should i text my ex....

[оrg]

theres this site where you can write anonymous letters to people and she reposted a video of that site.

i checked it out and she wrote like 4 messages there that i know are directed towards me.
(our inside jokes and the things we would call eachother that only we would know).


I've made a thread about this and people said i shouldn't because it's low T but FUCK i miss her so badly...

 

[оrg]

@FramePillGymMaxx @Luca_. @ralix @unon @Aress

 

[Deleted member 160598]

@FramePillGymMaxx @Luca_. @ralix @unon @Aress

Don't i swear if u do ill text the girl im obsessed with too maybe

Also ralix is @PersianGymMaxx now

 

[Deleted member 103340]

Who cares you only live once, besides if you don’t do it will you regret it later on in life?

 

[оrg]

Who cares you only live once, besides if you don’t do it will you regret it later on in life?

idk... i think i might regret hitting her up more than not doing it cause that has happened in the past where ive regretted it...

 

[оrg]

@BigBallsLarry @Bryce @PersianGymMaxx @Thief

 

[Troglodyte452]

theres this site where you can write anonymous letters to people and she reposted a video of that site.

i checked it out and she wrote like 4 messages there that i know are directed towards me.
(our inside jokes and the things we would call eachother that only we would know).


I've made a thread about this and people said i shouldn't because it's low T but FUCK i miss her so badly...

depends how the things ended brodie

 

[Deleted member 103340]

idk... i think i might regret hitting her up more than not doing it cause that has happened in the past where ive regretted it...

Seems like you have your answer man, anyways wishing you luck with all of this

 

[оrg]

depends how the things ended brodie

i was post surgery, couldnt walk and got too clingy so she left me. i didnt love myself or anyone else so she was the only person that was close to me in my life and it pushed her away. used to lovebomb like CRAZY.

 

[оrg]

Seems like you have your answer man, anyways wishing you luck with all of this

thanks man

 

[Troglodyte452]

i was post surgery, couldnt walk and got too clingy so she left me. i didnt love myself or anyone else so she was the only person that was close to me in my life and it pushed her away. used to lovebomb like CRAZY.

so she leaves her partner because he got too low T and now you wanna do another low T act which is coming back to her and YOU initiate it? I might be the devil on your shoulder but I'd think she would get an ick if you started talking to her again out of your own will. You do you tho

 

[ItsSoGymMaxx]

Just text her and say you miss her body. I feel like that's a great plan

 

[оrg]

so she leaves her partner because he got too low T and now you wanna do another low T act which is coming back to her and YOU initiate it? I might be the devil on your shoulder but I'd think she would get an ick if you started talking to her again out of your own will. You do you tho

completely understand what you mean and you're right. HOWEVER thoughts on like following her or doing sum light shit? like not a convo but like a follow to see if she says anything

 

[оrg]

Just text her and say you miss her body. I feel like that's a great plan

crazy thing is ts might work bruh

 

[Troglodyte452]

completely understand what you mean and you're right. HOWEVER thoughts on like following her or doing sum light shit? like not a convo but like a follow to see if she says anything

I've been in similar situation. The only thing we were still following each other on was tik tok and she started perma liking my stuff on there but I know this bitch too well and Im not doing anything on instagram (i unfollowed me for her and then unfollowed her too) I kinda closed the door even though I have stronger feelings for her than other girls I was seeing. I still sometimes think about doing something but idk

 

[оrg]

I've been in similar situation. The only thing we were still following each other on was tik tok and she started perma liking my stuff on there but I know this bitch too well and Im not doing anything on instagram (i unfollowed me for her and then unfollowed her too) I kinda closed the door even though I have stronger feelings for her than other girls I was seeing. I still sometimes think about doing something but idk

yea its a slippery slope man... hard to make a decision because you risk getting cucked and emotional damage.

 

[Johan]

Yeah bro message her

What do u think about the new name

 

[Deleted member 184256]

You should message her bhai
She probably misses you too

 

[оrg]

You should message her bhai
She probably misses you too

fuel

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

theres this site where you can write anonymous letters to people and she reposted a video of that site.

i checked it out and she wrote like 4 messages there that i know are directed towards me.
(our inside jokes and the things we would call eachother that only we would know).


I've made a thread about this and people said i shouldn't because it's low T but FUCK i miss her so badly...

Do it
But theres a reason she left you or you left her
Remember that

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

Btw mirin avi

 

[unstable]

don't best idea is to follow her and use mutual friend to convey some message, btw is she virgin cuz virgin or deathh

 

[оrg]

Yeah bro message her

What do u think about the new name

mirin but i can barely see it cz im on darkmode

 

[оrg]

don't best idea is to follow her and use mutual friend to convey some message, btw is she virgin cuz virgin or deathh

virgin yea

 

[оrg]

Btw mirin avi

thanks bhaburrito

 

[оrg]

I've been in similar situation. The only thing we were still following each other on was tik tok and she started perma liking my stuff on there but I know this bitch too well and Im not doing anything on instagram (i unfollowed me for her and then unfollowed her too) I kinda closed the door even though I have stronger feelings for her than other girls I was seeing. I still sometimes think about doing something but idk
Don't i swear if u do ill text the girl im obsessed with too maybe

Also ralix is @PersianGymMaxx now

Who cares you only live once, besides if you don’t do it will you regret it later on in life?

holy shit, go for it!! what more do you need to hear.
you got this

i fucking did it. texted her and turns out she missed me too. we talked till like 4 am after 1.5yr of no contact and she didn't even let me leave for 1 second when i wanted to piss. told me she has a boyfriend and that she had to get that off her chest, but also told me that they don't even kiss and that she missed me the whole time. then she started to go off on about how she never forgot me and tried to get into a new relationship to distract herself. holy fucking green boys i may just selfban now to respect offtopic but i am so insanely happy. thank YOU for motivating me to make that step. you are legends.

 

[оrg]

You should message her bhai
She probably misses you too

.

 

[Deleted member 160598]

i fucking did it. texted her and turns out she missed me too. we talked till like 4 am after 1.5yr of no contact and she didn't even let me leave for 1 second when i wanted to piss. told me she has a boyfriend and that she had to get that off her chest, but also told me that they don't even kiss and that she missed me the whole time. then she started to go off on about how she never forgot me and tried to get into a new relationship to distract herself. holy fucking green boys i may just selfban now to respect offtopic but i am so insanely happy. thank YOU for motivating me to make that step. you are legends.

Mirin dude. So ur leaving?

 

[оrg]

Mirin dude. So ur leaving?

i may have to resign for now. but my reign shall continue in the future.

 

[Deleted member 160598]

i may have to resign for now. but my reign shall continue in the future.

Good bye mane

 

[оrg]

Good bye mane

congrats on 20k rep holy sheet

 

[оrg]

Don't i swear if u do ill text the girl im obsessed with too maybe

Also ralix is @PersianGymMaxx now

also... now u have to do ur part

 

[Deleted member 160598]

also... now u have to do ur part

Maybe mayb

 

[LTNUser]

Yeah bro message her

What do u think about the new name

I can't even see it because it's so black

 

[Deleted member 103340]

i fucking did it. texted her and turns out she missed me too. we talked till like 4 am after 1.5yr of no contact and she didn't even let me leave for 1 second when i wanted to piss. told me she has a boyfriend and that she had to get that off her chest, but also told me that they don't even kiss and that she missed me the whole time. then she started to go off on about how she never forgot me and tried to get into a new relationship to distract herself. holy fucking green boys i may just selfban now to respect offtopic but i am so insanely happy. thank YOU for motivating me to make that step. you are legends.

I told you bro I’m happy for you man

 

[DrunkenSailor]

i fucking did it. texted her and turns out she missed me too. we talked till like 4 am after 1.5yr of no contact and she didn't even let me leave for 1 second when i wanted to piss. told me she has a boyfriend and that she had to get that off her chest, but also told me that they don't even kiss and that she missed me the whole time. then she started to go off on about how she never forgot me and tried to get into a new relationship to distract herself. holy fucking green boys i may just selfban now to respect offtopic but i am so insanely happy. thank YOU for motivating me to make that step. you are legends.

Oh dear god…

 

[оrg]

Oh dear god…

what

 

[DrunkenSailor]

what

This is not gonna end well

Its your decision at the end of the day and if you’re happy go for it, you know better than anyone else what you two had going and I don’t wanna be the guy who twists your happiness but she left you for a reason. When she says she’s missing YOU, she is not missing you, she is missing what you provided for her. If/when you go through another rough patch she will dump your ass like last time.

I have an ex too, we’ve been together for 8 years and i see she likes all sorts of instagram reels that are likely hinted at me and i was tempted to text her because of that but i am not doing that shit. Once she decided she wanted to go, she better stay gone

 

[оrg]

This is not gonna end well

Its your decision at the end of the day and if you’re happy go for it, you know better than anyone else what you two had going and I don’t wanna be the guy who twists your happiness but she left you for a reason. When she says she’s missing YOU, she is not missing you, she is missing what you provided for her. If/when you go through another rough patch she will dump your ass like last time.

I have an ex too, we’ve been together for 8 years and i see she likes all sorts of instagram reels that are likely hinted at me and i was tempted to text her because of that but i am not doing that shit. Once she decided she wanted to go, she better stay gone

this is brutally honest of you and i appreciate it. although in my pov true love doesn't exist. both parties are providing something to eachother in a relationship and that's how it works. everything in this world is transactional. not even your own mother loves you if you're not providing something. even giving money to a beggar is transactional. you feel like a good person, they get money.

and i feel like once i realised that absolutely everything is transactional, my life did a 180 for the better. not just for myself but for others around me.

and yea she might dump me if things get bad, but i needed that. i lost myself and i only had her in my life. you can call it jestermaxxing securitymaxxing funnymaxxing listeningmaxxing. i provide something and so does she.

hope you get what i mean bhaijan

 

[оrg]

. Once she decided she wanted to go, she better stay gone

and I don't even hate that mindset. that's very fair of you

 

[Insomnia]

i fucking did it. texted her and turns out she missed me too. we talked till like 4 am after 1.5yr of no contact and she didn't even let me leave for 1 second when i wanted to piss. told me she has a boyfriend and that she had to get that off her chest, but also told me that they don't even kiss and that she missed me the whole time. then she started to go off on about how she never forgot me and tried to get into a new relationship to distract herself. holy fucking green boys i may just selfban now to respect offtopic but i am so insanely happy. thank YOU for motivating me to make that step. you are legends.

You basically cucked her boyfriend

 

[DrunkenSailor]

this is brutally honest of you and i appreciate it. although in my pov true love doesn't exist. both parties are providing something to eachother in a relationship and that's how it works. everything in this world is transactional. not even your own mother loves you if you're not providing something. even giving money to a beggar is transactional. you feel like a good person, they get money.

and i feel like once i realised that absolutely everything is transactional, my life did a 180 for the better. not just for myself but for others around me.

and yea she might dump me if things get bad, but i needed that. i lost myself and i only had her in my life. you can call it jestermaxxing securitymaxxing funnymaxxing listeningmaxxing. i provide something and so does she.

hope you get what i mean bhaijan

Yeah you’re right about that part that everything is transactional.

Thing is, i don’t get it how you lost yourself after she was gone. If anything it should’ve been the other way around, lost yourself while you were chasing her love. I would say you should figure why you really felt you lost yourself and find a way to fix that alone. When it comes to yourself, it’s very rare that other people can fix your shit, it’s you. Keep that in mind

One last piece of advice I can give you, if you don’t mind, is to take it easy. Don’t overinvest, see if she is making efforts to get back and if she does, again just take it easy and try to be as detached as possible. This time you should take advantage of this transaction, not her

 

[Lefty Rankin]

theres this site where you can write anonymous letters to people and she reposted a video of that site.

i checked it out and she wrote like 4 messages there that i know are directed towards me.
(our inside jokes and the things we would call eachother that only we would know).


I've made a thread about this and people said i shouldn't because it's low T but FUCK i miss her so badly...

She wants to know she can have you back if she wants. That's all.

 

[оrg]

Yeah you’re right about that part that everything is transactional.

Thing is, i don’t get it how you lost yourself after she was gone. If anything it should’ve been the other way around, lost yourself while you were chasing her love. I would say you should figure why you really felt you lost yourself and find a way to fix that alone. When it comes to yourself, it’s very rare that other people can fix your shit, it’s you. Keep that in mind

One last piece of advice I can give you, if you don’t mind, is to take it easy. Don’t overinvest, see if she is making efforts to get back and if she does, again just take it easy and try to be as detached as possible. This time you should take advantage of this transaction, not her

absolutely agree with your last point. and i also wanna say I've done a 180 and im not who i was before. sounds cringe but i feel like it's true. my problem was that i NEEDED someone to be with me for me to be happy on the day to day basis. but nowadays in completely independent. the reason why i wanted to go back is because we share years of experience with eachother and so many memories.

+ I don't wanna be single anymore..this shit is fucking tragic it makes you go insane.

and yea i would advise to anyone that they have to fix themselves and love themselves before loving anyone because that's what's most important for you and the people around you.

 

[оrg]

Yeah you’re right about that part that everything is transactional.

Thing is, i don’t get it how you lost yourself after she was gone. If anything it should’ve been the other way around, lost yourself while you were chasing her love. I would say you should figure why you really felt you lost yourself and find a way to fix that alone. When it comes to yourself, it’s very rare that other people can fix your shit, it’s you. Keep that in mind

One last piece of advice I can give you, if you don’t mind, is to take it easy. Don’t overinvest, see if she is making efforts to get back and if she does, again just take it easy and try to be as detached as possible. This time you should take advantage of this transaction, not her

law of absence comes into play there. and honestly i was doing VERY good right up until the last point. see the thing is i was hospitalised and it couldn't walk. i got clingy and i would randomly fight with her/ lovebomb. and while this works you have to do this in a smaller amount.

 

[DrunkenSailor]

my problem was that i NEEDED someone to be with me for me to be happy on the day to day basis. but nowadays in completely independent. the reason why i wanted to go back is because we share years of experience with eachother and so many memories.

+ I don't wanna be single anymore..this shit is fucking tragic it makes you go insane.

isn’t that first paragraph (a bit) contradicting? If you were really completely independent, you wouldn’t feel the need to have someone in your life, more so someone who betrayed you once already, i mean when you reach that inner peace, it’s more likely you’d wanna stay single because it’s pretty certain that women will ruin that peace with their constant drama and emotional play.

Being single sucks for sure, trust me i know it and i have no fucking friends either so i am all alone, the problem i see with most men (including myself) is that our lives are so boring/shit that we’d do anything to get that hit of dopamine even if that means going back to an ex instead of putting in the hard work and fixing our lives the proper way.

Also, i get it, memories are precious and they’ll likely stick with us forever, trust me there are days when i keep thinking about the past and how comforting and nice it was. But that’s just the brain acting up. We should be able to control our brain/emotions otherwise we’re basically women with dicks. Memories should stay just that, memories. They shouldn’t have power on our decision making

 

[registerfasterusing]

theres this site where you can write anonymous letters to people and she reposted a video of that site.

i checked it out and she wrote like 4 messages there that i know are directed towards me.
(our inside jokes and the things we would call eachother that only we would know).


I've made a thread about this and people said i shouldn't because it's low T but FUCK i miss her so badly...

NEVER

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Memories and experiences and knowledge are the things you put throught the rational thinking machine to make decisions. They are the only thing that has power over our so called decision making.

When it comes to emotional memories they shouldn’t. Feel feel to disagree, that’s my opinion

 

[оrg]

You basically cucked her boyfriend

yea i felt high T hearing her talk about him and then i started making fun of him too. she aint even stop me. brutal

 

[оrg]

isn’t that first paragraph (a bit) contradicting? If you were really completely independent, you wouldn’t feel the need to have someone in your life, more so someone who betrayed you once already, i mean when you reach that inner peace, it’s more likely you’d wanna stay single because it’s pretty certain that women will ruin that peace with their constant drama and emotional play.

Being single sucks for sure, trust me i know it and i have no fucking friends either so i am all alone, the problem i see with most men (including myself) is that our lives are so boring/shit that we’d do anything to get that hit of dopamine even if that means going back to an ex instead of putting in the hard work and fixing our lives the proper way.

Also, i get it, memories are precious and they’ll likely stick with us forever, trust me there are days when i keep thinking about the past and how comforting and nice it was. But that’s just the brain acting up. We should be able to control our brain/emotions otherwise we’re basically women with dicks. Memories should stay just that, memories. They shouldn’t have power on our decision making

honestly i see it as a bonus. we are social creatures afterall and we NEED other people. i guess i could've said im MORE dependant but i mean i kinda see it as a bonus