should i text my ex....

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

absolutely agree with your last point. and i also wanna say I've done a 180 and im not who i was before. sounds cringe but i feel like it's true. my problem was that i NEEDED someone to be with me for me to be happy on the day to day basis. but nowadays in completely independent. the reason why i wanted to go back is because we share years of experience with eachother and so many memories.

+ I don't wanna be single anymore..this shit is fucking tragic it makes you go insane.

and yea i would advise to anyone that they have to fix themselves and love themselves before loving anyone because that's what's most important for you and the people around you.

anxious to avoidant attacher transformation.

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

They shouldn’t have power on our decision making

Memories and experiences and knowledge are the things you put throught the rational thinking machine to make decisions. They are the only thing that has power over our so called decision making.

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Memories and experiences and knowledge are the things you put throught the rational thinking machine to make decisions. They are the only thing that has power over our so called decision making.

When it comes to emotional memories they shouldn’t. Feel feel to disagree, that’s my opinion

 

[barambo]

You basically cucked her boyfriend

yea i felt high T hearing her talk about him and then i started making fun of him too. she aint even stop me. brutal

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

When it comes to emotional memories they shouldn’t. Feel feel to disagree, that’s my opinion

Ofcourse these are biased, but i don't think they should hold 0 power. You should be aware why you are making decisions and should be well informed and so on. But if that is the case making decisions based on emotional experiences is appropriate.
I don't disagree with you 100% tho. But i do feel feel to disagree a little bit.

 

[barambo]

isn’t that first paragraph (a bit) contradicting? If you were really completely independent, you wouldn’t feel the need to have someone in your life, more so someone who betrayed you once already, i mean when you reach that inner peace, it’s more likely you’d wanna stay single because it’s pretty certain that women will ruin that peace with their constant drama and emotional play.

Being single sucks for sure, trust me i know it and i have no fucking friends either so i am all alone, the problem i see with most men (including myself) is that our lives are so boring/shit that we’d do anything to get that hit of dopamine even if that means going back to an ex instead of putting in the hard work and fixing our lives the proper way.

Also, i get it, memories are precious and they’ll likely stick with us forever, trust me there are days when i keep thinking about the past and how comforting and nice it was. But that’s just the brain acting up. We should be able to control our brain/emotions otherwise we’re basically women with dicks. Memories should stay just that, memories. They shouldn’t have power on our decision making

honestly i see it as a bonus. we are social creatures afterall and we NEED other people. i guess i could've said im MORE dependant but i mean i kinda see it as a bonus

 

[barambo]

anxious to avoidant attacher transformation

oh god the first bit of research ive done on something in my life was that avoidant attachment shit. when i was tryina figure out why she left

 

[barambo]

holy shit bro, im so happy for you, i actually shed a tear. I was bout to attach a pic, but my phone died.

ur bio real asf bhai

Memories and experiences and knowledge are the things you put throught the rational thinking machine to make decisions. They are the only thing that has power over our so called decision making.

absolutely. afterall being single for some time is okay but being lonely eats you from the inside. genuenly thank you for pushing me to text her i would have not texted her otherwise

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

oh god the first bit of research ive done on something in my life was that avoidant attachment shit. when i was tryina figure out why she left

Interesting ig. I only recently heard or did some research if you wanna call it that into all of these attachment styles only to realize im insanely anxiously attached. Now that i am aware of it tho, it's getting better and better.
Still when we don't talk for a few days i become an insufferable and depressed rotter.
I am fully dependent on them for my mental wellbeing.

 

[registerfasterusing]

How does this ugly fuck do better than me

 

[barambo]

Interesting ig. I only recently heard or did some research if you wanna call it that into all of these attachment styles only to realize im insanely anxiously attached. Now that i am aware of it tho, it's getting better and better.
Still when we don't talk for a few days i become an insufferable and depressed rotter.
I am fully dependent on them for my mental wellbeing.

so fucking real. yea i completely get that man... and realising what's wrong is so fire you've basically fixed 50% of it once you KNOW whats going on in your head.

 

[barambo]

How does this ugly fuck do better than me

 

[barambo]

How does this ugly fuck do better than me

she not that crazy m-hmtb

 

[registerfasterusing]

At least I have a maxilla

 

[registerfasterusing]

she not that crazy m-hmtb

Are u normal

 

[barambo]

At least I have a maxilla

true untill i germanymaxx and get implabts or surgery

 

[barambo]

Are u normal

well no but she likes that

 

[registerfasterusing]

well no but she likes that

I dont believe u
U must at least be charismatic

 

[barambo]

Are u normal

i basically cucked her "boyfriend" in a day and from what I've heard he's ntmaxxed

 

[barambo]

I dont believe u
U must at least be charismatic

i built it with her because i started talking to her online. i couldn't go up to someone irl but once i KNOW someone i release that side of me

 

[registerfasterusing]

i basically cucked her "boyfriend" in a day and from what I've heard he's ntmaxxed

What do u have going for u then

 

[barambo]

What do u have going for u then

idk i guess i know how to hit a sweet spot. growing up alone made me look at people and study them instead of engaging and that helped

 

[registerfasterusing]

idk i guess i know how to hit a sweet spot. growing up alone made me look at people and study them instead of engaging and that helped

Ur lucky

 

[barambo]

Ur lucky

you can be too bhai

 

[registerfasterusing]

you can be too bhai

No its too late

 

[barambo]

No its too late

 

[registerfasterusing]

God

 

[barambo]

God

u look good bro u got it

 

[Arisylva]

dew it nigger why are you asking

 

[registerfasterusing]

u look good bro u got it

Well clearly looks dont matter

 

[barambo]

Well clearly looks dont matter

i gymmed and she liked it

 

[registerfasterusing]

i gymmed and she liked it

No she liked ur personality

 

[kingofkings]

Apart from my first ever ex I had, every single ex has come crawling back to me sooner or later wanting to reconcile/reconnect.

Most were a few weeks, but a couple took well over a year. One was even years and years later. But it always happened.

And the trick is not to be a little bitch when you break up. Whether I was the dumper or the dumpee I would simply ghost their ass and I felt nothing because I knew sooner or later they would be back. That was always my mistake with my first ex, I was a bitch about it, begged, got mad, hounded them etc. Nothing and I mean FUCKING NOTHING, shakes a bitch to her core when you just move on instantly like she's a speck of dust. It drives them crazy in the end.

The funny thing is, it's often the case by the time they come back you just don't give a shit anymore. Sometimes though it comes in clutch if you're horny or did miss them.

Disclaimer - this patented, trademarked KingOfKings system only works if you have insane willpower and you also had them deeply in love with you. You need to have treated them well and made a real mark on their soul, because the key to them coming back is the good memories. If you was a shit bf then disregard everything

 

[barambo]

Apart from my first ever ex I had, every single ex has come crawling back to me sooner or later wanting to reconcile/reconnect.

Most were a few weeks, but a couple took well over a year. One was even years and years later. But it always happened.

And the trick is not to be a little bitch when you break up. Whether I was the dumper or the dumpee I would simply ghost their ass and I felt nothing because I knew sooner or later they would be back. That was always my mistake with my first ex, I was a bitch about it, begged, got mad, hounded them etc. Nothing and I mean FUCKING NOTHING, shakes a bitch to her core when you just move on instantly like she's a speck of dust. It drives them crazy in the end.

The funny thing is, it's often the case by the time they come back you just don't give a shit anymore. Sometimes though it comes in clutch if you're horny or did miss them.

Disclaimer - this patented, trademarked KingOfKings system only works if you have insane willpower and you also had them deeply in love with you. You need to have treated them well and made a real mark on their soul, because the key to them coming back is the good memories. If you was a shit bf then disregard everything

absolutely amazingly put.

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

so fucking real. yea i completely get that man... and realising what's wrong is so fire you've basically fixed 50% of it once you KNOW whats going on in your head.

awareness is always the first step to fixing anything.

 

[barambo]

Well clearly looks dont matter

this bih just told me she likes my big nose and that smaller ones "look gay". yo im questioning shit atp.