struggle with fitting in

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ntstephn

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no matter what i do even after losing 30 pounds being around mtn and average height im still the same person people always see me like a npc i have little to no freinds at school some out of school. i get no girls ive only kissed one girl at the age of 16. i get inivited to things but i usually stay in because im scared of people will think of me. i wonder if this was caused due to bp or just how i always been. anyone got any advice it would help
 
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Kind of same issue w me, try to find someone who is as you and build friendship w him
 
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Start activating your hunter eyes whenever somebody looks at you. This will signal your genetic dominance to them and make you seem more approachable and friendly, hope this helps:p.
 
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Start activating your hunter eyes whenever somebody looks at you. This will signal your genetic dominance to them and make you seem more approachable and friendly, hope this helps:p.
kys you fucking jester
 
get over what other people think of you and make a goal to hangout with people more
you’re right but it’s so hard no matter what drugs i’m on the only thing is i’m thinking is what others think
 
i get inivited to things but i usually stay in because im scared of people will think of me.
start going until you no longer get the opportunity.
 
first your weird then ur the blueprint
im genuinely the weirdest guy in the whole school. but everyone likes me and girls actually show intrest.
trust me, just be yourself
 
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first your weird then ur the blueprint
im genuinely the weirdest guy in the whole school. but everyone likes me and girls actually show intrest.
trust me, just be yourself
you’re prob just attractive or funny bro if i was being my real self they would fucking hate me
 
you’re prob just attractive or funny bro if i was being my real self they would fucking hate me
nah im MTN at best. trust me unless u look like this
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you dont have to worry
being urself has a price that most ppl wont like it, but you will find a group of ppl who enjoy spending time with you even if its a small grp of ppl.
trust quality over quantity
 
nah im MTN at best. trust me unless u look like this View attachment 4798764 you dont have to worry
being urself has a price that most ppl wont like it, but you will find a group of ppl who enjoy spending time with you even if its a small grp of ppl.
trust quality over quantity
I have a small group, but I’m sick of being a loser. Who sits inside all day or doing stupid shit with my friends I wanna be known and I wanna look good.
 
I have a small group, but I’m sick of being a loser. Who sits inside all day or doing stupid shit with my friends I wanna be known and I wanna look good.
dude go outside, hit the gym
just live in solitude. sometimes lonelyness is the cure
learn new shit, pick up new hobbies, i know its hard but its gonna ascend you hella
you dont need ppl to like you
 
dude go outside, hit the gym
just live in solitude. sometimes lonelyness is the cure
learn new shit, pick up new hobbies, i know its hard but its gonna ascend you hella
you dont need ppl to like you
you’re right
 
i get inivited to things but i usually stay in because im scared of people will think of me
try a low dose of shrooms next time you go to a func/gathering easy low inhib method
 
no matter what i do even after losing 30 pounds being around mtn and average height im still the same person people always see me like a npc i have little to no freinds at school some out of school. i get no girls ive only kissed one girl at the age of 16. i get inivited to things but i usually stay in because im scared of people will think of me. i wonder if this was caused due to bp or just how i always been. anyone got any advice it would help
What I typically do is look at people like they are objects and anything they say or do is useless and they are just chess pieces. This works for me because it removes emotions that I have to take from like and turns people into a game. Just try to find every persons “click” and become the person they want you to be. May sounds fuckdd but only you deserve to know your real self. You don’t owe anything to anyone lol
 
What I typically do is look at people like they are objects and anything they say or do is useless and they are just chess pieces. This works for me because it removes emotions that I have to take from like and turns people into a game. Just try to find every persons “click” and become the person they want you to be. May sounds fuckdd but only you deserve to know your real self. You don’t owe anything to anyone lol
psychopath maxxing wtf, OP legit just start putting yourself out there, ig where ur coming from but trying in social settings hurts a lot less than sitting indoors w/ no friends doing nothing, if you get invited go
 
psychopath maxxing wtf, OP legit just start putting yourself out there, ig where ur coming from but trying in social settings hurts a lot less than sitting indoors w/ no friends doing nothing, if you get invited go
psychopath maxxing wtf, OP legit just start putting yourself out there, ig where ur coming from but trying in social settings hurts a lot less than sitting indoors w/ no friends doing nothing, if you get invited go
I go out sometimes I just think others are useless
 
no matter what i do even after losing 30 pounds being around mtn and average height im still the same person people always see me like a npc i have little to no freinds at school some out of school. i get no girls ive only kissed one girl at the age of 16. i get inivited to things but i usually stay in because im scared of people will think of me. i wonder if this was caused due to bp or just how i always been. anyone got any advice it would help
same bro, its brutal, try to find something you enjoy doing, and for the getting invited part. just go you only live once who gives a fuck what people think about you, some people never get invited and are truly socially isolated
 
You get invited but don’t go, i understand how you feel about being perceived weirdly but most likely it’s in ur head just go and get drunk or whatever so u don’t feel so weird and get used to it
 

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