Speed Dating is the best way to meet women

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I've been to two speed dating events now and got two dates from them. I can't believe I didn't find out about this sooner. Let's compare

Tinder:
-Most men barely get any matches, and most matches don't even respond.
-The number of women willing to meet up is even lower jfl

Cold approach:
-Awkward as hell, brutal rejections, many women aren't even single

Speed Dating:
-You get to meet 10+ women face to face immediately. No swiping and and texting for months just to get one woman to meet up.
-No approach anxiety and no awkwardness since the event is organized with 5 minute conversations each. It's usually just chill conversations.
-No brutal rejections. If they reject you they simply don't circle your nickname at the end and you don't get each other's email.
-Very time efficient. In one hour you have more real face to face convos with women than you might meet in months of using dating apps.

Wish I found out about this shit sooner. I'm completely done with clubbing and and dating apps now. I will just go to one speed dating event per week.
 
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My girl will be a virgin 18 years old top 10% face with a fat ass and big tits

Thank u very much
 
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I've been to two speed dating events now and got two dates from them. I can't believe I didn't find out about this sooner. Let's compare

Tinder:
-Most men barely get any matches, and most matches don't even respond.
-The number of women willing to meet up is even lower jfl

Cold approach:
-Awkward as hell, brutal rejections, many women aren't even single

Speed Dating:
-You get to meet 10+ women face to face immediately. No swiping and and texting for months just to get one woman to meet up.
-No approach anxiety and no awkwardness since the event is organized with 5 minute conversations each. It's usually just chill conversations.
-No brutal rejections. If they reject you they simply don't circle your nickname at the end and you don't get each other's email.
-Very time efficient. In one hour you have more real face to face convos with women than you might meet in months of using dating apps.

Wish I found out about this shit sooner. I'm completely done with clubbing and and dating apps now. I will just go to one speed dating event per week.
good idea, then average men can get rejected 10 times faster than usual

speed rejection
 
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Where do u find these events at? It makes sense though theyre alot more lenient with their standards irl
 
good idea, then average men can get rejected 10 times faster than usual

speed rejection
The competition at the speed dating events I went to is very low. Average guy is bald and fat, also some short Indians, not a single chadlite. I'm guessing it draws guys who can't get matches on apps.
 
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Where do u find these events at? It makes sense though theyre alot more lenient with their standards irl
I live in a big city in Europe and there are multiple speed date companies here doing events each week.
 
its a real thing?
 
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The competition at the speed dating events I went to is very low. Average guy is bald and fat, not a single chadlite. I'm guessing it draws guys who can't get matches on apps.
Yeah I worked at events where they had similar things to speed dating and utter subhumans but from both sides literal 40 yo women with 200 bodycount and actual incel basement dwellers who have 0 smv
 
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Yeah I worked at events where they had similar things to speed dating and utter subhumans but from both sides literal 40 yo women with 200 bodycount and actual incel basement dwellers who have 0 smv
So the average male at the events you saw is definitely below average in looks? Cuz I've only been to two so I thought it might just be coincidence.
 
i dont talk with women 11 month
 
its a real thing?
Mark my words, I predict speed dating is going to become the next big things as people give up on the apps.
 
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Yeah I worked at events where they had similar things to speed dating and utter subhumans but from both sides literal 40 yo women with 200 bodycount and actual incel basement dwellers who have 0 smv
oof
 
Mark my words, I predict speed dating is going to become the next big things as people give up on the apps.
i predict non consensual rape will be the next big thang !
 
i dont talk with women 11 month
Exactly. I meet more women in one hour of speed dating than in months of dating apps lmao. Also going clubbing and cold approaching just to get instantly rejected doesn't count as meeting a woman. At the speed dating event the women are literally forced to talk to you.
 
Mark my words, I predict speed dating is going to become the next big things as people give up on the apps.
cant wait:feelshah:
 
ok after i recover from surgery where tf do i sign up
 
do attractive women go to these or is it mostly used up landwhales? lowkey sounds like easy pickings for a looksmaxxer
 
I ended up getting 2 actual dates after shooting my shot with maybe 100 foids at speed dating events

Still better results than apps or meeting foids through day-to-day life
 
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do attractive women go to these or is it mostly used up landwhales? lowkey sounds like easy pickings for a looksmaxxer
There's both types of foids

Yet autism is basically a death sentence for men at speed dating events. Some obese foid with a mustache who looked 50 had the audacity to turn me down (despite being a HTN) just because of neurodivergence

Regardless, I stand by what I said on my last post (speed dating events are still better than apps or meeting foids through day-to-day life)
 
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There's both types of foids

Yet autism is basically a death sentence for men at speed dating events. Some obese foid with a mustache who looked 50 had the audacity to turn me down (despite being a HTN) just because of neurodivergence

Regardless, I stand by what I said on my last post (speed dating events are still better than apps or meeting foids through day-to-day life)
i’ll try it just take 300mg pregab beforehand
 
A perfect way to get rejected 20 times in 1 evening
 
A perfect way to get rejected 20 times in 1 evening
What alternative do you think is better?

Apps: Most men don't even get matches.

Cold approach: just lol

Getting a girl from Tinder to simply meet for coffee can feel like a bigger challenge than climbing Mt. Everest. In speed dating you can meet a bunch of women face to face immediately.
 
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What alternative do you think is better?

Apps: Most men don't even get matches.

Cold approach: just lol

Getting a girl from Tinder to simply meet for coffee can feel like a bigger challenge than climbing Mt. Everest. In speed dating you can meet a bunch of women face to face immediately.
I'd say just approaching outside is better, if that never works then I doubt women speed dating will magically like you
 
What alternative do you think is better?

Apps: Most men don't even get matches.

Cold approach: just lol

Getting a girl from Tinder to simply meet for coffee can feel like a bigger challenge than climbing Mt. Everest. In speed dating you can meet a bunch of women face to face immediately.
Well-said

Even if the rejection rate is high, the fact she's already right there in front of us eliminates a giant hurdle found on apps (and as you said, cold approaches are just lol)
 
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I'd say just approaching outside is better, if that never works then I doubt women speed dating will magically like you
As a man who's been to many organized singles events (and gotten turned down nearly every single time at events), the idea isn't to make foids magically like me

The idea is to approach foids in a setting where I know for a fact it's socially and legally acceptable to approach her (and I know for a fact she's single/looking)

If I'm going to get turned down close to 100% of the time no matter what, I'd rather fail in a controlled environment than a fully organic environment
 
As a man who's been to many organized singles events (and gotten turned down nearly every single time at events), the idea isn't to make foids magically like me

The idea is to approach foids in a setting where I know for a fact it's socially and legally acceptable to approach her (and I know for a fact she's single/looking)

If I'm going to get turned down close to 100% of the time no matter what, I'd rather fail in a controlled environment than a fully organic environment
It's better to fail in a non controlled environment it will build more character
 
I ended up getting 2 actual dates after shooting my shot with maybe 100 foids at speed dating events

Still better results than apps or meeting foids through day-to-day life
Bro damn I’m LTN and get 99 plus matches and shi how chopped are yall
 
As a man who's been to many organized singles events (and gotten turned down nearly every single time at events), the idea isn't to make foids magically like me

The idea is to approach foids in a setting where I know for a fact it's socially and legally acceptable to approach her (and I know for a fact she's single/looking)

If I'm going to get turned down close to 100% of the time no matter what, I'd rather fail in a controlled environment than a fully organic environment
Yeah cold approaching feels like a humiliation ritual. Speed dating eliminates all the problems with cold approach. No approach anxiety, no awkwardness, and you don't even have to deal with rejection since they simply just don't circle your nickname at the end.
 
if you are mtn+ it will work for you
 
Bro damn I’m LTN and get 99 plus matches and shi how chopped are yall
I'm a HTN (but an autist)

With an age of 34 (soon to be 35)
 
Yeah cold approaching feels like a humiliation ritual. Speed dating eliminates all the problems with cold approach. No approach anxiety, no awkwardness, and you don't even have to deal with rejection since they simply just don't circle your nickname at the end.
A majority of the events I've been to don't have a sheet to check off

So you're still subjected to realtime rejection. Yet at least it's in a controlled environment where they're expecting to get approached
 
if you are mtn+ it will work for you
Technically true (because this HTN has gotten 2 dates from organized singles events, even if those 2 dates were a year apart)
 
You're not getting a criminal record for asking a women out dude
Of course not

Yet I can't read "stop" cues (which puts me at risk of a criminal record)

When I was 21, some foid threatened to rat me out if I sent her even 1 more message (because I failed to read "stop" cues a NT man would have read)
 
I'm a HTN (but an autist)

With an age of 34 (soon to be 35)
Oh damn bro it must be bad, I’m ND as fuck but I feel I’d do much better but I look much worse
 

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Oh damn bro it must be bad, I’m ND as fuck but I feel I’d do much better but I look much worse
You look like you haven't aged into oldcel territory yet

You might do better than me
 

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