
6’3 chad
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This is so relatable, we need help. Its over for late bloomers like us.i already approached girls 1.5 years ago, all i got was No’s and some insta but they all never replied to my first text.
That probably made me feel really bad and self conscious.
Also i did it only cuz i was drunk, and at that time i was less good looking but at the same time more low inhib because of gym and 12% bf.
Nowadays i’m scared af of approaching, since i don’t smoke or drink anymore i can really do it sober cuz i’m too high inhib and my heart start bumping Hard af and i start trembling like a bitch.
Also i wouldn’t know what to tell them, let’s say i get an IOI and the girl looks at me for a long period of time. I would be scared to hold eye contact and it would feel weird af.
Let’s i get my self together and go there, the only thing i would tell her is: Hi i found you really cute, can i get your insta?
Let’s say she says yes, the moment she gets my insta is over.
I never posted shit in there and i have 200 followers. Never been so over.
I’m always scared of following new people or posting my self because i’ve been bullied severely during my college and first years of highschool.
It’s so over for people who get bullied during their teen years, even tho i ascended since i was a kid it’s over anyways cuz the damage is done.
I will try to approach next time i get an obvious IOI, but i’m really not looking forward to approaching or getting a gf until i’m fully softnaxxed
