Surgery is a coping mechanism.

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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.


I'm not telling anyone not to have surgery, just to be clear, I don't want to be misunderstood.
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
Niga how can't u save 6k~10k it's not that hard
 
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. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally
makeup being one of the best ways to fraud disproves this:feelshah:
 
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you are still you after surgery. cope thread
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
Yes, money is an issue, but the feeling of unhapiness and inferiority is not correct. The feeling of inferiority will disappear with the surgeries as your identified problems are fixed. Make sure to never tell anyone about your cosmetic surgeries. As the rule goes: You do not talk about Looksmaxxing to outsiders.
 
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Yes, money is an issue, but the feeling of unhapiness and inferiority is not correct. The feeling of inferiority will disappear with the surgeries as your identified problems are fixed. Make sure to never tell anyone about your cosmetic surgeries. As the rule goes: You do not talk about Looksmaxxing to outsiders.
Having to hide this for your entire life makes you feel bad.
 
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Having to hide this for your entire life makes you feel bad.
It may or may not, but that is not important. What is important are the results you receive from these cosmetic enhancements, such as more confidnence and better reactions from other individuals (women). Women will finally like you, so your goal has been achieved.
 
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What were you trying to say?
anti-surgery is retarded. just accept being subhuman instead of being smart enough to get surgery theory.

u haven't actually made a single point besides posting ur subjective feelings on surgery.

u are also your brain telling u to get surgery. why reject that?
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
back to the turkish sub nigga
 
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anti-surgery is retarded. just accept being subhuman instead of being smart enough to get surgery theory.

u haven't actually made a single point besides posting ur subjective feelings on surgery.

u are also your brain telling u to get surgery. why reject that?
I didn’t say that I’m against surgery. I’m just saying that even after surgery, we still can’t change our genetics or our past, and we’ll never be as happy as those who were born with it naturally.
 
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I didn’t say that I’m against surgery. I’m just saying that even after surgery, we still can’t change our genetics
why would those genetics u just "fixed" with surgery matter afterwards?
or our past,
u gotta move on or rot in the past, so doesn't matter
and we’ll never be as happy as those who were born with it naturally.
u'd value ur looks way more especially once u mog them making u feel even better. also most users are probably just ltn/mtn that just don't get as much attention but aren't literal bully victims. no real abused dog syndrome
 
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What even is the objective of discussions like these? Why do you gain pleasure from encouraging others not to do surgery for flaws?
 
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why would those genetics u just "fixed" with surgery matter afterwards?

u gotta move on or rot in the past, so doesn't matter

u'd value ur looks way more especially once u mog them making u feel even better. also most users are probably just ltn/mtn that just don't get as much attention but aren't literal bully victims. no real abused dog syndrome
Based asf
 
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why would those genetics u just "fixed" with surgery matter afterwards?
There’s no such thing as “fixing genetics.” Even if we successfully complete all surgeries, marriage is important, because we won’t stay this attractive forever. Also, from an evolutionary perspective, what matters is passing our lineage into the future. If we get married, our child will resemble our original, pre-surgery state. If you’re not going to get married, then the attractiveness you have between ages 20 and 30 won’t last forever either. It’s a double-edged sword.
no real abused dog syndrome
From everyone I’ve known on this forum so far, most of them are dealing with serious issues about their appearance. They have problems that go far beyond just not being able to have sex or wanting more attention.
 
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What even is the objective of discussions like these? Why do you gain pleasure from encouraging others not to do surgery for flaws?
I’m not telling anyone not to get cosmetic surgery. This is a discussion thread, and my goal isn’t to spread pessimism to anyone either.
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
we can't completely forget past experiences, but we can ignore them or try to move on from it

surgery is not meant for everyone ofc but it could be life changing for many
 
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if you arent ashamed of fucking a girl with hundred layers of makeup, you shouldnt be ashamed of having titanium plates in your face aswell.

people care if you look good, not that if its fake or not.
 
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we can't completely forget past experiences, but we can ignore them or try to move on from it

surgery is not meant for everyone ofc but it could be life changing for many
yeah thats true
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
Do you agree that steroids are as much of a cope as surgery
 
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Do you agree that steroids are as much of a cope as surgery
I used to research surgery a lot and spent quite some time in the cosmetic surgery section giving advice to people, so my knowledge about surgery isn’t bad. As for steroids, I haven’t researched them at all.
 
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I used to research surgery a lot and spent quite some time in the cosmetic surgery section giving advice to people, so my knowledge about surgery isn’t bad. As for steroids, I haven’t researched them at all.
I’m making a comparative rhetorical statement here I don’t want a actual answer
 
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Even without surgery, you’re still most likely coping either with money, being a jester, or being a placeholder till Chad/tyrone make their inevitable return. It’s about being pure chosen for your look and nothing else. It’s about being the best option in her eyes. With the basically dystopian dating reality we’re in, you have to do whatever it takes to ascend.
 
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Even without surgery, you’re still most likely coping either with money, being a jester, or being a placeholder till Chad/tyrone make their inevitable return. It’s about being pure chosen for your look and nothing else. It’s about being the best option in her eyes. With the basically dystopian dating reality we’re in, you have to do whatever it takes to ascend.
Bro, I want to get surgery too. I just wanted to present a different perspective.
 
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Bro, I want to get surgery too. I just wanted to present a different perspective.
I get what you’re saying tho, and I also have that belief too, even if you hardmaxx the hole in your soul won’t go away.
 
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I get what you’re saying tho, and I also have that belief too, even if you hardmaxx the hole in your soul won’t go away.
Yes, that’s all I wanted to say. But people understood it as “don’t get surgery, just LDAR.”
 
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Good thread bro :Chadge:
 
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Yes, that’s all I wanted to say. But people understood it as “don’t get surgery, just LDAR.”
We don’t need surgery tbh, scamza said if we gymcel and tell ourselves “I’m Adonis” in the mirror 100x a day we too can get a subhuman ogre girl. :lul:
 
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We don’t need surgery tbh, scamza said if we gymcel and tell ourselves “I’m Adonis” in the mirror 100x a day we too can get a subhuman ogre girl. :lul:
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ong bro i feel NO DOPAMINE whatsoever anymore since registering here even tho i ascended a bit and actually had foids speak to me irl
 
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You can't just bolt bits onto an incel skull and look much different anyway it's all genetics
 
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u gotta move on or rot in the past, so doesn't matter
W mindset
people stuck in the past are destined for mediocrity.
especially as a man you're supposed to do what's needed to succeed REGARDLESS of how you feel.
 
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if u cant softmax ur way till htn its OVER
 
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Insufficient autism detected.
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
what about surgeries that just correct problems you had in development, like maybe you had extractions and braces that narrowed your palate and recessed you so then you correct that, effectively you're just becoming what you were "meant to look like".

I feel like that's easier to cope with than having implants in your face.
 
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But yeah i agree with this post, having some random jew surgeon character-customize your skull is not going to make you feel fulfilled, only softmaxxing can truly improve your life without having you feel like a fraud.
 
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why would those genetics u just "fixed" with surgery matter afterwards?
Imagine being treated like a subhuman your whole life and now after paying 30k for a jaw surgery people start liking you and wanting to be around you. It's a double edged sword, of course you'll be happy that you're not getting pissed on anymore but at the same time its brutal knowing that the only reason you're being treated well now is because your jaw was moved into a new position. Experiencing this could easily turn any normal person nihilistic.

Being blissfully ignorant to the importance of looks is a good way to lead a happy life, and that comes from being born htn+
If you're ugly then surgery is definitely needed but these people won't be 100% fulfilled afterwards.
 
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They’ll start saying “water” and talking shit as soon as it leaves the thread — even if it’s been discussed a hundred times, I want to talk about it.


Actually, I’m going to talk about how everything is genetic and how surgery is basically empty / pointless.

Friends, most of us — like 90% — will never earn the money needed for the surgeries we want. We already agree on that. But that’s not even the main point. The real issue is this: even if we did get that money, it still wouldn’t matter. A person — especially a man — feels happy when he’s liked naturally, without doing anything. Because then he can say: “I didn’t have to do anything. I didn’t put in any effort. I was born this way. I was born special.” That makes him feel good, valuable, confident — because he knows he was born for it.

But what happens when all the surgeries are done and girls like us then? Does that feeling of inferiority really disappear? Does all the mental damage we’ve carried our whole lives just vanish because 2–3 MTB foids rub their ass on us? Even if all girls like us, won’t we still know deep down that we’re artificial, that we weren’t born for this? Surgery is one of the biggest copes, and genetics is everything.




If you were born inferior once, it’s over.
Brookie
 
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Imagine being treated like a subhuman your whole life and now after paying thousands for a jaw surgery people start liking you and wanting to be around you. It's a double edged sword, of course you'll be happy that you're not getting pissed on anymore but at the same time its brutal knowing that the only reason you're being treated well now is because your jaw was moved into a new position. Experiencing this could easily turn any normal person nihilistic.

Being blissfully ignorant to the importance of looks is a good way to lead a happy life, and that comes from being born htn+
If you're ugly then surgery is definitely needed but these people won't be 100% fulfilled afterwards.
It’s literally the summary of my thread, thank you.
 
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