stuck in the rat race

[Scandinavianincel]

i just wake up and go to school, hoping that some girls will approach me, but they never do so i just hang around with the sub-5 squad (friends) all day.

and when i get home i just sit and rot on org, wasting my life away and studying.

what can i do with my life to make it fun again.

I swear in summer i had the best time of my life, went to festivals, had a gf, drank w the boys every weekend. And now its just miserable.

wake up->school-> home to rot and study-> sleep and repeat

relatable?

 

[Scandinavianincel]

bump

 

[Foreverbrad]

Just wait for work, it’s WAY worse.

 

[muhammad18347]

Nah not really relatable

 

[Scandinavianincel]

Just wait for work, it’s WAY worse.

atleast i would be making money, i already have a plan wher i will make 200 grand a year, working 2 weeks on 4 weeks off

 

[xzylecrey]

I never had the fun life so i cant help you maybe ask your friends to go out more and maybe start talking to more girls if your not nd

 

[btb]

I hate youngcels who complain about school

School only lasts for a really short time, its not hard at all and you can see your friends all day

The real matrix starts after school, retarded faggot

 

[xzylecrey]

atleast i would be making money, i already have a plan wher i will make 200 grand a year, working 2 weeks on 4 weeks off

WOAH

 

[Foreverbrad]

atleast i would be making money, i already have a plan wher i will make 200 grand a year, working 2 weeks on 4 weeks off

Shit that will never happen. Every time you make a future plan the opportunity is gone by the time you can actually execute.

 

[Scandinavianincel]

I hate youngcels who complain about school

School only lasts for a really short time, its not hard at all and you can see your friends all day

The real matrix starts after school, retarded faggot

let me complain about whatever i want to complain about

 

[Scandinavianincel]

Shit that will never happen. Every time you make a future plan the opportunity is gone by the time you can actually execute.

if you knew me personally i would respect this. but you don't really know who i am or who i know to make me achive this. Its ez

 

[btb]

if you knew me personally i would respect this. but you don't really know who i am or who i know to make me achive this. Its ez

Whats the method then

 

[Scandinavianincel]

Whats the method then

it's not a method, its just good old good grades and me knowing people who vouch for me.

 

[btb]

it's not a method, its just good old good grades and me knowing people who vouch for me.

Yea but in what field can you work 2 weeks on 4 weeks off for 200 racks??

You dont need good grades for blue collar, if youre talking about that

 

[Klasik616]

i just wake up and go to school, hoping that some girls will approach me, but they never do so i just hang around with the sub-5 squad (friends) all day.

and when i get home i just sit and rot on org, wasting my life away and studying.

what can i do with my life to make it fun again.

I swear in summer i had the best time of my life, went to festivals, had a gf, drank w the boys every weekend. And now its just miserable.

wake up->school-> home to rot and study-> sleep and repeat

relatable?

It's worse when you're an adult and you don't have a job, it's like end game.

 

[Scandinavianincel]

Yea but in what field can you work 2 weeks on 4 weeks off for 200 racks??

You dont need good grades for blue collar, if youre talking about that

working at an oil rig and climbing up the ranks, and then restudying ti become a welder on my 4 weeks off. and you need almost straight A's both years of studying to have the opportunity. Which i have. Why are you telling me what grades i need for the line of work im pursuing when you know nothing about it?

 

[kiannnn]

i just wake up and go to school, hoping that some girls will approach me, but they never do so i just hang around with the sub-5 squad (friends) all day.

and when i get home i just sit and rot on org, wasting my life away and studying.

what can i do with my life to make it fun again.

I swear in summer i had the best time of my life, went to festivals, had a gf, drank w the boys every weekend. And now its just miserable.

wake up->school-> home to rot and study-> sleep and repeat

relatable?

sub5 squad

 

[Foreverbrad]

working at an oil rig and climbing up the ranks, and then restudying ti become a welder on my 4 weeks off. and you need almost straight A's both years of studying to have the opportunity. Which i have. Why are you telling me what grades i need for the line of work im pursuing when you know nothing about it?

I work in this industry lol. Good luck is all I can say. With nepotism you may achieve it but 2 on 4 off is an extremely generous schedule I’ve never seen.

 

[Scandinavianincel]

I work in this industry lol. Good luck is all I can say. With nepotism you may achieve it but 2 on 4 off is an extremely generous schedule I’ve never seen.

2 weeks on 4 weeks off is the most common schedule in norway

 

[Foreverbrad]

2 weeks on 4 weeks off is the most common schedule in norway

Brutal 2/2 here in UK. With 12 hours shifts.

 

[Scandinavianincel]

Brutal 2/2 here in UK. With 12 hours shifts.

daang, its fine tho u have a good job

rep me pretty please

 

[Foreverbrad]

daang, its fine tho u have a good job

rep me pretty please

I don’t have a good job, since my company restructured I’m pigeonholed into onshore design engineering, no more possibility of field engineering. Which means I only get my base salary of £42k. Brutal.

Your plan to go technical rather than education/engineering is the right one. I wouldn’t be surprised if with Starlink even the field engineers get stuck onshore on a quarter of their old pay providing remote support.

 

[Scandinavianincel]

I don’t have a good job, since my company restructured I’m pigeonholed into onshore design engineering, no more possibility of field engineering. Which means I only get my base salary of £42k. Brutal.

Your plan to go technical rather than education/engineering is the right one. I wouldn’t be surprised if with Starlink even the field engineers get stuck onshore on a quarter of their old pay providing remote support.

i have basically guaranteed job offshore if i keep up my good grades and get 1 more job to have on my application

 

[dalialite]

ur being too passive, ur js waiting for shit to happen. The comparison between summer and winter is unfair and u associate ur homelife with rotting. Once summer ended, nothing replaced it. Hoping girls will approach u is a losing strategy, not bc your unattractive (maybe i dunno ) but bc most girls simply js dont approach first, ur school dynamics are static and the waiting makes u invisible. Ur outsourcing meaning to random validation. Summer was fun bc things were planned, weekends had anchors and u had something to look forward to, so recreate that artificially. Go to the gym/sauna on fixed days, leave the house, take classes, join clubs, training, make music or volunteer. If nothing is planned, ur brain goes numb. Ur negative association with ur home is lethal, so study at the library or a cafe instead of ur room, dont scroll until you've gone for a walk or gone to the gym, put ur phone in another room for an hour, u dont need discipline, u need an environment change. Stop waiting to be chosen, u dont need girls to approach u to feel validated. Action restores self-respect; u need to train, build something, learn a skill or talk to anyone new. Value momentum over validation. Movement attracts attention, stillness repels it. Ur not miserable bc life is bad. Ur miserable bc something good ended. Ur grieving, not failing.

 

[Scandinavianincel]

ur being too passive, ur js waiting for shit to happen. The comparison between summer and winter is unfair and u associate ur homelife with rotting. Once summer ended, nothing replaced it. Hoping girls will approach u is a losing strategy, not bc your unattractive (maybe i dunno ) but bc most girls simply js dont approach first, ur school dynamics are static and the waiting makes u invisible. Ur outsourcing meaning to random validation. Summer was fun bc things were planned, weekends had anchors and u had something to look forward to, so recreate that artificially. Go to the gym/sauna on fixed days, leave the house, take classes, join clubs, training, make music or volunteer. If nothing is planned, ur brain goes numb. Ur negative association with ur home is lethal, so study at the library or a cafe instead of ur room, dont scroll until you've gone for a walk or gone to the gym, put ur phone in another room for an hour, u dont need discipline, u need an environment change. Stop waiting to be chosen, u dont need girls to approach u to feel validated. Action restores self-respect; u need to train, build something, learn a skill or talk to anyone new. Value momentum over validation. Movement attracts attention, stillness repels it. Ur not miserable bc life is bad. Ur miserable bc something good ended. Ur grieving, not failing.

yeah i was kind of dragging it a lil. i still go out every weekend to the clubs, and i always approach girls with a high success rate, but its not fun on the weekdays. and i dont wanna judge myself to bad but i think im pretty good looking, butr i dont expect girls to approach me at school but i always want it to happen jfl

 

[Scandinavianincel]

ur being too passive, ur js waiting for shit to happen. The comparison between summer and winter is unfair and u associate ur homelife with rotting. Once summer ended, nothing replaced it. Hoping girls will approach u is a losing strategy, not bc your unattractive (maybe i dunno ) but bc most girls simply js dont approach first, ur school dynamics are static and the waiting makes u invisible. Ur outsourcing meaning to random validation. Summer was fun bc things were planned, weekends had anchors and u had something to look forward to, so recreate that artificially. Go to the gym/sauna on fixed days, leave the house, take classes, join clubs, training, make music or volunteer. If nothing is planned, ur brain goes numb. Ur negative association with ur home is lethal, so study at the library or a cafe instead of ur room, dont scroll until you've gone for a walk or gone to the gym, put ur phone in another room for an hour, u dont need discipline, u need an environment change. Stop waiting to be chosen, u dont need girls to approach u to feel validated. Action restores self-respect; u need to train, build something, learn a skill or talk to anyone new. Value momentum over validation. Movement attracts attention, stillness repels it. Ur not miserable bc life is bad. Ur miserable bc something good ended. Ur grieving, not failing.

thanks for advice tho, good reply.

 

[dalialite]

yeah i was kind of dragging it a lil. i still go out every weekend to the clubs, and i always approach girls with a high success rate, but its not fun on the weekdays. and i dont wanna judge myself to bad but i think im pretty good looking, butr i dont expect girls to approach me at school but i always want it to happen jfl

happy for you son