SHOULD I SEND THIS TO MY EX-SITUATIONSHIP?

[zerotohero]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

 

[GrandInquisitor]

I am not an expert but I’d say send it. What do you have to lose?

 

[ChadThundercøck]

Whats with the emojis brah

Not a good look icl

 

[xan]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you ”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

I'd remove the unnatural haha, with the emojis, and instead of saying "heyy" just say Hey what's up! or something more masculine

Everything else is good

 

[looksaresuicide]

Shorten it and just say u thought abt her and ask how she’s doing, clear and concise

 

[zerotohero]

Whats with the emojis brah

Not a good look icl

I don’t know why they look like that.

 

[Krivi.]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

No. Not worth it. There is a reason she is ur ex

 

[ChadThundercøck]

I don’t know why they look like that.

remove the laughter and emojis

Be more nonchalant

 

[OgreGravital]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

She would screenshot ur fag ass and send the text straight to divas gc. What fuckin kind of low t text is this

 

[Short]

I'd remove the unnatural haha, with the emojis, and instead of saying "heyy" just say Hey what's up! or something more masculine

Everything else is good

Whats with the emojis brah

Not a good look icl

Because of org, he had a text smiley face pretty sure

I’d change it to this OP

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha, the other day I was thinking about you and the things you used to tell me, I felt like checking in on you and seeing how you were doing. I hope you’re doing well and everything’s going great for you! ”

Maybe add more and a couple changes but not too sure

 

[www.988lifeline.org]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

Fuck it. Why not

 

[ChadThundercøck]

Because of org, he had a text smiley face pretty sure

I’d change it to this OP

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha, the other day I was thinking about you and the things you used to tell me, I felt like checking in on you and seeing how you were doing. I hope you’re doing well and everything’s going great for you! ”

Maybe add more not too sure

no it should be like this

"whats up bitch lets fuck rn"

 

[foidslayerr333]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

Send it, what do you have to lose?

 

[Heaver]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

You are lowk forcing it.
Just talk more casual

 

[.dark]

take that risk

 

[Iore]

"its been a minute"

 

[IndecentEyes]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

Yea id say it’s pretty good, what did she use to say?

 

[zerotohero]

Yea id say it’s pretty good, what did she use to say?

What do you mean?

 

[IndecentEyes]

What do you mean?

cuz u said “i though of thinks you used to tell me” so i asked what that was so i can evaluate the text better

 

[zerotohero]

cuz u said “i though of thinks you used to tell me” so i asked what that was so i can evaluate the text better

Oh yeah, her projects and shit like that

 

[IndecentEyes]

Oh yeah, her projects and shit like that

Yea you should send that text don’t overthink it

 

[heiwa]

Need some brutally honest opinions on this one.

I’ve been thinking about texting an old situationship after a long time without talking. I’m not trying to dump my feelings on her or immediately get her back. I’d literally just be checking in and seeing where things are at.

This is what I’m thinking of sending:

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha. The other day I thought about you and some of the things you used to tell me, and I felt like checking in to see how you’re doing. Hope you’re doing well and that everything’s going great for you”

My concern is that it might come across as way more emotionally invested than I think it does.

Is this actually a normal, low-pressure opener, or am I just coping because I want an excuse to text her?

Would you send this as is, make it shorter, or just take the L and stay silent?

What’s the play here?

there's two way to go,
dm her and try to get her back or just move on
I don't know what you experienced with this girl or what was your relationship with her but if it was me I'd say don't send shit, never go back to your ex it ain't worth it if she left you or you left her once it'll happen again.
*if you want a serious relationship and not just wanna fuck just move on there's plenty of other girls,
it's probably been a while since you haven't talked to her so you forgot about what you didn't like about her,
if you really wanna send it just do it you ain't losing much anyway, your dignity at most

 

[zerotohero]

there's two way to go,
dm her and try to get her back or just move on
I don't know what you experienced with this girl or what was your relationship with her but if it was me I'd say don't send shit, never go back to your ex it ain't worth it if she left you or you left her once it'll happen again.
*if you want a serious relationship and not just wanna fuck just move on there's plenty of other girls,
it's probably been a while since you haven't talked to her so you forgot about what you didn't like about her,
if you really wanna send it just do it you ain't losing much anyway, your dignity at most

I fucked other girls after her, but still think bout her ngl

 

[heiwa]

I fucked other girls after her, but still think bout her ngl

then send it knowing you might not get her back and that it's fine,
even if it seems like she's really important to you someday you might realise she wasn't that much
as I said if you've got nothing to lose just go for it and your opening line is good

 

[Vincent Freeman]

you need to lock in for that

 

[zerotohero]

What about this?
“Hey X, long time no see haha. I was thinking about you the other day and thought I’d check in and see how you’re doing. Everything good?”

 

[zerotohero]

Should I bite the bullet?

 

[zerotohero]

Bump.

 

[HispanicMogger]

do it

 

[zerotohero]

do it

Are you sure?

 

[solohunter99]

> “Heyy it’s been a while haha.

The rest is fine doe

 

[zerotohero]

Bump.