slayer69
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Confusing betabuxx for a cuck, having weird relationship dynamics, etc.
I don’t blame any of you guys. You guys didn’t have strong moral people blackpilling you.
So I will clear up any query or idea of a “normal”, “functioning”, “healthy” relationship.
And no healthy is not when you and her together decide important life decisions.
Here’s what you should at least expect from a relationship:
- she needs to love you. You need to be the man she wants, and wants to depend on.
Yes hard to come across, rare in 2022, of course, but it is what you ideally need to be trying to achieve
- She needs to have Your best interests in mind. Not hers. What do I mean by this?
She needs to start thinking herself as a part of you. She depends on you after all. So that means, she has to act In the best interest of you. “Oh will this help my boyfriend achieve his goal?”, “oh but will this make him happy and progress our relationship?”.
Yes she can have her own interests but usually girls can put that aside. And You should alike think about both of you, however put yourself, as the man, first.
- You need to be commanding as the man.
And by this I don’t mean, telling her to fuck off when she gives her opinion but rather explaining to her, as to why your decision is better. She is YOUR girlfriend son, YOUR companion, is gonna be with YOU. Make sure she understands. When a girlfriend disagrees it’s not because she hates ur decision but because she is misunderstanding where u r coming from.
Sometimes u will get iqmogged if u r retarded, in which case u should retract your decision immediately before making yourself look like an absolute clown.
Here’s what NOT TO EXPECT:
- her threatening you to leave her if u don’t buy her xyz
- her flirting with other dudes right in front of you
- her talking about u r worthless or even joking about it to friends
- her driving your life ambition (absolute fucking no to this)
- you prying and giving into her petty reasons
- her blackmailing you because you did something stupid
- not forgiving each other when one asks sorry.
There’s a lot more but this should give a basic idea.
Ask me if u have any question.
I don’t blame any of you guys. You guys didn’t have strong moral people blackpilling you.
So I will clear up any query or idea of a “normal”, “functioning”, “healthy” relationship.
And no healthy is not when you and her together decide important life decisions.
Here’s what you should at least expect from a relationship:
- she needs to love you. You need to be the man she wants, and wants to depend on.
Yes hard to come across, rare in 2022, of course, but it is what you ideally need to be trying to achieve
- She needs to have Your best interests in mind. Not hers. What do I mean by this?
She needs to start thinking herself as a part of you. She depends on you after all. So that means, she has to act In the best interest of you. “Oh will this help my boyfriend achieve his goal?”, “oh but will this make him happy and progress our relationship?”.
Yes she can have her own interests but usually girls can put that aside. And You should alike think about both of you, however put yourself, as the man, first.
- You need to be commanding as the man.
And by this I don’t mean, telling her to fuck off when she gives her opinion but rather explaining to her, as to why your decision is better. She is YOUR girlfriend son, YOUR companion, is gonna be with YOU. Make sure she understands. When a girlfriend disagrees it’s not because she hates ur decision but because she is misunderstanding where u r coming from.
Sometimes u will get iqmogged if u r retarded, in which case u should retract your decision immediately before making yourself look like an absolute clown.
Here’s what NOT TO EXPECT:
- her threatening you to leave her if u don’t buy her xyz
- her flirting with other dudes right in front of you
- her talking about u r worthless or even joking about it to friends
- her driving your life ambition (absolute fucking no to this)
- you prying and giving into her petty reasons
- her blackmailing you because you did something stupid
- not forgiving each other when one asks sorry.
There’s a lot more but this should give a basic idea.
Ask me if u have any question.