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the consequences of being autistic or narcy are imo more often than not entirely mental
how much of confidence is just deploying assertive and risky behavior independently of the preceived success rate? and how is being a sperg with no notion of this calculation and a complete obliviousness of how they come off much different from this?
nkwells getting one negative outcome and stewing on it forever and ever internalizing he's a loser or better at least is picking and choosing when to shoot their shot in a manner that's way too inhibited
too much introspection and being susceptible to feelings of embarrassment are not useful and result in too much inhibition and a terribel fear of being "cringy"
unless you're doing it all in the same pond don't be afraid imo to be cringy or to come off as presumptuous
i suspect that if ur avg incel were turned into some chad and had all their memories they would never leave the house and be horribly wracked with embarrassment (though chad is probably reasonable and not delusional but my point is that anyone who is actively social is inevitably getting negative outcomes that they brush off)
these are the people who apply to jobs theyre not qualified who just keep learning stuff on the spot. im convinced everyone knows people like this who are much more successful than them esp if they work in a business or consulting related field
how much of confidence is just deploying assertive and risky behavior independently of the preceived success rate? and how is being a sperg with no notion of this calculation and a complete obliviousness of how they come off much different from this?
nkwells getting one negative outcome and stewing on it forever and ever internalizing he's a loser or better at least is picking and choosing when to shoot their shot in a manner that's way too inhibited
too much introspection and being susceptible to feelings of embarrassment are not useful and result in too much inhibition and a terribel fear of being "cringy"
unless you're doing it all in the same pond don't be afraid imo to be cringy or to come off as presumptuous
i suspect that if ur avg incel were turned into some chad and had all their memories they would never leave the house and be horribly wracked with embarrassment (though chad is probably reasonable and not delusional but my point is that anyone who is actively social is inevitably getting negative outcomes that they brush off)
these are the people who apply to jobs theyre not qualified who just keep learning stuff on the spot. im convinced everyone knows people like this who are much more successful than them esp if they work in a business or consulting related field
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