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[Leo69]

Check it out yourself. It's actually surprising. It's like I found my people on here. Amazing posts on here.

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[Leo69]

 

[Indo_Chad]

OLD is cope for oldcels or basement rotters. IRL mogs the hell out of swiping on 200 body counts tinder thots hoping you get a chance to beat the roast beef

Just be there theory is the thing that have worked for me the best. These tinder/bumble thots are just there for either getting ig followers or getting validation (anyone who has ever talked to an attractive girl knows this) or for fucking a rare af giga chad/ticktokesq prettyboy. Most attractive, decent non thot girls choose from their social circle (A social circle HTN >>> Tinder chad).

Just be out there, Instapill and Be atleast HTN and you will get pussy easy especially in America

 

[Moggie]

tagging the bull and not me

 

[Leo69]

tagging the bull and not me

I forgot lol.

 

[Meteor21]

Bookmarked

 

[Leo69]

OLD is cope for oldcels or basement rotters. IRL mogs the hell out of swiping on 200 body counts tinder thots hoping you get a chance to beat the roast beef

Just be there theory is the thing that have worked for me the best. These tinder/bumble thots are just there for either getting ig followers or getting validation (anyone who has ever talked to an attractive girl knows this) or for fucking a rare af giga chad/ticktokesq prettyboy. Most attractive, decent non thot girls choose from their social circle (A social circle HTN >>> Tinder chad).

Just be out there, Instapill and Be atleast HTN and you will get pussy easy especially in America

That’s possible for you, but what I can say is that OLD is life changing when you get it working and right. @Niko69 is proof of this and my Chad friend actual Chad in looks who mogs me by a decent amount! He got way stronger results thanks to OLD than IRL and it’s not even close. It seems the experience was rough for you but it’s actually great for many people especially when done right. I’m telling you this and many people had decent experiences from it who aren’t even Chads lol.

 

[bleksandre]

Just don’t expose smilepill, thank you

 

[Indo_Chad]

That’s possible for you, but what I can say is that OLD is life changing when you get it working and right. @Niko69 is proof of this and my Chad friend actual Chad in looks who mogs me by a decent amount! He got way stronger results thanks to OLD than IRL and it’s not even close. It seems the experience was rough for you but it’s actually great for many people especially when done right. I’m telling you this and many people had decent experiences from it who aren’t even Chads lol.

I know, Tinder is low effort pussy but I am a MENA dude in a Southern conservative state. The local white women (who makes up like 99% of tinder/bumble demographic) are mostly conservative Christians and won't go for me as it would wreck havoc in their families. I mostly go for white latinas/white passing middle eastern or white girls from Europe/liberal states studying in my college.

Its the reason I don't do well on any dating platform as the local Christian white girls just left swipe my profile to hell so much so that it doesn't even ends up showing to other women who would have no problem being with a MENA.

I am a locationcel but I do just fine IRL so no complaints.

 

[Leo69]

Just don’t expose smilepill, thank you

I saw few comments of people recommending others to smile in their photos as basic advice so not sure lol.

I know, Tinder is low effort pussy but I am a MENA dude in a Southern conservative state. The local white women (who makes up like 99% of tinder/bumble demographic) are mostly conservative Christians and won't go for me as it would wreck havoc in their families. I mostly go for white latinas/white passing middle eastern or white girls from Europe/liberal states studying in my college.

Its the reason I don't do well on any dating platform as the local Christian white girls just left swipe my profile to hell so much so that it doesn't even ends up showing to other women who would have no problem being with a MENA.

I am a locationcel but I do just fine IRL so no complaints.

Nice, but all I’m saying is that people who do OLD can do very well. That’s great that you do IRL though. Mostly do social circle and IG or bars and clubs? What’s your IRL strategy if you can share? True, but that religion stuff is for relationship unless thats what your looking for. Can just avoid that if just hooking up I guess lol.

 

[Indo_Chad]

I saw few comments of people recommending others to smile in their photos as basic advice so not sure lol.

Nice, but all I’m saying is that people who do OLD can do very well. That’s great that you do IRL though. Mostly do social circle and IG or bars and clubs? What’s your IRL strategy if you can share? True, but that religion stuff is for relationship unless thats what your looking for. Can just avoid that if just hooking up I guess lol.

TAKE THE INSTAPILL

Instagram is a better dating app than most dating apps as it has better ratio of male to female (have more female) and girls are almost always gonna meet (very low to no flaking) Its basically social circle-maxxing but online as you can hit up girls you vaguely know or had encountered...

looksmax.org

this ^^

 

[Leo69]

TAKE THE INSTAPILL

Instagram is a better dating app than most dating apps as it has better ratio of male to female (have more female) and girls are almost always gonna meet (very low to no flaking) Its basically social circle-maxxing but online as you can hit up girls you vaguely know or had encountered...

looksmax.org

this ^^

I saw that so another form of OLD and I know about the IG pill. Sort of another way of OLD if you would like to put it for some. I prefer OLD, but it’s good to use Insta as an alternative though.

 

[Deleted member 21620]

Bump

 

[Leo69]

Bump

Thanks lol. @Niko69, thanks for being active on that subreddit. Spread the elo pill. You are truly a good guy my man! I mean that.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Be atleast HTN

its over

 

[FootballPlaya69]

OLD is cope for oldcels or basement rotters. IRL mogs the hell out of swiping on 200 body counts tinder thots hoping you get a chance to beat the roast beef

Just be there theory is the thing that have worked for me the best. These tinder/bumble thots are just there for either getting ig followers or getting validation (anyone who has ever talked to an attractive girl knows this) or for fucking a rare af giga chad/ticktokesq prettyboy. Most attractive, decent non thot girls choose from their social circle (A social circle HTN >>> Tinder chad).

Just be out there, Instapill and Be atleast HTN and you will get pussy easy especially in America

Retarded

 

[Deleted member 18840]

OLD is cope for oldcels or basement rotters. IRL mogs the hell out of swiping on 200 body counts tinder thots hoping you get a chance to beat the roast beef

Just be there theory is the thing that have worked for me the best. These tinder/bumble thots are just there for either getting ig followers or getting validation (anyone who has ever talked to an attractive girl knows this) or for fucking a rare af giga chad/ticktokesq prettyboy. Most attractive, decent non thot girls choose from their social circle (A social circle HTN >>> Tinder chad).

Just be out there, Instapill and Be atleast HTN and you will get pussy easy especially in America

And how to create a social circle post uni?

 

[the BULL]

galaxy elo is like a winning lottery ticket. he won't be able to recreate it most likely. i've seen some chad tinder on tik tok and he had 800 likes / matches which seems more reasonable

 

[the BULL]

tagging the bull and not me

what you mean you don't even have tinder

 

[Leo69]

galaxy elo is like a winning lottery ticket. he won't be able to recreate it most likely. i've seen some chad tinder on tik tok and he had 800 likes / matches which seems more reasonable

@Niko69, do you think this is true? Yeah, I can agree on those levels of likes and results as those are reasonable and doable, but galaxy elo that is Niko level. That sounds like a winning lottery ticket.

 

[the BULL]

And how to create a social circle post uni?

you don't. tinder mogs post uni. if i lived in a serious city i would have already got an ltr off it

 

[Deleted member 12234]

OLD is cope for oldcels or basement rotters. IRL mogs the hell out of swiping on 200 body counts tinder thots hoping you get a chance to beat the roast beef

Just be there theory is the thing that have worked for me the best. These tinder/bumble thots are just there for either getting ig followers or getting validation (anyone who has ever talked to an attractive girl knows this) or for fucking a rare af giga chad/ticktokesq prettyboy. Most attractive, decent non thot girls choose from their social circle (A social circle HTN >>> Tinder chad).

Just be out there, Instapill and Be atleast HTN and you will get pussy easy especially in America

lol. just say you don't get matches.. OLD will always mog over going out as an attractive guy.

 

[Indo_Chad]

lol. just say you don't get matches.. OLD will always mog over going out as an attractive guy.

I dont I have already mentioned this plenty of times before and I have even explained the reason in this thread. If you are a basement rotter or someone who is invisible IRL then online dating probably mogs but everyone have different things going for them.

And how to create a social circle post uni?

Well, it is incredibly hard and honestly depends on you situation but you dont have to have a social circle just to get non-thot girls. The biggest thing is just be there, the more exposure to girls the easier it gets (as you will not be invisible IRL like most users here)

What helped me get into social circles when I had internships in other states, I just live in off-campus student housing and befriend my roommates (have to look for people who look like they go out and aren't some KHHV nerd, even better if the people you live with are MENA.), just be friendly and invite them to do stuff

 

[Deleted member 2382]

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[Deleted member 12234]

I dont I have already mentioned this plenty of times before and I have even explained the reason in this thread. If you are a basement rotter or someone who is invisible IRL then online dating probably mogs but everyone have different things going for them.

The cope is strong. It's all about logistics and respecting your time. Let's see, if you're on tinder, you know for a fact 90% of women are on there for a reason, if you exclude time wasters and IG/OF thots. They're there to fuck and hookup with attractive dudes. In the time it takes you to get in your car and drive to your local club or whatever social event, I could swipe through 50+ women and secure enough matches to get a hookup that night or use all the women you've matched with in the past to find someone to hang out with. All within 30 mins. Tinder even has a feature (Explore Tab) where you can find people to hook up with the same day (girls will use this). Going out to events, 50% of women are off limits (excluding cheaters) since they're in relationships. You're also limited to the specific event. Like if the event only has 100 people, 50% of those will be men (it's prob higher at clubs) and another 50% will be In relationships. Leaving you with just 25 women (who you also have to compete with other MTNs-chads for). Just lol at going up to every fucking woman at a social event like a thirsty dog hoping she'll give you iois just to have a chance to fuck. When I could literally go on tinder and meet someone to fuck in less than 30 minutes. But it's really only dudes who never experienced being attractive who will never understand this lifestyle. I've had chicks who offered to meet up literally minutes after matching trying to get some dick. It's an entirely different world my guy. It's rare for a woman to go home with a dude at a social event unless she's drunk ( which is a rape case) and has no friends with her (gotta worry about cockblocking friends too).

 

[Wallenberg]

Tinder definitely mogs offline approaching. Tinder is a way more convenient way to meet new women than offline.

Tinder is just more hypergamous than IRL due to all chads on tinder, women's risk aversion, and the paradox of choice.

 

[Indo_Chad]

The cope is strong. It's all about logistics and respecting your time. Let's see, if you're on tinder, you know for a fact 90% of women are on there for a reason, if you exclude time wasters and IG/OF thots. They're there to fuck and hookup with attractive dudes. In the time it takes you to get in your car and drive to your local club or whatever social event, I could swipe through 50+ women and secure enough matches to get a hookup that night or use all the women you've matched with in the past to find someone to hang out with. All within 30 mins. Tinder even has a feature (Explore Tab) where you can find people to hook up with the same day (girls will use this). Going out to events, 50% of women are off limits (excluding cheaters) since they're in relationships. You're also limited to the specific event. Like if the event only has 100 people, 50% of those will be men and another 50% will be In relationships. Leaving you with just 25 women (who you also have to compete with other MTNs-chads for). Just lol at going up to every fucking woman at a social event like a thirsty dog hoping she'll give you iois just to have a chance to fuck. When I could literally go on tinder and meet someone to fuck in less than 30 minutes. But it's really only dudes who never experienced being attractive who will never understand this lifestyle. I've had chicks who offered to meet up literally minutes after matching trying to get some dick. It's an entirely different world my guy. It's rare for a woman to go home with a dude at a social event unless she's drunk ( which is a rape case) and has no friends with her (gotta worry about cockblocking friends too).

Firstly I never said tinder is bad or not worth it, I have always said its ez low effort pussy but its not my thing.

As I said everyone have different things going for them. I have a very robust social life and do just fine with it.

I have had good success with getting girls ez through club for ez ONS and social circles/instapill for LTR. I live very close to campus and the clubs I used to go to was like right next to it (5 min walking distance)

+ Why would anyone try to catch pussy at a normal event?

But it's really only dudes who never experienced being attractive who will never understand this lifestyle

Bit narcy arent you?

Fucking low class toilet cleaner latinas or 200 body count bitches isn't really something to brag about buddy boyo. I mainly go for HQNP's and would never wanna touch a tinder thot with a 10 feet pole who would just call guys they match with to get dicked infact I avoid girls like that like the plague

If you are happy with what you have going on then good for you, I am satisfied with what I get.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

OLD is cope for oldcels or basement rotters. IRL mogs the hell out of swiping on 200 body counts tinder thots hoping you get a chance to beat the roast beef

Just be there theory is the thing that have worked for me the best. These tinder/bumble thots are just there for either getting ig followers or getting validation (anyone who has ever talked to an attractive girl knows this) or for fucking a rare af giga chad/ticktokesq prettyboy. Most attractive, decent non thot girls choose from their social circle (A social circle HTN >>> Tinder chad).

Just be out there, Instapill and Be atleast HTN and you will get pussy easy especially in America

Im a HTN and my online experiences mog irl

 

[Indo_Chad]

Im a HTN and my online experiences mog irl

@MentalcelTyronelite
Yeah it would I never said tinder is bad, its low effort pussy. I personally wouldn't want to be with a girl who is on dating apps to begin with (for obv reasons) so I have my own views and I put more effort IRL to get better options

For ONS I stick to clubs as I do well there whenever I go

 

[makeme183]

Tinder even has a feature (Explore Tab) where you can find people to hook up with the same day (girls will use this)

based reply
can you elab on this explore feature ? is it different from the normal swipe deck ?

 

[Deleted member 12234]

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can you elab on this explore feature ? is it different from the normal swipe deck ?

Yep. It's basically a sort of tag system where tinder will only show you people with those tags (and the people are usually actively swiping). There's a ton of tags on the explore tab too but I mainly use the hookup ones because women are usually DTF that exact same night. I got a ton of hookups using this lol. Here's a video explaining it:


Edit: he talks about the hookup ones at 03:30

 

[makeme183]

There's a ton of tags on the explore tab too but I mainly use the hookup ones because women are usually DTF that exact same night. I got a ton of hookups using this lol. Here's a video explaining it:

This is gonna be a gamechanger since you won't waste your swipes on non DTF girls
you can also keep a neutral bio and not risk getting left swiped by most girls,rather than trying to be sexual to attract only DTF girls @JOJOcel
regarding hookups , do you feel safe calling the girl over straight to your place/going to her place without meeting up in public first ?
what if she turns out to be a gay guy/scammer/psychopath ?

 

[Deleted member 17448]

This is gonna be a gamechanger since you won't waste your swipes on non DTF girls
you can also keep a neutral bio and not risk getting left swiped by most girls,rather than trying to be sexual to attract only DTF girls @JOJOcel
regarding hookups , do you feel safe calling the girl over straight to your place/going to her place without meeting up in public first ?
what if she turns out to be a gay guy/scammer/psychopath ?

I've been told before to come directly to the girl's place and I did it lol (I sent the direction to one of my friends in the case someone wanted to kill me lol). I never invite directly to my place because I want to see how she truly looks and what vibes she has. It's very easy for me to invite them to a bar 2min walking distance from my house and if everything is right invite her to my place.

Didn't know that tinder function existed, gonna check it now.

 

[Deleted member 17448]

And unless you can back up your tinder account with crazy status, you won't be fucking the same quality you would in a bar or club. This is the ultimate truth.

 

[makeme183]

I've been told before to come directly to the girl's place and I did it lol (I sent the direction to one of my friends in the case someone wanted to kill me lol)

isn't that even more riskier ? (a scammer wouldn't wanna waste time and money ubering to the guy's place,he would just wait like a funnel web spider for guys to walk into his lair)
Although I have to admit I have been guilty of doing it as well(don't do it anymore unless I already met up the girl for coffee first)
I remember watching some true crime show where they showed a serial killer who used to pretend to be a girl online to torture and kill guys who turned up at his place

 

[makeme183]

And unless you can back up your tinder account with crazy status, you won't be fucking the same quality you would in a bar or club. This is the ultimate truth.

yeah true , from my experience you generally fuck girls 1-2 points below your PSL/SMV from online,rarely your looksmatch or higher

 

[Deleted member 12234]

This is gonna be a gamechanger since you won't waste your swipes on non DTF girls
you can also keep a neutral bio and not risk getting left swiped by most girls,rather than trying to be sexual to attract only DTF girls @JOJOcel
regarding hookups , do you feel safe calling the girl over straight to your place/going to her place without meeting up in public first ?
what if she turns out to be a gay guy/scammer/psychopath ?

My rule is that I ALWAYS facetime/talk otp with a chick first before meeting up. Some guys may see this as tedious but it's worth it to avoid crazy chicks/catfishes. And it personally benefits me even more since women know I'm not some weirdo either lol. I honestly don't know how people meet up with other people without talking OTP/facetiming first tbh.

 

[Leo69]

My rule is that I ALWAYS facetime/talk otp with a chick first before meeting up. Some guys may see this as tedious but it's worth it to avoid crazy chicks/catfishes. And it personally benefits me even more since women know I'm not some weirdo either lol. I honestly don't know how people meet up with other people without talking OTP/facetiming first tbh.

Damn, that's what's up right there. It's true though if you can't vibe facetime, then might be pointless for IRL. How long you facetime usually? What's your text game strategy from first message to facetime? You go from hey, what you looking for? If not casual or smash, then unmatch or? I'm impressed by your responses.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Damn, that's what's up right there. It's true though if you can't vibe facetime, then might be pointless for IRL. How long you facetime usually? What's your text game strategy from first message to facetime? You go from hey, what you looking for? If not casual or smash, then unmatch or? I'm impressed by your responses.

Usually try to FaceTime for about 10-15 mins but sometimes the Convo is so good that you can go on for like an 30 mins to an hour (or more) lol.. and those are usually the girls who want to meet up asap since they feel super comfy with you now.

And I personally never unmatch unless the woman is obviously fishing for Instagram followers or is an OF thot (or if the chick is crazy). I always keep chicks in the back burner, even if we arent entirely compatible.

I have two ways to vet someone. The first is the vibe check to make sure she's compatible and not one of those annoying ass feminist types or too bitter. She has to be laid-back and flirty-ish. I do this by just asking them about themselves blah blah. Then after that I ask what they want, etc etc. Then if I see we are compatible + want something casual, I ask to speak OTP or FaceTime. They usually always say yes since they already past the vibe check through texting. Then if the Convo when facetiming is good, the chick (or I do if she's shy) usually offers to hang out sometime (code for DTF). Like I said, with the longer convos the chick usually wants to meet right away, like the same day or next day. Idk why but it's like women feel like they're emotionally invested in you once you talk to them OTP and you both get vibe well.

 

[makeme183]

My rule is that I ALWAYS facetime/talk otp with a chick first before meeting up. Some guys may see this as tedious but it's worth it to avoid crazy chicks/catfishes. And it personally benefits me even more since women know I'm not some weirdo either lol. I honestly don't know how people meet up with other people without talking OTP/facetiming first tbh.

That's good , but that still won't save you from a girl who is working with a scammer(like bonnie and clyde lmao) or an escort who will ask for money after sex , right ?

 

[Leo69]

Usually try to FaceTime for about 10-15 mins but sometimes the Convo is so good that you can go on for like an 30 mins to an hour (or more) lol.. and those are usually the girls who want to meet up asap since they feel super comfy with you now.

And I personally never unmatch unless the woman is obviously fishing for Instagram followers or is an OF thot (or if the chick is crazy). I always keep chicks in the back burner, even if we arent entirely compatible.

I have two ways to vet someone. The first is the vibe check to make sure she's compatible and not one of those annoying ass feminist types or too bitter. She has to be laid-back and flirty-ish. I do this by just asking them about themselves blah blah. Then after that I ask what they want, etc etc. Then if I see we are compatible + want something casual, I ask to speak OTP or FaceTime. They usually always say yes since they already past the vibe check through texting. Then if the Convo when facetiming is good, the chick (or I do if she's shy) usually offers to hang out sometime (code for DTF). Like I said, with the longer convos the chick usually wants to meet right away, like the same day or next day. Idk why but it's like women feel like they're emotionally invested in you once you talk to them OTP and you both get vibe well.

True, which is why important to facetime to avoid problems when meeting up, agreed.

Agreed on that one.

Agreed, and yeah ask them about themselves. Typical stuff. I agree on that for chicks more invested once you talk to them OTP or FaceTime who you vibe well with. You have any problems of girls meeting up or gone into any worse scenarios? Everything of your experience was good? Any thing to look out for? Just curious based on your experience.

 

[Leo69]

That's good , but that still won't save you from a girl who is working with a scammer(like bonnie and clyde lmao) or an escort who will ask for money after sex , right ?

That's why you vibe out in FaceTime and check through their IG. Reputation and all that. If get that situation, then tough luck really lol. Want to make sure you meeting and if they have good vibes. Just common sense for most part. What do you think @MentalcelTyronelite?

 

[makeme183]

And I personally never unmatch

yeah I never unmatch as well , i read somewhere that tinder punishes you by decreasing your elo if you unmatch girls
but you also lose elo if a girl unmatches you
So I always had this doubt , is it better for you to unmatch first ,or wait and get unmatched ?

Then after that I ask what they want, etc etc. Then if I see we are compatible + want something casual,

I thought girls got pissed of if guys asked them "what they want/what they are looking for" ? apparantly every guy asks them this
I remember seeing this screenshot by a girl on r/tinder , where the guy asked her what she was looking for , and she replied - "to punch the next person in the face who asks me this " lmao

Idk why but it's like women feel like they're emotionally invested in you once you talk to them OTP and you both get vibe well.

that's because she knows you're real and someone she can relate to,rather than just a face on the app
also,its already known that a deep voice attracts a lot of girls,so bonus points if you have that

 

[Leo69]

yeah I never unmatch as well , i read somewhere that tinder punishes you by decreasing your elo if you unmatch girls
but you also lose elo if a girl unmatches you
So I always had this doubt , is it better for you to unmatch first ,or wait and get unmatched ?

I thought girls got pissed of if guys asked them "what they want/what they are looking for" ? apparantly every guy asks them this
I remember seeing this screenshot by a girl on r/tinder , where the guy asked her what she was looking for , and she replied - "to punch the next person in the face who asks me this " lmao

that's because she knows you're real and someone she can relate to,rather than just a face on the app
also,its already known that a deep voice attracts a lot of girls,so bonus points if you have that

Lol, yeah for the what looking for stuff is so funny because it's just to save and not waste time. I think girls want guys to ask them questions, beat around the bush, and just waste time before getting to the point. Most guys just want to know their intentions to get straight to the point and avoid wasting time it seems like. That's my guess on that, but yeah instead of what you looking for? What else would you ask a girl to get to that intention without being around the bush too much? Lol.

 

[makeme183]

That's why you vibe out in FaceTime and check through their IG.

the facetime idea can backfire if you have a busted camera/laggy internet/bad camera angle and you end up losing 1-2 PSL points as a result
its a known fact that selfies distort your face to some degree
Also,anyone can make an IG ,just put 8 pics,buy some followers and you're golden

But I agree that common sense is very important , also maybe I'm being paranoid as well

 

[makeme183]

Lol, yeah for the what looking for stuff is so funny because it's just to save and not waste time. I think girls want guys to ask them questions, beat around the bush, and just waste time before getting to the point. Most guys just want to know their intentions to get straight to the point and avoid wasting time it seems like. That's my guess on that, but yeah instead of what you looking for? What else would you ask a girl to get to that intention without being around the bush too much? Lol.

I think being too straightforward isn't a good idea if you aren't chad , even DTF girls get turned off by overtly sexual guys

I don't even ask girls what they are looking for,my MO is
1.get her number as fast as possible (within 4-5 texts),ghost her if she doesn't comply(don't settle for IG/snap either) - screens out the time wasters,insta follower seekers,girls who aren't actually interested in you
2.once she gives number, I meet up for coffee ASAP (nothing fancy,so that you don't get fleeced by the tinderellas)
3.Few days later,I hit her up and suggest netflix and chill
I generally aim for sex on the 2nd date , if that doesn't happen,I ghost them

 

[Leo69]

the facetime idea can backfire if you have a busted camera/laggy internet/bad camera angle and you end up losing 1-2 PSL points as a result
its a known fact that selfies distort your face to some degree
Also,anyone can make an IG ,just put 8 pics,buy some followers and you're golden

But I agree that common sense is very important , also maybe I'm being paranoid as well

Agreed, which is why you make sure ahead of time to avoid situations like that prior to facetiming. Get a good angle and lightning that doesn't distort your face to some degree and camera from a distance instead of real close in a good position.

That's true for the IG, but still what can you do. There is always a chance. Need to take risks in life or else will be boring lol. That's too much overthinking as well. You can sort of vibe and tell if the IG seems quite legit or not in a way.

Yeah, can see that you are paranoid. Not sure why is that. Are you a virgin or have a high slay count? Doesn't sound like it, no offense. Lol.

 

[Leo69]

I think being too straightforward isn't a good idea if you aren't chad , even DTF girls get turned off by overtly sexual guys

I don't even ask girls what they are looking for,my MO is
1.get her number as fast as possible (within 4-5 texts) - screens out the time wasters,insta follower seekers,girls who aren't actually interested in you
2.once she gives number, I meet up for coffee ASAP
3.Few days later,I hit her up and suggest netflix and chill
I generally aim for sex on the 2nd date , if that doesn't happen,I ghost them

You are right about straightforward, but sometimes straightforward to girls you don't feel like trying or wasting time. Can also take things slow by having longer texts, then get to the point.

Respect for the 2nd date sex. I respect that. Coffee date for first, then netflix and chill. You surprised me in this reply.

 

[makeme183]

Respect for the 2nd date sex. I respect that. Coffee date for first, then netflix and chill. You surprised me in this reply.

yeah man,after seeing innumerable chadfish experiments where girls are ready to fuck chads on the first date itself,why the hell should I take her on 5 dates ?
the coffee date isn't to impress her , its to show that I'm not a serial killer/retard/creepy guy , if we aren't fucking on the 2nd date,she was never physically attracted to me to begin with,and probably never will
I'll never simp

 

[Leo69]

yeah man,after seeing innumerable chadfish experiments where girls are ready to fuck chads on the first date itself,why the hell should I take her on 5 dates ?
I'll never simp

Damn right. If you taking her at 5 dates. Consider yourself done for lol. At most 3 at this point if she is really hot and your type with showing potential interest.