Stop trying so hard with women

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you need to stop trying so hard with women

just stop overthinking it

Either she likes you or she doesn’t

As long as you’re attractive and have a genuinely busy life with goals and aspirations and a strong mental model with your trauma addressed everything will fall into place

stop worrying about double texting, ghosting, being left on seen, her ignoring you, mixed signals

Just detach. Only focus on having a good time and meeting your needs. I mean it. Don’t use this as a strategy to get more women, what I mean is just genuinely and truly say whatever you feel like and accept the fact that she’s not yours at all and ever and if she chooses to be it’s just temporary like eating a meal.

“What if I’m lonely and don’t end up with anyone etc”

You need to expose yourself to so much stress you simply don’t care anymore. if you’re fighting for your life trying to ascend and lifemaxxxing hard this thought won’t matter
 
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stop worrying about double texting, ghosting, being left on seen, her ignoring you, mixed signals
women are secondary to your purpose and mission in life
 
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women are secondary to your purpose and mission in life
yes

But a lot of men cope with this and pretend this is true whilst hoping that using this model gets them women

It only works when you TRULY believe it and follow it. like it is not used as a way to get laid and appear macho but when you actually follow it

“I will pursue my dream because it’s masculine and women will want me more” wrong

“I will pursue my dream because I truly want my dream more than anything” better
 
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you need to stop trying so hard with women

just stop overthinking it

Either she likes you or she doesn’t

As long as you’re attractive and have a genuinely busy life with goals and aspirations and a strong mental model with your trauma addressed everything will fall into place

stop worrying about double texting, ghosting, being left on seen, her ignoring you, mixed signals

Just detach. Only focus on having a good time and meeting your needs. I mean it. Don’t use this as a strategy to get more women, what I mean is just genuinely and truly say whatever you feel like and accept the fact that she’s not yours at all and ever and if she chooses to be it’s just temporary like eating a meal.

“What if I’m lonely and don’t end up with anyone etc”

You need to expose yourself to so much stress you simply don’t care anymore. if you’re fighting for your life trying to ascend and lifemaxxxing hard this thought won’t matter
i used to have a girlfriend she left me cuz i treated her too well then after 1 week she starts dating a gymcel manlet shorter than her with a negative canthal tilt:forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
 
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i used to have a girlfriend she left me cuz i treated her too well then after 1 week she starts dating a gymcel manlet shorter than her with a negative canthal tilt:forcedsmile::forcedsmile::forcedsmile:
detach and/or utilise negative emotion to ascend, there is no other way
 
detach and/or utilise negative emotion to ascend, there is no other way
i am not bad looking man neither i am a manlet i lack of social skills like alot i got 2 friends and nothing else
 
yes

But a lot of men cope with this and pretend this is true whilst hoping that using this model gets them women

It only works when you TRULY believe it and follow it. like it is not used as a way to get laid and appear macho but when you actually follow it

“I will pursue my dream because it’s masculine and women will want me more” wrong

“I will pursue my dream because I truly want my dream more than anything” better
true
if your reasoning for pursuing your dream is for female recognition then you are still a slave to their attention ultimately
 
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Some cope, some truth, 5.5/10
 
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> As long as you’re attractive
(If you attractive)
> just stop overthinking it
> stop worrying about
> Just detach

Just be jaded Chad bro)
Thank you for so thoughtful advice, it is helpful asf.

You need to expose yourself to so much stress you simply don’t care anymore.

It simply won't work that way. feedback loops, innate sensitivity to social rejection, and other neurobiological stuff.
 
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Just be jaded Chad bro)
Thank you for so thoughtful advice, it is helpful asf.



It simply won't work that way. feedback loops, innate sensitivity to social rejection, and other neurobiological stuff.
just overcome feedback loops by winning theory
 
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you need to stop trying so hard with women

just stop overthinking it

Either she likes you or she doesn’t

As long as you’re attractive and have a genuinely busy life with goals and aspirations and a strong mental model with your trauma addressed everything will fall into place

stop worrying about double texting, ghosting, being left on seen, her ignoring you, mixed signals

Just detach. Only focus on having a good time and meeting your needs. I mean it. Don’t use this as a strategy to get more women, what I mean is just genuinely and truly say whatever you feel like and accept the fact that she’s not yours at all and ever and if she chooses to be it’s just temporary like eating a meal.

“What if I’m lonely and don’t end up with anyone etc”

You need to expose yourself to so much stress you simply don’t care anymore. if you’re fighting for your life trying to ascend and lifemaxxxing hard this thought won’t matter
I’ve always thought of as you going in with the intention of just being friends and if you do that you’ll be fine
 
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