qero
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So I'm moving schools soon, and nobody there will know my past and who I was before. Over the past year I've had a huge glow up, and went from being 60kg, way shorter, chopped, pulling no girls to now being 78kg~, 189cm / 6'2, way better looking, and pull girls quite often.
The problem I'm facing is I'm quite introverted when it comes to talking to girls. A year ago my social skills overall were awful, and I was insecure so wouldn't even talk much. Now, I've gained way more confidence and can have regular conversations, but I don't have any female friends.
I don't believe that the issue is my looks, build or my height, as I'm 6'2 at 15, which I'd consider pretty tall, as for looks, I get complimented often about my looks(mostly from guys saying I 'mog'), although I never got an official rating on any websites, I'd say im, around hmtn - lhtn, and never got rejected by a girl(i never asked one out), and still have work to do. My build is also pretty decent, considering I lift and do other sorts of cardio up to 7x a week such as swimming.
So now summing up this yap, I need suggestions on how I can improve my social skills when talking to girls, and maybe actually shoot my shot first rather than waiting for the girl to do so. I've been watching some videos on youtube for example of people cold approaching girls, and follow some coaches that specialize in that sector, but haven't seen much improvement.
The problem I'm facing is I'm quite introverted when it comes to talking to girls. A year ago my social skills overall were awful, and I was insecure so wouldn't even talk much. Now, I've gained way more confidence and can have regular conversations, but I don't have any female friends.
I don't believe that the issue is my looks, build or my height, as I'm 6'2 at 15, which I'd consider pretty tall, as for looks, I get complimented often about my looks(mostly from guys saying I 'mog'), although I never got an official rating on any websites, I'd say im, around hmtn - lhtn, and never got rejected by a girl(i never asked one out), and still have work to do. My build is also pretty decent, considering I lift and do other sorts of cardio up to 7x a week such as swimming.
So now summing up this yap, I need suggestions on how I can improve my social skills when talking to girls, and maybe actually shoot my shot first rather than waiting for the girl to do so. I've been watching some videos on youtube for example of people cold approaching girls, and follow some coaches that specialize in that sector, but haven't seen much improvement.
