Struggling approaching a girl

[9ragl]

There's this girl at my gym that I find really cute, I see her at the gym once in a while. Every time I see her I really want to approach her and talk to her, but I can't get myself to do it. I'm always overthinking it and I'm afraid I'll get rejected or mess up, It's really starting to get to me. Just to be clear, my looks are fine and I'm not ugly in any means but there's just something in me that's stopping me.

I really want to get over this feeling and become better in that aspect.

Any tips?

 

[silvannerGrey]

do it what's the worst that could happen besides extreme humiliation.

 

[9ragl]

do it what's the worst that could happen besides extreme humiliation.

I mean, at the end of the day you're right. Just need to find the courage

 

[silvannerGrey]

I mean, at the end of the day you're right. Just need to find the courage

get drunk before for that false confidence

 

[9ragl]

get drunk before for that false confidence

It would help but bro at the gym? jfl

 

[9ragl]

bump

 

[9ragl]

bump

 

[them streets b cold]

If you wanna talk just talk what is the big deal?

 

[9ragl]

If you wanna talk just talk what is the big deal?

anxiety is restraining me

 

[justtrynalookgood]

There's this girl at my gym that I find really cute, I see her at the gym once in a while. Every time I see her I really want to approach her and talk to her, but I can't get myself to do it. I'm always overthinking it and I'm afraid I'll get rejected or mess up, It's really starting to get to me. Just to be clear, my looks are fine and I'm not ugly in any means but there's just something in me that's stopping me.

I really want to get over this feeling and become better in that aspect.

Any tips?

just go up and talk to her the worst she can say is "ew ew ew squish it squish it"

 

[silvannerGrey]

It would help but bro at the gym? jfl

What's wrong with being drunk at the gym? I'm sure a lot of people do it

 

[9ragl]

just go up and talk to her the worst she can say is "ew ew ew squish it squish it"

Yeah.. yeah, luckily I don't live in the worst place for cold approaching ig

 

[9ragl]

What's wrong with being drunk at the gym? I'm sure a lot of people do it

Highly doubt it

 

[4ken]

There's this girl at my gym that I find really cute, I see her at the gym once in a while. Every time I see her I really want to approach her and talk to her, but I can't get myself to do it. I'm always overthinking it and I'm afraid I'll get rejected or mess up, It's really starting to get to me. Just to be clear, my looks are fine and I'm not ugly in any means but there's just something in me that's stopping me.

I really want to get over this feeling and become better in that aspect.

Any tips?

build up the courage with a plan and cold approach her, you never know till you try yk.

 

[justtrynalookgood]

Yeah.. yeah, luckily I don't live in the worst place for cold approaching ig

yeah, then go ahead and ask her out if you're not that bad looking then the only thing stopping you is your anxiety which you should ignore as much as you can

 

[αяєѕση]

go up to here and be like "excuse me miss i just thought u were really beautiful and i'm a nuerodivergent bull"

 

[9ragl]

go up to here and be like "excuse me miss i just thought u were really beautiful and i'm a nuerodivergent bull"

Made me laugh lol

 

[9ragl]

yeah, then go ahead and ask her out if you're not that bad looking then the only thing stopping you is your anxiety which you should ignore as much as you can

Sure thing