Social Circle Check (everyone gtfih & vote)

[Brus Wane]

Some poster shared this article and it got me thinking... https://www.google.com/amp/s/thehil...-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/

Everyone knows that more women are in relationships vs men. Super water at this point.
Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men.
This has been repeated ad nauseam here.

But did you guys know men are getting fucked in social circles too?
Fifteen percent of men report having no close friendships, a fivefold increase from 1990, according to research by the Survey Center on American Life.
I kinda thought about it from time to time but I figured it was just me.

The first phenomenon is obvious. Women are all fucking the same guys and so the bottom two-thirds or so get little to no play.

But why the fuck are guys not hanging out with each other more? (No homo)

Social circles have been shrinking for men and women, especially since the pandemic, but men struggle more. Thirty years ago, 55 percent of men reported having six or more close friends. By 2021, that share had slipped to 27 percent.

This is one of the reasons...

“Guys are taught to prioritize career,” Karo said. “Also romantic relationships, although it doesn’t seem like they’re doing a very good job at that. Making friends and keeping friends seems to be a lower priority. And once guys get older, they suddenly realize they have no friends.”

This journalist's take just doesn't cut it for me. Sounds like gaslighting tbhngl.

It's really just brutal how positive reinforcement you get as a kid can really shape how you do in future.
Positive feedback and reinforcement that women get by default that men do not in this day and age.

At least that's the reason I'm going with. Am I just coping and blaming it on soyciety?

Call it the positivefeedbackpill if you will.

Are you guys experiencing this too?

 

[Deleted member 23558]

i cant stand people longer than 10 mins even if i like them (as much as it is possible to like normies).

 

[Deleted member 16275]

i cant stand people longer than 10 mins even if i like them

Y?

 

[Deleted member 23558]

Y?

burned out dopamine from not being a Loox God and a fat cuck

 

[Deleted member 16275]

burned out dopamine from not being a Loox God and a fat cuck

What psl you hope to reach?

 

[Deleted member 21736]

i was isolated from my many close friends and brothers because my dumb parents decided to move. i missed out on the highschool experience. i am stuck at a shitty town with weird people. i am fucked.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

What psl you hope to reach?

just an average gl dude

 

[Deleted member 23558]

i was isolated from my many close friends and brothers because my dumb parents decided to move. i missed out on the highschool experience. i am stuck at a shitty town with weird people. i am fucked.

towns mog city imo more countryside to explore and ltrs can be fun, i wish to move to kodai for a month or two for this reason, high altitude and nature good for health plus shrooms and im hoping a lay or two

 

[Brus Wane]

i cant stand people longer than 10 mins even if i like them (as much as it is possible to like normies).

I fucking hate normies tbh

i was isolated from my many close friends and brothers because my dumb parents decided to move. i missed out on the highschool experience. i am stuck at a shitty town with weird people. i am fucked.

Sorry to hear that Bhai
Missing out on that one time in life where everyone around you is still somewhat innocent and least likely to judge you is brutal.
I was morbidly obese throughout highschool and was brutally bullied & abused. Needless to say I had no friends and only hung out with fellow losers.
I dropped to a normie weight just before college but by then my head was totally fucked. No confidence or social skills and kept to myself for the most part, only hanging out with losers and social outcast and inevitably becoming one again. Fuck this clown world.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

I have one true friend and 500 pseudo-friends.
I often times feel like Patrick Bateman from the film American Psycho (2000).

 

[Brus Wane]

I have one true friend and 500 pseudo-friends.
I often times feel like Patrick Bateman from the film American Psycho (2000).

No cap istg PatrickBatemanmaxxing might be the only way to cope with goyciety.
The movie is meant to criticize the materialism of the corporate world of the 80s (at least that's what I took away) but the world I see today is no different wtf.
It's all about looks, money and popularity and thats it. Increasingly shallow, vicious and vapid normies don't give me much confidence in the future.

 

[dimorphism]

I'm sad tier

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

No cap istg PatrickBatemanmaxxing might be the only way to cope with goyciety.
The movie is meant to criticize the materialism of the corporate world of the 80s (at least that's what I took away) but the world I see today is no different wtf.
It's all about looks, money and popularity and thats it. Increasingly shallow, vicious and vapid normies don't give me much confidence in the future.

Ironically enough, the film also became an icon of corporatism, as it became a hyper-popular meme that was used often in advertising and such.
I hate modernity.

 

[Brus Wane]

I'm sad tier

Ngl I'm somewhat encouraged that most brocels voted for good tier.
Bare minimum to make this miserable existence bearable is meh tier.
Good luck broski.

Ironically enough, the film also became an icon of corporatism, as it became a hyper-popular meme that was used often in advertising and such.
I hate modernity.
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Lmao jfl at making a movie to criticise a person/industry and you actually have people admiring the "psycho" in it, turning it into a meme.
It's a bit like 1987's Wall Street where everyone ends up mirin Gordon Gekko.
Even the actor Mike Douglas was stunned by it.
Same will happen to DiCaprio's wolf of wall street.
IDC anymore though , the older I get the more I relate to Bateman.
Batemanmaxx or death. At least he's thin & rich with social validation.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

Lmao jfl at making a movie to criticise a person/industry and you actually have people admiring the "psycho" in it, turning it into a meme.
It's a bit like 1987's Wall Street where everyone ends up mirin Gordon Gekko.
Even the actor Mike Douglas was stunned by it.
Same will happen to DiCaprio's wolf of wall street.
IDC anymore though , the older I get the more I relate to Bateman.
Batemanmaxx or death. At least he's thin & rich with social validation.

I've given up on cinema. All the pseuds and the supposed auteurs are all brainless ideologues. Actors are rarely invested in their craft. All that remains of the City of Dreams is but the name "Hollywood".
Hug all Jews (in Minecraft).

 

[Brus Wane]

I've given up on cinema. All the pseuds and the supposed auteurs are all brainless ideologues. Actors are rarely invested in their craft. All that remains of the City of Dreams is but the name "Hollywood".
Hug all Jews (in Minecraft).
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Holy shit gigagaslight galore if true

Dude how I wish it was just cinema
According to the Jewish Virtual Library, since the Nobel was first awarded in 1901 approximately 193 of the 855 honorees have been Jewish (22%). Jews make up less than 0.2% of the global population.
JFL at anyone in the West not shabbosgoymaxxing

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

JFL at anyone in the West not shabbosgoymaxxing

Churchill was the best goy of them all

 

[Brus Wane]

Churchill was the best goy of them all

What a mensch
Took out 3.8million curries too

 

[Vain786]

few cloes friends thats all u need nibbas

everyone eles i can manipulate and lie to

 

[Brus Wane]

few cloes friends thats all u need nibbas

everyone eles i can manipulate and lie to

Machiavellimaxxing or death yakhi

 

[Deleted member 21736]

I have one true friend and 500 pseudo-friends.
I often times feel like Patrick Bateman from the film American Psycho (2000).

batemanmaxxing is legit. but i wish i didnt had to do it in first place.

 

[Deleted member 21736]

Machiavellimaxxing or death yakhi

yessir. and there is nothing wrong with it as many normies say. you cant have the correct moral code all the time. if the masses have generally good morals then sometimes doing bad stuff wont affect society therefore wont bother you.

 

[Brus Wane]

if the masses have generally good morals then sometimes doing bad stuff wont affect society therefore wont bother you.

What do you mean by this ?

But yeah NicMachiavelli was fucking based. Top G in my opinion.
His point was that a leader can't have morals or ethics if he wants his state to succeed.
I'd dare make the argument that today the average person can't have morals or ethics if they want to survive.

 

[Deleted member 19036]

batemanmaxxing is legit. but i wish i didnt had to do it in first place.

tf is that?

 

[Deleted member 21736]

What do you mean by this ?

normies say that even one persons behavior can make a big impact in a community and effect that person

but in order to effect that person, everyone has to do it

lets say i steal shit, but make sure no one ever steals from me. then im technically fine. but if i say that stealing and acting selfishly is fine, everyone will do it and at some time i will get stolen from too

so it is good that narcism and machiavelism traits are looked bad by the mass normies, that leaves us room to use narcism and machiavelism to benefit ourselves without someone doing it to us

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Somehow it's pretty good for me, I can fake NTness which actually translates into me becoming more NT every day and when I'm on nofap I become more low inhib.
In general "just be yourself bro" theory is true for making friends but not so much for getting foids

 

[Deleted member 21736]

tf is that?

im saying that i wish people didnt treat me like shit and i wasnt this lonely that i had to act kinda narcist and machiavelist

because all my life i was a super nice caring person, but the last 2 years i have been super lonely so i feel like acting bad to people in general

 

[Brus Wane]

I can fake NTness which actually translates into me becoming more NT every day

Mirin hard my nigga

In general "just be yourself bro" theory is true for making friends but not so much for getting foids

Only to a certain extent imo.
Guess it all depends on the circle you're trying to break into I suppose...

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Mirin hard my nigga


Only to a certain extent imo.
Guess it all depends on the circle you're trying to break into I suppose...

True, I don't have to fake NTness with my close friends they probably know I'm mentally ill or some shit but they love me but for normies or people at my jobs then I fake it sometimes although most people fake some level of NTness in their lives to get by I think

 

[Deleted member 19036]

im saying that i wish people didnt treat me like shit and i wasnt this lonely that i had to act kinda narcist and machiavelist

because all my life i was a super nice caring person, but the last 2 years i have been super lonely so i feel like acting bad to people in general

my life story is no different than yours. you gotta be machiavelist inside (if you look psychotic/antisocial it will slowly cause your social suicide) and treat people (that treat you with no emotions) the same. no matter what you gotta be postiive and uplifted as a man, you gotta set your charisma up but you also gotta look tamed and not like you got anger issues or some shit.

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Mirin hard my nigga


Only to a certain extent imo.
Guess it all depends on the circle you're trying to break into I suppose...

I gotta say tho none of my friends are chads or people that go to the club a lot. Some smoke weed and do alcohol sometimes but that's about it. And of course no female friends

 

[Brus Wane]

for normies or people at my jobs then I fake it sometimes although most people fake some level of NTness in their lives to get by I think

I wish my faking skills were better it would have done me so much more good. I've heard of people doing well in sales just by being super NT & charismatic eg. Watches, boats, real estate

I gotta say tho none of my friends are chads or people that go to the club a lot. Some smoke weed and do alcohol sometimes but that's about it. And of course no female friends

As long as you have a highly trustworthy fairly big circle I envy you bhai

it is good that narcism and machiavelism traits are looked bad by the mass normies, that leaves us room to use narcism and machiavelism to benefit ourselves without someone doing it to us

Yeah I think normies just look badly on these "evil" traits just for the sake of it tbh
I've found that normies are really vicious people and some are very good at hiding it
At this point I'm like immoral = normie frfr no cap on god

 

[Deleted member 19036]

normies say that even one persons behavior can make a big impact in a community and effect that person

but in order to effect that person, everyone has to do it

lets say i steal shit, but make sure no one ever steals from me. then im technically fine. but if i say that stealing and acting selfishly is fine, everyone will do it and at some time i will get stolen from too

so it is good that narcism and machiavelism traits are looked bad by the mass normies, that leaves us room to use narcism and machiavelism to benefit ourselves without someone doing it to us

as someone been 24/7 outside 2 years ago, i would say that normies CLAIM TO look at those traits negatively. Also their selfishness is diffrent then our selfishness (scientific narcism), while a wise guy act on his benefits, normies usually act SELFISH for the sake of being selfish (for fun and to try dominating people around them).

tldr: scientific narcissm (real narccsim): is not that esay to spot unlike normie selfishness that they do for fun and not to reach their goals

 

[cytoplasm]

Havent had a friend in almost 6 yrs jfl

 

[Deleted member 21628]

0 for me

but it dont bother me really

 

[Brus Wane]

normies usually act SELFISH for the sake of being selfish (for fun and to try dominating people around them)

That is absolutely disgusting and they get away with it most times if they have looks, money & status. If you call them out, they gaslight you or get aggressive.

 

[Solar]

0 irl