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This water post is not meant for people searching for a girlfriend, even though some of the knowledge can be used to understanding women you want to have a relationship with.
This is a post for guys who are in a relationship and want to make it last while minimizing the chances of getting cheated on, disrespected and humiliated.
A necessary note: You will never beat women’s nature. The richest, strongest, smartest and most handsome men in the world got cheated on. Hypergamy is an untamable beast and you can only learn how to reduce the damages it does to you, to your romantic future and your mental wellness.
1 - Gifts out of love, should you do them?
In the beginning, yes.
Women are very appreciative of gifts at the start of the relationship, when the infatuation is still strong.
If in the first 2/3 months you feel like buying a beautiful bouquet, feel free to do so. But when you do it once, that’s about it.
Recurring flowers will simply give you less and less of the reaction you’d like.
Even tho you normally don’t give flowers to obtain something in return, receiving just a stone cold “thank you” ain’t something I’d look forward to.
Here’s a quick tip:
Next time you find yourself with an urge to buy her flowers, ghost her for 3/4 days.
Don’t answer for half a week, and then reappear by sending a reel, or randomly calling her or going to her house or something. Bonus point if something in you has changed in these days like maybe a fresh haircut, a black eye or a new shirt.
I can promise you, by doing this you will receive from her what you thought you were gonna receive for buying flowers.
Once the 2/3 initial months pass, you should only buy gifts at events like her birthday, valentine and once a year for your anniversary. I’d even suggest to not spend too much time thinking about what gift and how much to spend. It is case dependent, but for majority of the times you could go at Sephora and ask the employee for helping create a basket.
2 - You have to prove your SMV almost daily
Here we start with harder topics, for some to hear and for me to explain.
Let’s say you’re a LTN who got lucky and managed to get a girlfriend. If this for you is a rare occurence and you don’t have roasters of girls in your day to day life, it might be already over.
Women NEED to see other girls wanting you.
It’s like the story of the rich getting richer. If you are HTN+ your relationship has already a layer of safety cause your face alone is an indication of women wanting you.
The other side of the coin is that the poor gets poorer and if you don’t act up fast you will soon get broken up with or cheated on.
What to do?
Well, you’re basically asking how to get women so it needs an entire different post. Just looksmax bro.
Continuing the topic; I am not saying you should actively look forward to cheat on your girlfriend. However if the opportunity present itself, just take it. Don’t make the mistake I did of saying “This is evil, she doesn’t deserve it”.
Just do it. You don’t get caught? Good.
Got caught? Even better. Just make sure the girl’s beauty matches or fogs your girlfriend’s.
I know a person that married for the second time her husband after he cheated on her.
It is fucked up but women are incredibly prone to liking you more if you cheat, as it’s the ultimate SMV proof.
3 - You have to get rid of jealousy and stoicismaxx
There is no reason to focus on what you can’t control.
I am a very jealous person and that always ends bad. Why? Because women would rather die than let go of their potential.
You will be attacked, not only by your girlfriend but by the whole womansphere hivemind if you try to block her from potentially finding a better man (= better looking).
They will first attack your persona by calling you insecure, weak and controlling. And then, if you are determined to stop her potential, she will play the ultimate cards which are simply cheating or leaving you, or both.
Examples:
“I don’t see much reason for you to post your ass in bikini on instagram if we are together” → you are stopping a potential like / notice from a Chad ← “Stop being insecure”.
“Could you cover up as it’s not only embarrassing but also dangerous to go out at night with an outfit so revealing?” → potentially stopping a Chad glancing at her on the streets ← “You are too controlling”
“I don’t feel comfortable with you constantly interacting with your male coworkers” → stopping her from flirting with Chad ← Cheats on you with him.
This to me is one of the saddest points, because once your girl has her mind on another dude you can do nothing about it but let it be. You could save the situation by cheating before her, but still, the rage and emotions this will provoke on her will probably get you cheated on as a revenge either way, so it’s just over. You simply have to mog enough for her not wanting other men attention.
So since there is nothing you can do to have basic respect, choose to not spike your cortisol and let her do her thing.
4 - Always stay detached, even though is hard
This is water but also fundamental. Try to not get your feelings too much involved.
The best relationships I had (when I used to have a streak of gfs as a teenager thanks to lower hypergamy at the time) where dynamics in which I was simply not emotionally involved, as a matter of fact I cheated on all of them, I don’t remember living a bad day at the times.
Now in my 20s I fell in love for the first time in my life and I chose to “be better”, I loved her with my heart and essentially did the exact opposite of what this post is now suggesting you. You could guess how that ended.
I know this life is hard and that you probably are a sensitive ltn boy full of love to give. But it’s time to realize that this love has no way of being shown to another human, except maybe children, but then again, to have kids you should marry someone as unpredictable and hypergamous as a woman.
Reserve your love for yourself (so you don’t ropemaxx), for animals, and maybe a couple of friends.
5 - Never open up
Saying men don’t have a space to open up in this society is a no brainer take. Some dudes think that their girlfriend could / should be the one to support them and handle their emotions. If you think like this you are actually retarded.
It was literally studied and researched the fact that even your therapist (especially if it’s a female) has difficulties handling men’s emotions. You DON’T have a place in this world to freely say what you feel cause you either gonna be deemed as an incel, or a raging dangerous individual.
You have the org. Use it. If you feel like roping or you are depressed just open up here. Yea even here it’s not the best cause it’s full of rotted braindeads that spend all day online, but among them you will find people who support you.
Your foid disrespects you? Come here and talk about it and some fag will make you laugh, so you will also cool down and appear detached towards her (point 4)
If you feel like crying in front of your girl, know that you have one time use max to do it. And it must be on an important event (death of someone close to you for example).
Remember that all you are doing is to emulate the life a Chad lives daily nonchalantly. Can you imagine Chad rotting on forums and raging about how much his life sucks? Or how he wants his ltb to stop talking to her ltn / mtn coworker? No? well neither can your gf. You have to act as close as possible to a Chad minus his looks.
You are doing this to maintain the idealized version she made of you.
Remember that women create a perfect vision of the dream man (a chad) when they are 14 and they never grow out of it
This is a post for guys who are in a relationship and want to make it last while minimizing the chances of getting cheated on, disrespected and humiliated.
A necessary note: You will never beat women’s nature. The richest, strongest, smartest and most handsome men in the world got cheated on. Hypergamy is an untamable beast and you can only learn how to reduce the damages it does to you, to your romantic future and your mental wellness.
1 - Gifts out of love, should you do them?
In the beginning, yes.
Women are very appreciative of gifts at the start of the relationship, when the infatuation is still strong.
If in the first 2/3 months you feel like buying a beautiful bouquet, feel free to do so. But when you do it once, that’s about it.
Recurring flowers will simply give you less and less of the reaction you’d like.
Even tho you normally don’t give flowers to obtain something in return, receiving just a stone cold “thank you” ain’t something I’d look forward to.
Here’s a quick tip:
Next time you find yourself with an urge to buy her flowers, ghost her for 3/4 days.
Don’t answer for half a week, and then reappear by sending a reel, or randomly calling her or going to her house or something. Bonus point if something in you has changed in these days like maybe a fresh haircut, a black eye or a new shirt.
I can promise you, by doing this you will receive from her what you thought you were gonna receive for buying flowers.
Once the 2/3 initial months pass, you should only buy gifts at events like her birthday, valentine and once a year for your anniversary. I’d even suggest to not spend too much time thinking about what gift and how much to spend. It is case dependent, but for majority of the times you could go at Sephora and ask the employee for helping create a basket.
2 - You have to prove your SMV almost daily
Here we start with harder topics, for some to hear and for me to explain.
Let’s say you’re a LTN who got lucky and managed to get a girlfriend. If this for you is a rare occurence and you don’t have roasters of girls in your day to day life, it might be already over.
Women NEED to see other girls wanting you.
It’s like the story of the rich getting richer. If you are HTN+ your relationship has already a layer of safety cause your face alone is an indication of women wanting you.
The other side of the coin is that the poor gets poorer and if you don’t act up fast you will soon get broken up with or cheated on.
What to do?
Well, you’re basically asking how to get women so it needs an entire different post. Just looksmax bro.
Continuing the topic; I am not saying you should actively look forward to cheat on your girlfriend. However if the opportunity present itself, just take it. Don’t make the mistake I did of saying “This is evil, she doesn’t deserve it”.
Just do it. You don’t get caught? Good.
Got caught? Even better. Just make sure the girl’s beauty matches or fogs your girlfriend’s.
I know a person that married for the second time her husband after he cheated on her.
It is fucked up but women are incredibly prone to liking you more if you cheat, as it’s the ultimate SMV proof.
3 - You have to get rid of jealousy and stoicismaxx
There is no reason to focus on what you can’t control.
I am a very jealous person and that always ends bad. Why? Because women would rather die than let go of their potential.
You will be attacked, not only by your girlfriend but by the whole womansphere hivemind if you try to block her from potentially finding a better man (= better looking).
They will first attack your persona by calling you insecure, weak and controlling. And then, if you are determined to stop her potential, she will play the ultimate cards which are simply cheating or leaving you, or both.
Examples:
“I don’t see much reason for you to post your ass in bikini on instagram if we are together” → you are stopping a potential like / notice from a Chad ← “Stop being insecure”.
“Could you cover up as it’s not only embarrassing but also dangerous to go out at night with an outfit so revealing?” → potentially stopping a Chad glancing at her on the streets ← “You are too controlling”
“I don’t feel comfortable with you constantly interacting with your male coworkers” → stopping her from flirting with Chad ← Cheats on you with him.
This to me is one of the saddest points, because once your girl has her mind on another dude you can do nothing about it but let it be. You could save the situation by cheating before her, but still, the rage and emotions this will provoke on her will probably get you cheated on as a revenge either way, so it’s just over. You simply have to mog enough for her not wanting other men attention.
So since there is nothing you can do to have basic respect, choose to not spike your cortisol and let her do her thing.
4 - Always stay detached, even though is hard
This is water but also fundamental. Try to not get your feelings too much involved.
The best relationships I had (when I used to have a streak of gfs as a teenager thanks to lower hypergamy at the time) where dynamics in which I was simply not emotionally involved, as a matter of fact I cheated on all of them, I don’t remember living a bad day at the times.
Now in my 20s I fell in love for the first time in my life and I chose to “be better”, I loved her with my heart and essentially did the exact opposite of what this post is now suggesting you. You could guess how that ended.
I know this life is hard and that you probably are a sensitive ltn boy full of love to give. But it’s time to realize that this love has no way of being shown to another human, except maybe children, but then again, to have kids you should marry someone as unpredictable and hypergamous as a woman.
Reserve your love for yourself (so you don’t ropemaxx), for animals, and maybe a couple of friends.
5 - Never open up
Saying men don’t have a space to open up in this society is a no brainer take. Some dudes think that their girlfriend could / should be the one to support them and handle their emotions. If you think like this you are actually retarded.
It was literally studied and researched the fact that even your therapist (especially if it’s a female) has difficulties handling men’s emotions. You DON’T have a place in this world to freely say what you feel cause you either gonna be deemed as an incel, or a raging dangerous individual.
You have the org. Use it. If you feel like roping or you are depressed just open up here. Yea even here it’s not the best cause it’s full of rotted braindeads that spend all day online, but among them you will find people who support you.
Your foid disrespects you? Come here and talk about it and some fag will make you laugh, so you will also cool down and appear detached towards her (point 4)
If you feel like crying in front of your girl, know that you have one time use max to do it. And it must be on an important event (death of someone close to you for example).
Remember that all you are doing is to emulate the life a Chad lives daily nonchalantly. Can you imagine Chad rotting on forums and raging about how much his life sucks? Or how he wants his ltb to stop talking to her ltn / mtn coworker? No? well neither can your gf. You have to act as close as possible to a Chad minus his looks.
You are doing this to maintain the idealized version she made of you.
Remember that women create a perfect vision of the dream man (a chad) when they are 14 and they never grow out of it
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