STEAL HIS GIRL?

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My friend went through a “getting-to-know-you phase” with a girl from school. He sometimes showed me their chat logs, and it was pretty clear from them that she just didn't want to hurt him and wasn't actually interested in him. My friend gradually realized that too and just stopped texting her (waiting for her to text him first). I've asked him a few times if it's over with them, but he's always just given me vague answers. The thing is, I really like her too.

After he stopped messaging her, I messaged her once..she was pretty open and seems interested, too. What should I do? I’m not really close with this friend, but can I just go ahead and “steal” his “girl”?

Thank you
 
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Elaborate on what u mean by “not really close”
 
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Elaborate on what u mean by “not really close”
Well, we've known each other for two years. We met through a group of friends, but I still see him every day—though we only talk in front of the group.
 
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Well, we've known each other for two years. We met through a group of friends, but I still see him every day—though we only talk in front of the group.
I mean I would go for it unless the entire group starts hating on u after, also just explain that u like her too, if he is a real friend he would understand
 
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Well, we've known each other for two years. We met through a group of friends, but I still see him every day—though we only talk in front of the group.
Tbh dont do it if you are not willing to marry her type shi or know her character very well because you might become a joke and lose your friendship too
 
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I mean I would go for it unless the entire group starts hating on u after, also just explain that u like her too, if he is a real friend he would understand
No he would not understand bro a real friend would think you betrayed him
 
Talk to him about it, see what he think's don't be surprised if he get's mad tho, explain the whole situation to him if he's against it just leave her alone ngl
 
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No he would not understand bro a real friend would think you betrayed him
No, it’s not like he’s purposefully doing this to hurt his friend, he has to justify his actions and tell his friend before hand
 
Talk to him about it, see what he think's don't be surprised if he get's mad tho, explain the whole situation to him if he's against it just leave her alone ngl
Idk about that because he might never be able to trust him again and maybe starts talking shi about him behind his back
 
No, it’s not like he’s purposefully doing this to hurt his friend, he has to justify his actions and tell his friend before hand
Bro i dont know but the guy would get jealous and would be in the thought of why not me and might get really mad at him and i am saying you should not risk a fight with your closed ones for a bitch whose character you dont know
 
I mean I would go for it unless the entire group starts hating on u after, also just explain that u like her too, if he is a real friend he would understand
Im gonna talk to him, Thank you
 
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Bro i dont know but the guy would get jealous and would be in the thought of why not me and might get really mad at him and i am saying you should not risk a fight with your closed ones for a bitch whose character you dont know
i agree, just sayin' get his hb's thought's if hes against it hes fucking against it bro if he's not let him take her
 
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Bro i dont know but the guy would get jealous and would be in the thought of why not me and might get really mad at him and i am saying you should not risk a fight with your closed ones for a bitch whose character you dont know
Well he said he’s not really close with this friend so idk
 
Tbh dont do it if you are not willing to marry her type shi or know her character very well because you might become a joke and lose your friendship too
Yea, well i dont really know her that much..I just thought shes cute…
 
I mean I would go for it unless the entire group starts hating on u after, also just explain that u like her too, if he is a real friend he would understand
Yea, ur right. I really cant predict how he will react… I guess i have to find out
 
Yea, well i dont really know her that much..I just thought shes cute…
I would say dont risk your image because image is more important than anything in this world if he gets jealous of you he would make rumours and try to get you out of relationships
 
Yea, ur right. I really cant predict how he will react… I guess i have to find out
Dont do it now first get the girls opinion what if she does not like you too and is just being mice?
 
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You could just ask him if he would be cool with letting you have a go at it, since you said that it seems like he knows it's not gonna work out between them anyways. I think he could interpret it as a sign of respect that you care about if he'd feel hurt if you try to get with her.
 
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Dont do it now first get the girls opinion what if she does not like you too and is just being mice?
yea, we text a lot.. maybe i should ask her, if shes still getting to know my friend??
 
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You could just ask him if he would be cool with letting you have a go at it, since you said that it seems like he knows it's not gonna work out between them anyways. I think he could interpret it as a sign of respect that you care about if he feels hurt if you try to get with her.
peak video btw
 
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My friend went through a “getting-to-know-you phase” with a girl from school. He sometimes showed me their chat logs, and it was pretty clear from them that she just didn't want to hurt him and wasn't actually interested in him. My friend gradually realized that too and just stopped texting her (waiting for her to text him first). I've asked him a few times if it's over with them, but he's always just given me vague answers. The thing is, I really like her too.

After he stopped messaging her, I messaged her once..she was pretty open and seems interested, too. What should I do? I’m not really close with this friend, but can I just go ahead and “steal” his “girl”?

Thank you
most girls are open in the beginning
 
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You could just ask him if he would be cool with letting you have a go at it, since you said that it seems like he knows it's not gonna work out between them anyways. I think he could interpret it as a sign of respect that you care about if he'd feel hurt if you try to get with her.
Bro i think thats hits worse when someone is getting something you were not able to get but its just me tho
 
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You could just ask him if he would be cool with letting you have a go at it, since you said that it seems like he knows it's not gonna work out between them anyways. I think he could interpret it as a sign of respect that you care about if he'd feel hurt if you try to get with her.
Yea, you are right. The problem is just that i dont know how he will react… Have to find out anyway..
 
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My friend went through a “getting-to-know-you phase” with a girl from school. He sometimes showed me their chat logs, and it was pretty clear from them that she just didn't want to hurt him and wasn't actually interested in him. My friend gradually realized that too and just stopped texting her (waiting for her to text him first). I've asked him a few times if it's over with them, but he's always just given me vague answers. The thing is, I really like her too.

After he stopped messaging her, I messaged her once..she was pretty open and seems interested, too. What should I do? I’m not really close with this friend, but can I just go ahead and “steal” his “girl”?

Thank you
It’s just up to u how evil u r
 
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Bro i think thats hits worse when someone is getting something you were not able to get but its just me tho
Yeah he could get jealous, but if he is that type then if he isn't overly agreeable he'll say "I'm not really comfortable with that, it'd feel humiliating" and then OP just says "That's understandable bro, I'll let her be". Like I feel like I'd feel respected if a friend/acquaintance would double check with me like that
 
Yea, you are right. The problem is just that i dont know how he will react… Have to find out anyway..
I think it'll work out dw honestly. It sounded like you were afraid of that happening but you're mitigating that risk if you just ask.
 
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