Stop telling men to “put themselves out there”

[SharpOrange]

It's not that easy, stop making it sound easy. You act like you just go out and people will be willing to talk to you, NOBODY WANTS TO TALK TO SOMEONE THAT NO ONE ELSE IS TALKING TO. ITS THE WHOLE REASON WOMEN ARE MORE ATTRACTED TO MEN WHO ARE ALREADY WITH OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE HUMANS WILL NOT TRUST ANOTHER HUMAN WITHOUT THEM BEING TRUSTED BY SOMEONE ELSE FIRST. And if you ended up having no friends? Be real with men that get to this place it'll be a long and lonely road that might come to a dead end. Acting like you can just go to places and people will talk to you just because they might have some overlap in interests doesn't help anyone. Just because youre both there playing pool doesn't mean anyone will ever talk to you, want to talk to you or want to keep talking to you. Telling men to just go out and spend their money alone and end up alone is literally telling them to go play slots, if I wanted to waste my money and feel bad about it afterwards I'd just go play slots. Be real with men that when we get here it's gonna be very tough and you'll have to harden your heart to any sensitivity of any kind, any sensitivity will lead to bigger cracks in the emotional barrier that renders the onslaught of thwarted belongingness meaningless. Keep strong and going on and one day if you have money when your old enough you can look into building a social circle from long term occupational networks. Highschool, university, and early working years you should ignore socializing at all as if you've already gotten to this point that working your way out of it will take away from everything important that you need to even be alive or enjoy life on your own completely without any socializing first so that when you do get to that the rejections won't mean anything as you already have what makes you somewhat happy so it won't be as painful. I feel a lot of the Reddit advice of just "putting yourself out there" genuinely gets a lot of men to off themselves.

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[1966Ford]

Reminds me of this Rehab Room video

 

[SussyBakaBoi]

good advice lwk

most people are incels because their nd

mtn+ would benefit from putting themselves out

 

[Darkeningstar]

Dnrd, but +1 because i like gracie

 

[pentamogged9000]

imagine being a girl
you can literally go and talk to anyone in public and have a good time
if you try as an average man you will get police called

 

[Iraniancel]

i have seen this exact post like 100 times now

 

[Primalsplit]

Lol you need to touch grass.