women ignore sub 8s as if they did not exist

 

[edodalic29]

I'm the opposite now. I feel like I need to find the one before it's too late. I miss my oneitis she truly ruined me for all other women

I'm just trying to find a suitable replacement for her now, but it's not going too well.

I feel the same bro . Im trying to re attract her back but both of us have to much pride , it was like a game over who has the most balls to pursure first , what a joke man . Everyone knows the women needs to pursue first or else the relationship dynamic will be one sided , in my opinion i dont think the guy has to ask for the relationship , but the other way around.

 

[isis_Bleach]

making out on first dates has been pretty easy for me ngl. like 70% succes rate.

But sex is <20%
Second date similar <20%

“incel”

 

[MoggerGaston]

“incel”

last time ive had sex was years ago

 

[isis_Bleach]

last time ive had sex was years ago

what abt making out naked and rubbing ur dick on her?

 

[vrt]

Or is it just more pain

Been getting insanely hard. I use my old top pics, fraud age lower by 5 years, lie about everything, hide every negative aspect of myself.

Then swipe on 4 different dating apps for a month, with a massive radius

Result: have set-up 1 date with a girl I don't even really find attractive.

idk if worth but honestly nothing better to do.

go to clubs, its much easier to slay there

 

[MoggerGaston]

I'm the opposite now. I feel like I need to find the one before it's too late. I miss my oneitis she truly ruined me for all other women

I'm just trying to find a suitable replacement for her now, but it's not going too well. I just want a LTR that was like the one I had.

ive never even had a real girlfriend honestly. Can't call a 4month 'relationship' serious tbh, maybe for a high-school relationship that is 'serious'.

at this point I just want a warm body laying next to me when I sleep so I can have better sleep quality.
Have more calmth, peace, be a bit more mild towards myself, cuz of female physical affection.

LTR can never work in my current state unfortunately.
I'll have to go for fwb first and get ltr much later

 

[TechnoBoss]

yes exactly, the goth emo girl. But I had local social-support back then (the few colleagues I was with encouraged me to approach) and had a really good topic to start a conversation with her about that had to do with her appearance.



Yeah, success rate is probably really bad with this. But if you can do it without much stress/anxiety/overthinking. I think this is the most important part because if it's hard for you to approach, takes a lot of mental-energy, getting over mental hurdles, then it's going to drain you and become too bothersome. But if you can make it easy on the mind, you could get off a few approaches per week/month depending on how much you go outside, and guarantee succes after a while.

Yeah, I was gonna say she was the goth girl. Shows not all of them are bad and you gotta respect them for being honest and nice.

It is the overthinking and kills cold approaches. I personally can't ever cold approach unless I've legit done every kind of softmax before I leave my house. If I think I don't look my absolute 100% best I just say forget it and don't go up to anyone. I've noticed that if I go too long without talking to women it's almost like my brain resets and I have trouble continuing to do it again. I personally have spammed approaches before on nights I was feeling really low inhib.

One night I actually got kind of drunk with my friend and walked around this really sketchy neighborhood around me. This neighborhood is so bad they genuinely have cops every 2 blocks. I was spam approaching female police officers, random women waiting at outside food stands, etc. I didn't care at all. I used to go to the same neighborhood and do this all the time, but I think I got too well known. Also, I kind of passed out over there one time and ended up in the hospital and when I got out of the hospital and got off the bus close to my house, some dude drove by in his car and yelled out at me "Weren't you the guy on [X avenue] yesterday??" and keep in mind I was so fucked up, I don't remember being at this place at all. I only knew I was there because my friend who was with me told me I was there. I must've fucked up pretty bad for strangers to be driving by and recognizing me for the shit I was doing over there while fucked up JFL.

And women have actually approached me quite often in public. It's actually not rare at all. I do a thousand times better in person than I do on apps. I actually met the last girl I was messing with for a while this way she walked up to me in the street.

 

[MoggerGaston]

what abt making out naked and rubbing ur dick on her?

never had

 

[MoggerGaston]

go to clubs, its much easier to slay there

completely impossible where I live

dating apps easier than clubs.

 

[vrt]

completely impossible where I live

dating apps easier than clubs.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Yeah, I was gonna say she was the goth girl. Shows not all of them are bad and you gotta respect them for being honest and nice.

yup, she was really nice about it, unlike the avg girl at a club/rave I approach. They generally give me the 'eww' face instantly.

It is the overthinking and kills cold approaches. I personally can't ever cold approach unless I've legit done every kind of softmax before I leave my house. If I think I don't look my absolute 100% best I just say forget it and don't go up to anyone. I've noticed that if I go too long without talking to women it's almost like my brain resets and I have trouble continuing to do it again. I personally have spammed approaches before on nights I was feeling really low inhib.

i've only mass-approached when being really drunk and I personally don't like the vibe. I would be too drunk to care at that point and the interaction I had, even when positive, seemed rather meaningless and with a girl I didn't even like or care about.

One night I actually got kind of drunk with my friend and walked around this really sketchy neighborhood around me. This neighborhood is so bad they genuinely have cops every 2 blocks. I was spam approaching female police officers, random women waiting at outside food stands, etc. I didn't care at all. I used to go to the same neighborhood and do this all the time, but I think I got too well known. Also, I kind of passed out over there one time and ended up in the hospital and when I got out of the hospital and got off the bus close to my house, some dude drove by in his car and yelled out at me "Weren't you the guy on [X avenue] yesterday??" and keep in mind I was so fucked up, I don't remember being at this place at all. I only knew I was there because my friend who was with me told me I was there. I must've fucked up pretty bad for strangers to be driving by and recognizing me for the shit I was doing over there while fucked up JFL.

pretty cool story though ahaha, hope u got out fine from the hospital.
i am still curious to see whether people at that club I got an ambulance called for me at, recognize me. probably not at this point.

And women have actually approached me quite often in public. It's actually not rare at all. I do a thousand times better in person than I do on apps. I actually met the last girl I was messing with for a while this way she walked up to me in the street.

That's insane. That is fucking insane man.

I can count the times women have approached me IN MY ENTIRE LIFE on like 1 fucking hand, less than 5 times.

A woman, any women, which I haven't spoken to before, starting a conversation with me? literally insanity, NEVER happens.

 

[curryascenderr]

Lying about being older is fine, lying about being younger by 5 years just JFL at this nonce

 

[MoggerGaston]

Lying about being older is fine, lying about being younger by 5 years just JFL at this nonce

what are u talking about buddy

 

[Prettyboy]

You have to first build up a solid instagram page, it’s a prerequisite for dating apps